If A Woman Isn't Married By Age 50, Will She Be Alone Forever?

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biscuit

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Interesting note: THIS feminist was taken to the cleaners by her ex husband. He emptied the retirement/savings accounts, threatened me into agreeing to half of the minimal legal amount of child support, and left me with debt and left overs from his hording. That's kinda what launched me into embracing the ideology of original feminists: recognizing that in some cases women are victimized simply because of their gender and that all people are deserving of equal treatment under the law.
Sorry to hear that and I do sympathized with you ... but embracing feminism is not the answer. Jesus is.
 
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lav

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biscuit you are one of those pointless people to have any communication with whatsoever.

God calls the Holy Spirit "helper" and "comforter" and that is the same title we all know was given to women.
this point has been brought up before, but i thought it relevant seeing that you seem to believe women are slaves to the opposite sex, who is their master.

i'm afraid it's less of a gender inequality rule, where the male is somehow "better," but that he is more of an equal given a different assignment by gender. actually, i'm not afraid that this is true, it is rather a comfort.

i would never say the things you said when referring to the trinity. we are all to bow to the trinity, and being a helper is a very important role... as you can see that to blaspheme the Holy Spirit who is called "helper" and "comforter" is the one unforgivable sin.

please stop blaspheming women, as they are given the same role ( of helper and comforter) in comparison to their equal yet different counterpart, man... who is supposed to be given a protective, leadership role. i see no protection or valuable leadership coming from your statements in this thread.

each are given tasks, but one is not more or less significant than the other.

there has been no man who walked this earth, who was not born of a woman.
 
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and your logic for calling me a feminist and suggesting that i should check out the LGBT boards, all because i was pointing out the obvious flaws of men buying wives overseas (or rather the services to accomplish such)?

your dime store assessment of me and other women here tells me a lot about the filter you're using.


i mean no disrespect when i say not all women fall into two camps:

1. agrees with biscuit
2. feminists

most women i know can easily see that there are many different kinds and flavors of men. and that is also true for women.

please stop lumping us all into the same group you constantly reference who took your poor married friends' money in their divorces and are money hungry woman running roughshod over every many in our path.
Oh really!! When the feminists are raging their ideologies on CC ... your "likes" are right there backing them up.
 
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biscuit you are one of those pointless people to have any communication with whatsoever.

God calls the Holy Spirit "helper" and "comforter" and that is the same title we all know was given to women.
this point has been brought up before, but i thought it relevant seeing that you seem to believe women are slaves to the opposite sex, who is their master.

i'm afraid it's less of a gender inequality rule, where the male is somehow "better," but that he is more of an equal given a different assignment by gender. actually, i'm not afraid that this is true, it is rather a comfort.

i would never say the things you said when referring to the trinity. we are all to bow to the trinity, and being a helper is a very important role... as you can see that to blaspheme the Holy Spirit who is called "helper" and "comforter" is the one unforgivable sin.

please stop blaspheming women, as they are given the same role ( of helper and comforter) in comparison to their equal yet different counterpart, man... who is supposed to be given a protective, leadership role. i see no protection or valuable leadership coming from your statements in this thread.

each are given tasks, but one is not more or less significant than the other.

there has been no man who walked this earth, who was not born of a woman.
And woman came out of man
 
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And woman came out of man

precisely. and did you want that to be an enjoyable, trusting and loving experience for us, or to act in such a way as to shoot us (your precious helpers) down and build up a validated feeling of contempt and rebellion against him ?
 
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lav

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and if Adam came from God, and woman from God and Adam, ...Jesus was born from God and woman !
 

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Oh really!! When the feminists are raging their ideologies on CC ... your "likes" are right there backing them up.
so we should all agree with you, or be punished for failing to do so?

yes, i have "liked" a lot of misty's posts because in the past i have seen her doing a brilliant job of attempting to explain the origins of feminism and condemn what it has become.

early feminists were christian tea-totalers who stood up for the needs of all. i find that worthy of admiration.

i want and have no part in the mess that has evolved from early feminism.

THAT is what my "likes" you've referenced are about.

oh, and defending/explaining themselves against your overly harsh criticism and fictitious labels.
 
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Can someone please palm my face for me? Both of mine are still sore from a trip to the Bible Discussion forum the other day :p
 
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precisely. and did you want that to be an enjoyable, trusting and loving experience for us, or to act in such a way as to shoot us (your precious helpers) down and build up a validated feeling of contempt and rebellion against him ?
God tells us how to govern our relationship and not human organization. Many women do obey God when it comes to marriage & relationships, but many do not and that is the point of my argument. Too many women, including christian women want to combine the scripture with feminism in marriage/relationships, and God won't have any of it. It doesn't work that way. There is one way and that is God's way & mixing the two really isn't any different than mixing witchcraft with Christianity. Sometimes, I have to wonder if God is punishing these women today for rejecting His institution of marriage to accept the feminists' ideology.
 
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lav

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God tells us how to govern our relationship and not human organization. Many women do obey God when it comes to marriage & relationships, but many do not and that is the point of my argument. Too many women, including christian women want to combine the scripture with feminism in marriage/relationships. It doesn't work that way. There is one way and that is God's way mixing the two really isn't any different mixing witchcraft with Christianity.

what about men obeying God ?

we're all sinners, dude.

not just women.

because abusive men , well... there are too many ; ) trust me, i know from personal experience.
 
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Spoken like true feminist. I don't see men complaining about marriage ... just women. Many women have given up on marriage and will settle for cohabitation because most men aren't interested. The marriage institution was set up by God is 6000 years old and it works. The feminists' institution of marriage is about 50 years, prompted by Satan and it is a total disaster. Don't blame me, men or God, blame Satan & the feminists for making many women life miserable. It will get worse before it gets better.
LOL!! believe me when I say that most men don't want to get married PERIOD!! because of the nature of DIVORCE. In this day & age, most men are comfortable with cohabitation than marriage. After watching quite a few of my friends being taken to the cleaner, I am proud to say that I thank God that I didn't marry.
Just wanted to point out the contradiction.

I actually haven't seen as many women here complaining about marriage as some men, who keep ranting about how women have destroyed the institution of marriage, and how the new feminists are to blame for the immorality we see today (which I agree have part of the blame), and how it's not financially secure to marry due to women having an advantage in court (which again, can be true in many cases). But I haven't seen women in CC starting threads about buying men overseas, or about how men have destroyed marriage and how we should go back to the old days when men were perfect husbands and fathers...as if such age ever existed. Sure, we have some bad apples in our gender, but they are not our embassadors, especially not to those who belong to the family of God :)

I understand if you have been hurt in the past, but it's not fair to label all women because of your experience. I wouldn't like my nieces or my own daughter, if I ever have one, to feel guilty for things they didn't do, or to feel less worthy than a man. Be aware that your posts are seen by many people here, including girls whose minds are very impressionable.
 
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and if Adam came from God, and woman from God and Adam, ...Jesus was born from God and woman !
You may want to read your bible for a better interpretation. If that is the case, why did Jesus refer to Mary as "woman" and not mother. It was not a natural pregnancy. Nice try though.
 
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lav

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You may want to read your bible for a better interpretation.

you may want to read your bible to find some examples of love and loving words, behavior and actions.

and no... i know we all came from God. what i said you took out of context from the meaning we all know it has.

so in reality woman did not come from Adam, she came from God. Adam came from God. Jesus is God and was sent by the Father.

you know what i meant.


if you didn't, now you do. and it is accurate. i am finished discussing things with you. you're only a troll who is here to start and fan the flames of discord to produce more arguments.
 
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you may want to read your bible to find some examples of love and loving words, behavior and actions.

and no... i know we all came from God. what i said you took out of context from the meaning we all know it has.

so in reality woman did not come from Adam, she came from God. Adam came from God. Jesus is God and came from the Father.

you know what i meant.
Please stay on the thread topic and you will do just fine.
 
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lav

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don't tell me what to do. you're not my God, pastor or husband... you are not a moderator on this site, and thank God for that ! i won't take any direction from you, thanks.

you do what you do ( be a troll, ) and i will *ignore* you. so thank you, you are now firmly placed on my ignore list.
 
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biscuit

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Just wanted to point out the contradiction.

I actually haven't seen as many women here complaining about marriage as some men, who keep ranting about how women have destroyed the institution of marriage, and how the new feminists are to blame for the immorality we see today (which I agree have part of the blame), and how it's not financially secure to marry due to women having an advantage in court (which again, can be true in many cases). But I haven't seen women in CC starting threads about buying men overseas, or about how men have destroyed marriage and how we should go back to the old days when men were perfect husbands and fathers...as if such age ever existed. Sure, we have some bad apples in our gender, but they are not our embassadors, especially not to those who belong to the family of God :)

I understand if you have been hurt in the past, but it's not fair to label all women because of your experience. I wouldn't like my nieces or my own daughter, if I ever have one, to feel guilty for things they didn't do, or to feel less worthy than a man. Be aware that your posts are seen by many people here, including girls whose minds are very impressionable.
The best you can do is put your words in my mouth because I never said "all women." I don't play the spin game.
 
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don't tell me what to do. you're not my God, pastor or husband... you are not a moderator on this site, and thank God for that ! i won't take any direction from you, thanks.

you do what you do ( be a troll, ) and i will *ignore* you. so thank you, you are now firmly placed on my ignore list.
Another loser who got her feelings hurt.
 
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