Ok, the Lord leads I'm not posting much, at all, on c.c. threads right now, but someone PM'd me and said I should say something.
Biskit, you got it all wrong, brother, Scripture is clear that wife is to submit to husband but it's also clear that husband is to submit to God. It's also clear, and, this is where some mystery might lie, as in be hidden,
the husband and wife are to submit to EACH OTHER. That's all in Ephesians, look it up, but, also, as you did, to label people 'loser' is not what should be say of others, ever.
And, on c.c., girls here are preciously trying to help you understand what I just said, that man NEEDED woman, and, so, God gave man a 'helpmate.' A helper is NOT a slave, it's not some ideology that man is in charge of woman, bro. NO ! It is an act of love that a woman will submit to a man who is her husband and lording over her that you're boss is not how Scripture outlined how husband and wife are to operate in marriage, your thinking here is opposite Scripture and not even one microscopic bit right. Equality. Man and woman are equal but different in God's eyes.
kayem and some others said some very merciful, wise words for you to hear, as, they could just have not even spoken to you about your false understanding of how God made women to be for man. They are for EACH OTHER. Do I need to repeat that, say it louder or are you understanding all this by now, biskit, and, yes, I'm quite forceful on certain topics and don't think that questioning someone's Christianity is Christian either just because you don't agree with what they say.
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on topic, I don't see much thinking on this for me, I just want to be led by God to relationship with whoever God leads my way as I just do my work and go my way and worship Him. The right relationship, harmony will be there, from Him, for He knows exactly who's right for me , we will be equally yoked and both be understanding all His notes for us to continue faith fully toward His perfect union