Why Are You Single? (For The Saddened & Distraught Only)

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MartyrNdaMaKn

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I' am single because i move at my own pace, which is sap slow. Also, got KINGDOM work to do!
 
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Art05

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And Jullianna called you out on the whys you keep posting things like this. She was very kind and sweetly tempered. You continuously run from people trying to get to the core reasons you are the way you are. So here's my recommendation...


If you don't like the way we operate here, don't post. Don't start threads. And most of all, stop ripping people apart. I understand that you just want people to be in the same pain (if not more pain) than you are. But you need to stop. You need to take stock of your life. You need to forgive the people who have hurt you, and you need to forgive yourself. I suggest you go down to the potters house and let Him remake you.
I am not saying that she wasn't kind. I didn't even consider her as mean. But I'm frustrated to see what I didn't mean this thread to be.

And I'll post if I want. You're saying anyone can post on mine, then why can't I do the same? :)

And if you don't like my posts, then ignore me. Simple. No harm in that, no offense taken.

lol And if you're a person that tries to get to the 'core' of people, then please don't quit your day job. Because answering on a thread and reading people's comments is not the way to do it.

Thanks anyway! :) God bless
 

rachelsedge

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*shrugs* I asked once.
Pardonne mon ami!! (I had to slip into avatare' mor comfortabelle!) Let us you and I explore this mystery together oui? We have much exploring to do! Where do you go............

I cannot find you mon ami.......
Notice I said "around here". ;) Though thank you both, wisebeardman and Mr. Pepe. :p

Exactly the kind of response this thread was for. Thanks for sharing!

And I hope your great attitude towards your singleness will rub off on the rest of us. God bless you Rachel.
Thank you. I must admit, Art05, that I have not always positive about it and still struggle being positive some days currently. Facebook doesn't help at all (which is why I'm going to try not get on as much) but CC helps immensely, as well as keeping God's truth in mind.
 
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kenthomas27

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And Jullianna called you out on the whys you keep posting things like this. She was very kind and sweetly tempered. You continuously run from people trying to get to the core reasons you are the way you are. So here's my recommendation...


If you don't like the way we operate here, don't post. Don't start threads. And most of all, stop ripping people apart. I understand that you just want people to be in the same pain (if not more pain) than you are. But you need to stop. You need to take stock of your life. You need to forgive the people who have hurt you, and you need to forgive yourself. I suggest you go down to the potters house and let Him remake you.
Ahhh my Duchess!! You temptress you ....you are my cherry pie....my bicycle built for two! You are Heaven Scent!
 

DuchessAimee

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I am not saying that she wasn't kind. I didn't even consider her as mean. But I'm frustrated to see what I didn't mean this thread to be.

And I'll post if I want. You're saying anyone can post on mine, then why can't I do the same? :)

And if you don't like my posts, then ignore me. Simple. No harm in that, no offense taken.

lol And if you're a person that tries to get to the 'core' of people, then please don't quit your day job. Because answering on a thread and reading people's comments is not the way to do it.

Thanks anyway! :) God bless


There's a whole branch of science that would disagree with you. But it's not surprising that you're misinformed; you survive on it. You don't seem to want to acknowledge truth when it's presented to you. Which is really unfortunate because you're obviously intelligent and able to comprehend issues. However, staying in denial won't serve you like you think it will.
 

Fenner

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Pardonne mon ami!! (I had to slip into avatare' mor comfortabelle!) Let us you and I explore this mystery together oui? We have much exploring to do! Where do you go............

I cannot find you mon ami.......

Ahhhh, the chase is on!





Back to point, I happen to be single because of my future career in taxidermy. Here's my latest. I know I have a couple of tweeks, but what do you think overall? It's getting there isn't it?



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Wow you're making your very own cougar.
 
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meggars

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And what planet are you from? Cause i haven't known that to be true =P
Planet Canada where we love bearded lumberjacks whose facial hair catches just enough maple syrup to keep their kisses sweet :p. Seriously. I love me a nice beard. That's man-face right there.
 

rachelsedge

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There's a whole branch of science that would disagree with you. But it's not surprising that you're misinformed; you survive on it. You don't seem to want to acknowledge truth when it's presented to you. Which is really unfortunate because you're obviously intelligent and able to comprehend issues. However, staying in denial won't serve you like you think it will.
*For those who question this, refer to DuchessAimee's signature line*

:)
 
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Planet Canada where we love bearded lumberjacks whose facial hair catches just enough maple syrup to keep their kisses sweet :p. Seriously. I love me a nice beard. That's man-face right there.

Ja! Ja!

I´m unshaved today... Ha! Ha!
 
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Planet Canada where we love bearded lumberjacks whose facial hair catches just enough maple syrup to keep their kisses sweet :p. Seriously. I love me a nice beard. That's man-face right there.
never did me any good...
 
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lav

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i am healing... and learning what makes me tick

also defining what is acceptable and unacceptable in a relationship,

and realizing that i am worth far more than i ever realized-
so, single or not... life is only getting better.
i have Christ to thank for all i'm learning, growing in and how my heart is healing in a more beautiful way than i ever imagined

i'm starting to understand that i deserve the very , very best. and i couldn't be more pleased that i know this is true. it's so satisfying, after all i've given- it's time to receive.
 
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Jullianna

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Oh my goodness ... ugh, como no quieren que me de coraje!

You saw too much to this. This is exactly what was not supposed to be on here.

It was a thread for people to simply SIMPLY put up the reasons they felt they were single! Is that too hard to understand?! Gaaaaaaah!

If somebody wanted to wallow in selfpity, or if they didn't, then WHATEVER. They don't have to if they don't want to.

[Ugh what's so hard about that :'( I thought I made myself clear.]

I just formed this thread so people could express their reasons without feeling judged or reprimanded or lectured. That is IT.
Well, well, well. Bless your little heart. :) Does your mommy know you behave like this in public??

Silly me spilling compassion all over your little thread. :) Bless you anyway. :)
 
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lav

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proverbs also says this...


25:20 Singing cheerful songs to a person whose heart is heavy is as bad as stealing someone's jacket in cold weather or rubbing salt in a wound. ( NLT )

just saying
 
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MissCris

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I'm still single because guys get pretty freaked out when they find out I have 4 extra eyes and several tentacles.

Wait...

*backs slooooowly out of thread, closes door quietly...*
 
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DragonSlayer

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Why I am single ? No exact answer.
When I see how cynical and ruthless many people are in this world, and I'm very sensitive,
I realize that I'm better to be alone for life like Paul did.
But then, I feel lonely, and begins to wonder if I could find a positive and sensitive woman somehow, someday.
 
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rainin

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Im single due to a recent divorce. I can't say that Im sad about being single because of it. Im sorry that I have done something that I know God hates and Im praying about that and have been for some time now. I plan to stay single for the rest of my life as I don't feel God has plans for me to ever marry again. I don't feel sad about that either. I sometimes wonder if I should. I suppose if the Lord wanted me to be sad He would have put it in my heart to feel that way. Being single at my age isn't what I expected but I plan to make the most of it by seeking the Lord and living out the rest of my life doing His will. I just can't see the down side of that. I have to say, Im happier than I have been in years knowing that I can finally be what God will have me to be for His purpose. I was sad before I became single....does that count?
 
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kenthomas27

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I'm still single because guys get pretty freaked out when they find out I have 4 extra eyes and several tentacles.

Wait...

*backs slooooowly out of thread, closes door quietly...*
Duchess Aimee - I'm gonna have to get glasses too because I totally misread tentacles.




Speaking of glasses, you know my grandma never needed glasses all her life!

she always drank straight from the bottle. (this is just my fave joke. Indulge me please.)