Marriage will never work first of all if its not started with God's smile.Be it Christian or non-christian.Still,things can be rectified if people still listen to God.There is no one in this world that has never learned anything without falling,except Jesus.
As far i see it,a Marriage is full of responsibilities,not a tug of war.There will be no feminism or 'sweety watch it! it's a man's world out there' as long as both stay on God and live continually running to Cross instead of each others arms thinking everything is going to work out like a movie and background is going to be filled with romantic music.When the emphasis is given to God,things will be in His hand and not in mortal hands.And when He builds,no kind of aggression or anything related to it comes in.Even if it does,the moment the couple runs back to God,all bitterness disappears.
We give the titles 'feminism' and 'mens world' unnecessary emphasis.If feminism became very noticed in this world,it was primarily man's fault.It was not women's.Always people who are interested in polluting society purposefully,look for weak individuals to gain control over situations.It all starts from there.Be it feminism or the other way.If men can understand woman and stay still like Jesus,women will never go behind feminism and it would have been easy to find out the real crooks behind it and their intentions.Nobody has to go directly shouting against any of these(feminism or the other way related to men),just love the opposite gender no matter how long it takes to get into their heart,with all the troubles faced.And that can be achieved through meditating on the Cross of Christ.And when each gender realize their mistake,they will take care of the silly issues like this.
Ultimately,all these egoistic values(man's world approach or feministic approach) are satan's ideas to split marriages.So the presence of God in families is the ultimate answer for these never ending issues(looked at from human p.o.v).
When there is enough Love of God in a Righteous(God's) Family,the man of the house will kick out the egoistic approach brought to him against his woman.Vice versa from her side.Ultimately,these ideas can be flushed down the toilet and its possible when God is allowed to kick satan on his butt!
God Bless