What Christian Men Are Looking For

[Donkeyfish07]

Jules thread asked for someone to PRAYERFULLY make a post about this, so I'm answering for all the guys.
All a man could ever want in a Christian woman is this:

1. She loves God, and puts God before everything and everyone else. This is not a cliche or the "expected" answer given just because it's an "acceptable" one. She sincerely has to want to please God with all her heart and all her mind.

2. She must sincerely want to be with you. She loves you, wants to spend ALOT of time with you, and is willing to put effort into showing you that she means it.

3. Can be trusted to be loyal, faithful, and isn't interested in the games "secular" women play. Is willing to be honest and work through any problems you may have as a couple.

That's all that any man wants. It may not be a complicated list but it definitely isn't easy to find in a woman. If it were, there wouldn't be any non-married males in the singles forum at all (Except for maybe myself.....and the other one or two of us that have given up on marriage).

 

[lav]

gosh, i hope above hope that all this is true.. and that there really are a lot of true Christian men out there, like this... because this is truly who i want to believe i am, and hope to be as a woman in this life. if it were this simple for both sides, things would work out SO much better.



it's REALLY rough for us females, too ! ! !

i'm so tried of the secular world and all it's losing games. ENOUGH.

<3

i mean rough.

i'm so tired of games, from both sides. !!!!!!!!!!!!!! DONE.

we ALL need God, desperately.

 

[Donkeyfish07]

gosh, i hope above hope that all this is true.. and that there really are a lot of true Christian men out there, like this... because this is truly who i want to believe i am, and hope to be as a woman in this life. if it were this simple for both sides, things would work out SO much better.



it's REALLY rough for us females, too ! ! !

i'm so tried of the secular world and all it's losing games. ENOUGH.

<3

i mean rough.

i'm so tired of games, from both sides. !!!!!!!!!!!!!! DONE.

we ALL need God, desperately.

I assure you it's true.....that's all any of us want. I know all of you ladies that fit the bill have your own set of frustrations. Like you said, we ALL need god desperately. We're 100% without hope in any way, shape, or form without God.

 

[lav]

and so it is !

 

[Nautilus]

i guess thats like mostly true. being attractive to your man doesnt hurt.

 

[lav]

of course the woman also needs to feel an attraction to the man in her life, let's not just stop at the overemphasized need for the female to be attractive to the male...

that is played out, man.
tired
of
hearing
it.

i just want to be myself. i think it's more attractive to be genuine, anyway.
you have no idea what it feels like to be a female in our generation(s) and how immense the pressure is to be 100 %
ON at all times.

how about just loving a woman because you love her, that's how a woman's confidence is fed and grows,
instead of being left to wither without affection and being expected to achieve the impossible standards of society and it's ridiculous emphasis on outer ' beauty. '

though i am not attacking you, and i don't pretend to know that when you use the term attractive, it only applies to outer beauty-

just try loving a woman , and see how much she grows/blossoms after just some acceptance by a male with a clean heart and right spirit-
you might be surprised.
you may even see her glow

 

[MySavior]

Im looking for heart, honor, respect and a good relationship with a Christian woman

 

[lav]

...sounds good. i'm just so tired of the obsessive emphasis on looks and surface perfection/glamor/youth/beauty --- which all fade in time, to some degree ( though many men and women can even grow in attractiveness, surprisingly- depending on their heart and sprit and soul )... no matter what woman a guy chooses to be with, or how youthful and young she is at the time, her outside appearance is going to change, and SO will his. and not always for the better ! ( though sometimes we do become more beautiful in certain ways, as we age )

i'm sorry if it seems like i'm ranting.. but this culture is screwed up, and it seems to spread into 'the church' and Christianity... and i just find it very redundant and tiresome and immature - though i'm not accusing anyone here of being this way specifically,... you start to notice the OBSESSION with image consciousness, especially being female- in this day and age.

and also the 'games' thing. so over it. you either like someone and have chemistry with them, or you don't. simple.

i'm not looking and i will never seek or look again. it's really all up to God for me, and i'm sure i have a lot more time to grow in confidence in the woman He wants me to be-
but i just have to say... burnt out on the games, and never will i play again.
if you like someone, say it. you don't have to go overboard... and let's all please still have our own independent lives and school/study/work/hobbies/friends and other platonic personal relationships... but games? i'm done.

be straightforward, or be gone!

 

[MySavior]

...sounds good. i'm just so tired of the obsessive emphasis on looks and surface perfection/glamor/youth/beauty --- which all fade in time, to some degree ( though many men and women can even grow in attractiveness, surprisingly- depending on their heart and sprit and soul )... no matter what woman a guy chooses to be with, or how youthful and young she is at the time, her outside appearance is going to change, and SO will his. and not always for the better ! ( though sometimes we do become more beautiful in certain ways, as we age )

i'm sorry if it seems like i'm ranting.. but this culture is screwed up, and it seems to spread into 'the church' and Christianity... and i just find it very redundant and tiresome and immature - though i'm not accusing anyone here of being this way specifically,... you start to notice the image consciousness being female in this day and age.

and also the 'games' thing. so over it.

i'm not looking and i will never seek or look again. it's really all up to God for me, and i'm sure i have a lot more time to grow in confidence in the woman He wants me to be-
but i just have to say... burnt out on the games, and never will i play again.
if you like someone, say it. you don't have to go overboard... and let's all please still have our own independent lives and school/study/work/hobbies/friends and other platonic personal relationships... but games? i'm done.

be straightforward, or be gone!

amen too that

 

[zaoman32]

I want a stalker...that's all I want in a life, an attractive stalker who'll lurk in the park after hours with me <3

 

[seoulsearch]

I want a stalker...that's all I want in a life, an attractive stalker who'll lurk in the park after hours with me <3

Notice he said, "attractive stalker".

Ugly or semi-bad-looking stalkers need not apply.

 

[Jullianna]

I want a stalker...that's all I want in a life, an attractive stalker who'll lurk in the park after hours with me <3

And with that a black van pulled up beside, Batzaoman. He was dragged inside and never heard from again.

 

[Jullianna]

Jules thread asked for someone to PRAYERFULLY make a post about this, so I'm answering for all the guys.
All a man could ever want in a Christian woman is this:

1. She loves God, and puts God before everything and everyone else. This is not a cliche or the "expected" answer given just because it's an "acceptable" one. She sincerely has to want to please God with all her heart and all her mind.

2. She must sincerely want to be with you. She loves you, wants to spend ALOT of time with you, and is willing to put effort into showing you that she means it.

3. Can be trusted to be loyal, faithful, and isn't interested in the games "secular" women play. Is willing to be honest and work through any problems you may have as a couple.

That's all that any man wants. It may not be a complicated list but it definitely isn't easy to find in a woman. If it were, there wouldn't be any non-married males in the singles forum at all (Except for maybe myself.....and the other one or two of us that have given up on marriage).

Thank you, Sir

 

[Donkeyfish07]

i guess thats like mostly true. being attractive to your man doesnt hurt.

well I thought that was a pretty obvious one....lol. like, who doesn't know that's something we appreciate?

 

[Descyple]

As a Christian man, here are the top 3 things I'm looking for in a Christian woman:

1. She has to know the books of the Bible in order, so when we're in church together and the pastor tells us to turn to a particular verse, I don't have to waste so much time flipping through the Bible like a biblical illiterate.

2. I would like to be with the kind of woman who would be the first person to go up to the front of the church when prayer is offered (not because I'm concerned about her spiritual life, but so I can steal her candy from her purse while she's up there).

3. I want the kind of woman who will stop me from putting money in the offering plate and then say to me "Don't worry Baby, I got this one"


If any Christian women here on CC match the above personality criteria, please phone me right away!!!


P.S. I forgot to put my phone number, but if you have the gift of discernment, I'm sure you can figure it out!!!

 

[Donkeyfish07]

As a Christian man, here are the top 3 things I'm looking for in a Christian woman:

1. She has to know the books of the Bible in order, so when we're in church together and the pastor tells us to turn to a particular verse, I don't have to waste so much time flipping through the Bible like a biblical illiterate.

Have you ever considered using the Index sir?

 

[Grace-Like-Rain]

As a Christian man, here are the top 3 things I'm looking for in a Christian woman:

1. She has to know the books of the Bible in order, so when we're in church together and the pastor tells us to turn to a particular verse, I don't have to waste so much time flipping through the Bible like a biblical illiterate.

2. I would like to be with the kind of woman who would be the first person to go up to the front of the church when prayer is offered (not because I'm concerned about her spiritual life, but so I can steal her candy from her purse while she's up there).

3. I want the kind of woman who will stop me from putting money in the offering plate and then say to me "Don't worry Baby, I got this one"


If any Christian women here on CC match the above personality criteria, please phone me right away!!!


P.S. I forgot to put my phone number, but if you have the gift of discernment, I'm sure you can figure it out!!!

All that... AND quoting Thomas Watson?? I feel faint...

 

[Grace-Like-Rain]

Have you ever considered using the Index sir?

Using the index is a terrible idea Donk. Anyone caught using the index is automatically labeled as a Bible illiterate. It's even worse than flipping backward and forward with that dazed expression on your face. Just sing that children's song over and over... Genesis, Exodus, Leviticusssss.... (There's a tune, but you have to add it on your end.)

 

[Donkeyfish07]

Using the index is a terrible idea Donk. Anyone caught using the index is automatically labeled as a Bible illiterate. It's even worse than flipping backward and forward with that dazed expression on your face. Just sing that children's song over and over... Genesis, Exodus, Leviticusssss.... (There's a tune, but you have to add it on your end.)

lol...Eeks! No wonder the man has such high standards......maybe you should just bring a Kindle to work with the bible on it, and type in the verse. Problem solved

 

[doll]

We all need to start somewhere, there is no sense in downing someone who is trying to learn and If I were you I would lose that uppity judgmental tone its really unattractive.