I totally agree. I think where it gets wonky is when you have couples alone together..that is wI will say this.. you are right, so many christian couples even, don't know they should pray together.. it's not the first thing they think of.. I have counseled 3 separate couples and the first thing I asked them" do you pray together" and the answer is always no.. that is so strange to me ..maybe because I have never been in a christian relationship outside of that recent one.. and in that one, we prayed together, he would call me before I went to sleep and pray with me.. and when we would hang out together at his place we always prayed together.. sometimes right when I got there and then before I left..
it was a habit.. and I think he started it..
and sometimes I would suggest to pray but it was very mutual..
the day we broke up, we stood face to face, put our foreheads together and prayed for one another..
sincerely..
and we never saw one another again but it was still something we did as christians..
Also you are SO right, we need to learn to interact with one another in group settings..
just wish there were more guys to girls in groups