Why Are You Single? (For The Saddened & Distraught Only)

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Art05

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I'm sad that after six years you still don't know what the Bible says.





KINGDOM:

Mark 1:14 ... Jesus came into Galilee, preaching the gospel of the kingdom of God,

WORK TO DO:

2 Tim 4:2 Preach the word; be instant in season, out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort with all longsuffering and doctrine.
Actually, I consider myself very well acquainted with what the word of God says. There's no need for sorrow. But if you feel that I'm lacking in some things, then I invite you to feel free and teach me what you know. That is far preferable than sitting around and hauling accusations of ignorance at people you don't really know ... are you hearing what I'm saying?

And so you felt the need to answer for someone else? I don't know the man, so I won't just assume that's what he meant. It's best to be careful, and avoid interpreting other people's words (especially when they can answer for themselves), or putting words in other people's mouths.

But if you're a single person, then please tell us why you feel you're single. This thread is exactly for that!
 
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Art05

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I see my post rings true. Misery loves company. He's miserable and wants everyone else as miserable as he is.
Buddy, I am not miserable. I really don't know why you would feel this way about me, but let me correct you (while I'm here): I am not miserable; I could be, but I'm not. Are you miserable?

If you had but understood the purpose of this thread (stated at the very beginning), you wouldn't have seen me or this thread in such a negative light. But I won't judge you, for I see that you're single, and you happen to be commenting on a thread for singles.

So why do you feel that you are single?
 

DuchessAimee

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I'm not a troll, and I think you could ask anyone on this site if they agree with you. They'll say no. I can guarantee that.


And you know what, skipper? If you don't like our community, then don't interact with us. Easy peasy.
 
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Art05

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I'm still single because guys get pretty freaked out when they find out I have 4 extra eyes and several tentacles.

Wait...

*backs slooooowly out of thread, closes door quietly...*
Bye! Thanks for coming by!
 
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Ugly

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Art05

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Why I am single ? No exact answer.
When I see how cynical and ruthless many people are in this world, and I'm very sensitive,
I realize that I'm better to be alone for life like Paul did.
But then, I feel lonely, and begins to wonder if I could find a positive and sensitive woman somehow, someday.
We're in the same boat, then.

Women can be so ruthless nowadays :( What ever happened to "sugar, spice, and everything nice"?

Thanks for the comment.
 
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Actually, I consider myself very well acquainted with what the word of God says. There's no need for sorrow. But if you feel that I'm lacking in some things, then I invite you to feel free and teach me what you know. That is far preferable than sitting around and hauling accusations of ignorance at people you don't really know ... are you hearing what I'm saying?
Then I'm happy I could teach some important NT verses, God bless you. :)

2 Tim 3:16 All scripture [is] given by inspiration of God, and [is] profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:

But if you're a single person, then please tell us why you feel you're single. This thread is exactly for that!
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Lonie

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I'm single because I can't seem to find someone who is on the same page as me religiously and romantically...I'm only recently single (got out of a 2 year relationship like 2 weeks ago) but it seems that at the end in the make it or break it period where you decide to move forward and marry or break up (this seems to always happen around the 2 year mark)...the guys are never emotionally mature enough...it's annoying 'cause i've been ready for a while lol why must guys be so behind on family goals?
 
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Ugly

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I'm single because I can't seem to find someone who is on the same page as me religiously and romantically...I'm only recently single (got out of a 2 year relationship like 2 weeks ago) but it seems that at the end in the make it or break it period where you decide to move forward and marry or break up (this seems to always happen around the 2 year mark)...the guys are never emotionally mature enough...it's annoying 'cause i've been ready for a while lol why must guys be so behind on family goals?
That's only a one sided perspective. I'm 38 and have been wanting to marry since before i was legal age. Yet here i am, never married. Its not a gender issue. Look at all the guys in here that have never been married.
 
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StarryEyed

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:) I am single because I have NOT met my soulmate just yet.. :) I am not sad nor happy about that fact.. :) I will meet an perfect-match for me, someday!! :) :)
 
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Ugly

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Soulmate again? *facepalm. Must.... not.... respond....
 
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StarryEyed

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I am saying "soulmate" as falling in love.. Lols, “Soulmates are people who bring out the best in you.. They are not perfect but are always perfect for you...” - Anonymous -

:) I think a person can fall in love more than just once, but.. I also feel that there are a select-number of people out there, that fits the quote above!!
 
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Ugly

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I am saying "soulmate" as falling in love.. Lols, “Soulmates are people who bring out the best in you.. They are not perfect but are always perfect for you...” - Anonymous -

:) I think a person can fall in love more than just once, but.. I also feel that there are a select-number of people out there, that fits the quote above!!
When you say soulmate there is a specific connotation to it. Regardless of your personal interpretation, it does have a more specific meaning. So when you use it, people will see you as meaning the true understanding of the word. Not the way you see it in your mind.
 
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StarryEyed

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My artistic-side always seems to come out.. I always seem to make up my own meanings for words.. LOLS, :p i'm sorrys if I confused you, sir'!!
 
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Shouryu

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Soulmate again? *facepalm. Must.... not.... respond....
*sidles up next to Ugly*
Psst. He's 18. Go easy on him. You know life will teach him later on. ^_^
 
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StarryEyed

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I'm learning new things EVERY SINGLE day.. :p Hahahahas, I know that i'm not even near perfect.... XD XD
 

Cee

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Hmm, probably my "My Little Pony" collection. No offense, Shourya.

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Art05

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I'm not a troll, and I think you could ask anyone on this site if they agree with you. They'll say no. I can guarantee that.


And you know what, skipper? If you don't like our community, then don't interact with us. Easy peasy.
bwahahaha I barely noticed that people kept commenting.

Your community? I'm sorry, I didn't see your name on it.

And, from your posts, the truth is that your so called community is nothing but a bunch of trolls that are pretending to be Christians. I'm just calling them like I see them.

The truth is, if you don't like me, or my posts, then don't interact with me ;) But, seeing as that you're nothing but a troll, everything I'm saying is going in through the eye and coming out of your ....
 
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Art05

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I'm single because I can't seem to find someone who is on the same page as me religiously and romantically...I'm only recently single (got out of a 2 year relationship like 2 weeks ago) but it seems that at the end in the make it or break it period where you decide to move forward and marry or break up (this seems to always happen around the 2 year mark)...the guys are never emotionally mature enough...it's annoying 'cause i've been ready for a while lol why must guys be so behind on family goals?
Hey Lonie, thank you so much for sharing. :)

Hope you meet the man of your dreams, even if he might not BE that man at the first.