you see what free choices does hmmm look at Solomon hmmmmmmmmmmmmm if anyone wants a wife or husband let God make the choice He knows what the future holds and whats best hmmmm
There is more than one possibility for this situation.
I mentioned that marriage was not necessarily arranged...in some yes but not in all situations.
You mentioned Samson, the first wife he chose he saw her and simply told his parents, bring her to me.
He, this man of God was allowed to choose.
In some situations it is a consolation.
If one is stumbling or acting improperly toward one they are engaged to but not yet married, what does the bible suggest the better alternative is than to burn with passion?
Wait
Or Marry
Or if a widow brings judgement upon herself for allowing her sensual desires to overcome her dedication to Christ, what is she permitted to do as a consolation for having broken her first pledge?
Burn with passion?
Or Marry?
God can and will lead two people together that are suitable,
as well one is allowed to even marry an unbeliever, though that is not using much wisdom.
Just when you think you've got it all figured out...Think again.