Does he just want sex?

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RickShafer

RickShafer

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Listen, there are no apologies due here.
I've made them to JessicaMae.
What was the accusser's name?
"Nodoff"?
"Nodyourheadifyourlikeher"?
"Noddinghamforest"?
What was her name?

"Notforprimetime"?
"Notpromptwithbible'?
"Notknowledgable"?
"Notknowinganythingoutsideofhis/herself"?

What's in a name?
Well, what's in an accusation.

I apologize to "notuptome", - he had nothing to do with the preceding bloodbath.
- - Only the sharks did.
 
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Ugly

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Nothing troll-ish to see here. Just waiting 4 days to resurrect a dead thread to be insulting to people and throw accusations at them as bad as the ones he's guilty of. Nothing troll-ish to see here. Keep moving. Ma'am, no, please stop feeding the troll. They will bite your head..err.. hand off. Move along folks....
 
seoulsearch

seoulsearch

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RickShafer said:
Listen, there are no apologies due here.
I've made them to JessicaMae.
What was the accusser's name?
"Nodoff"?
"Nodyourheadifyourlikeher"?
"Noddinghamforest"?
What was her name?

"Notforprimetime"?
"Notpromptwithbible'?
"Notknowledgable"?
"Notknowinganythingoutsideofhis/herself"?

What's in a name?
Well, what's in an accusation.

I apologize to "notuptome", - he had nothing to do with the preceding bloodbath.
- - Only the sharks did.
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To be fair, it was my post that probably started the riot, so in all fairness, I'll accept the fallout because it wasn't Nod's fault. I always try my best to accept responsibility for my actions, as well as the reactions that come with it. Your anger is probably meant to be directed towards me and not so much her, and I understand that. I don't want to see someone else take the blame for something that was probably my fault and not hers.

If you get to know her, NodMyHeadLikeYeah is a great person--she's encouraged me through many hard times, and was one of the first people here on CC to welcome and befriend me. I'm proud to say that she is still my friend to this day, and the longer I know her, the more I respect her.

The thing I admire most about Nod is that she's a very straightforward person. You always know where you stand with her. And, despite the trials of this life, she has an awesome faith.

Rick, I do apologize for sounding harsh. I have a tendency to state what I'm thinking and I know that's probably not the best way to go about things.

Thank you for your honest statements. I'm someone who would rather hash it out, no matter how ugly, than cover up with prettied insincerity.

I appreciate your forthrightness. And, I wish you the best.
 
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kenthomas27

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RickShafer said:
Listen, there are no apologies due here.
I've made them to JessicaMae.
What was the accusser's name?
"Nodoff"?
"Nodyourheadifyourlikeher"?
"Noddinghamforest"?
What was her name?

"Notforprimetime"?
"Notpromptwithbible'?
"Notknowledgable"?
"Notknowinganythingoutsideofhis/herself"?

What's in a name?
Well, what's in an accusation.

I apologize to "notuptome", - he had nothing to do with the preceding bloodbath.
- - Only the sharks did.
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Her name's NodMyHeadLikeYeah and she can take care of herself but frankly there budrow, when you hit on somebody publically, you're liable to get publically hit back.
 
RickShafer

RickShafer

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Ugly said:
Nothing troll-ish to see here. Just waiting 4 days to resurrect a dead thread to be insulting to people and throw accusations at them as bad as the ones he's guilty of. Nothing troll-ish to see here. Keep moving. Ma'am, no, please stop feeding the troll. They will bite your head..err.. hand off. Move along folks....
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Ugly...... you are the troll of trolls.
You told her to wait 10 years and call you.
That little girl offered to chat with me to prove she was the same as her picture.
(Would a predator refuse that?)
I said no!
Why, - because I'm not on this site to flirt, or to chat with women, or to find a mate.
You called me a creep, yet I showed her the gospel in the same correspondence........
You are indeed the troll of trolls,....and the reason I don't answer any of your posts.
- - But keep accusing.
 
RickShafer

RickShafer

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kenthomas27 said:
Her name's NodMyHeadLikeYeah and she can take care of herself but frankly there budrow, when you hit on somebody publically, you're liable to get publically hit back.
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Oh, frankly budrow;.....like you are saying something?
Say it again Yosemite! - (Hint - She already did - - - -SAM - - - That's why I called her out already - - - )
- With the filth of the king of trolls.....
 
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Richie_2uk

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In the first line of your post, you clearly stated that. This guy has made it very clear that he wants to have sex. and he is trying his upmost best to get you interested, through hints, and suggestions. even though you clearly stated and told him that you don't want it, and not with him. I think its Clear what he wants, and until he starts being a gentleman. then I suggest you start to keep away from him. But pray from in the mean time. Not all guys! but a lot will try to hint, suggest, even make up stories to wow you, and try to impress you, by lies and deceit. though I am not saying this is what he is doing. He maybe genuine about a few things he mentioned. But if sex is his driving force, his first thing in life? then, I suggest you stop talking to him, and tell him, that you don't want to talk because of his actions. He is not putting your requests into consideration. Just his. I personally, would not speak to him again. Pray for him, and leave it to God to deal with him.
 
RickShafer

RickShafer

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Listen, I'm not interested in conversing with accusers.

JessicaMae, Your man will come to you before you know it.
Not over the internet, but personal.
There are no perfect men, but there are perfect matches.
You will know it; and so will he.
- 'Oh! But what if you know it and he doesn't!'
-- 'Oh! What if he knows it but you don't??!!'
Don't worry about it.......
- - - In it's time it will happen.

Case closed.
Piece O' Cake to God the Father,
God bless.

- (Disregard the mess of this thread........ - Jesus is real, and He is showing you already)
 
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Rev_Brandon_2013

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JessicaMae said:
This guy has made it very clear that he wants to have sex and we have only been talking a few days. I have basically flat out told him he is not having sex with me, multiple times. Anytime he starts to mention sex or anything I tell him it is not gonna happen and he quits talking or hinting at it for a while. A lot of times when he brings up sex though he does it in a 'sweet' way like first i have to win your heart and other things along those line. He is really pushing me to hang out with him but I am very hesitant because I don't want to be pushed beyond what I want, because I know people can get caught up in the moment. He is very sweet and I don't think he would push beyond it, and i know he would stop if I told him to. But the fact that it is constantly on his mind makes me question his motives. Let me just add he is in the National Guard and just got back from duty. So it might be built up tension from being on duty for so long? I don't know...I'm just guessing. He also knows I'm a virgin, and likes to say witty remarks about it, trying to get me on the topic of sex. I know his friends are pushing him to have sex with me because they have liked me for a couple years now and whenever he is with his friends his texts and the way he talks kinda changes.
Does he just want sex? Should I quit talking to him or keep telling him how I feel about it and see if he quits. I don't know what to do, advice or anything would be awesome.
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" I see this kind of thing a lot as a minister. It sounds to me like sex is all that's on his mind the way that you described him in your message. What I would do if I were you, I would flat out ask him if he is in it to get to know you or if sex is all he wants. A lot of times, when confronted, you'll be able to tell by their expressions how their feeling and what their true answer is going to be. If he's just in it for sex, I would stop hanging out with him, but it could be a very good opportunity for you to witness to him. Explain to him God's views on sex and lust. Once you witness to him, it may make a change in his life. Praying for you. God Bless."


Romans 10:13 "For Whosoever calleth upon the name of the Lord, shall be saved."
 
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Ugly

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Rev_Brandon_2013 said:
" I see this kind of thing a lot as a minister. It sounds to me like sex is all that's on his mind the way that you described him in your message. What I would do if I were you, I would flat out ask him if he is in it to get to know you or if sex is all he wants. A lot of times, when confronted, you'll be able to tell by their expressions how their feeling and what their true answer is going to be. If he's just in it for sex, I would stop hanging out with him, but it could be a very good opportunity for you to witness to him. Explain to him God's views on sex and lust. Once you witness to him, it may make a change in his life. Praying for you. God Bless."


Romans 10:13 "For Whosoever calleth upon the name of the Lord, shall be saved."
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As has been pointed out, this situation has already been resolved.
 
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ServantStrike

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RickShafer said:
Ugly...... you are the troll of trolls.
You told her to wait 10 years and call you.
That little girl offered to chat with me to prove she was the same as her picture.
(Would a predator refuse that?)
I said no!
Why, - because I'm not on this site to flirt, or to chat with women, or to find a mate.
You called me a creep, yet I showed her the gospel in the same correspondence........
You are indeed the troll of trolls,....and the reason I don't answer any of your posts.
- - But keep accusing.
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Ugly never said that. He wasn't the one who said to wait a year and then have her call him. It wasn't me either. The 10 year number came when I said it was creepy for someone to suggest the OP contact him in a year with a near 10 year age gap. There was just witty banter on Ugly's part where he joked about how weird a 10 year age gap was.

If you're going to keep throwing stones, at least verify your aim.

And, now you're banned.

WHY do people seem to snap like this.

They get a few hundred (or in this case) a few thousand posts in and then BOOM, they take take offense to every thing.
 
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Catlynn

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This thread is still going?

....never mind. *butts out*
 
PopClick

PopClick

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I was going to ask if I could be the Grand Poobah of Trolls, since he was handing out titles, but I thought better of it.
 
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Ugly

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ServantStrike said:
Ugly never said that. He wasn't the one who said to wait a year and then have her call him. It wasn't me either. The 10 year number came when I said it was creepy for someone to suggest the OP contact him in a year with a near 10 year age gap. There was just witty banter on Ugly's part where he joked about how weird a 10 year age gap was.

If you're going to keep throwing stones, at least verify your aim.

And, now you're banned.

WHY do people seem to snap like this.

They get a few hundred (or in this case) a few thousand posts in and then BOOM, they take take offense to every thing.
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Actually, he's been trolling along for quite a while. I am surprised he lasted as long as he did. It kind of stinks, too, because i made a special picture just for this thread, and now he's gone and i can't use it. *pout
Oh well, there are plenty of trolls out there to use it on.
 
Oncefallen

Oncefallen

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PopClick said:
I was going to ask if I could be the Grand Poobah of Trolls, since he was handing out titles, but I thought better of it.
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:eek::eek:......................
 
CatHerder

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Ugly said:
Actually, he's been trolling along for quite a while. I am surprised he lasted as long as he did. It kind of stinks, too, because i made a special picture just for this thread, and now he's gone and i can't use it. *pout
Oh well, there are plenty of trolls out there to use it on.
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Oh, ME! ME!! Pick MEEEEEEEE!!!
 
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Tintin

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Weird, I always thought Rick had his head on straight (even if I did disagree with him at times), but this thread reads more like his head was rotating like an owl's!
 
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jimmydiggs

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Tintin said:
Weird, I always thought Rick had his head on straight (even if I did disagree with him at times), but this thread reads more like his head was rotating like an owl's!
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I was looking for a gif of a rotating head on a body, but this was better.


 
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