Do you guys ever worry that you're gonna be alone forever like me?

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eugenius

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You won't be alone forever. And we need to start counting the number of threads you made on this topic. ;)
 
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I thought that for the longest time, I to suffered from anxiety & depression (still do on occasion). I always saw happy couples & that just made me feel worse, I thought i'd never get to experience any of that, but it all changed. You have to confide in the Lord to give you confidence & strength & train your mind not to think like that. I've currently been in a very good relationship for the past 6 months & up until this point, I never could picture myself finding someone. Just be yourself & stay positive, things happen when they're meant to & the Lord knows our hearts desires & will meet them in his own time.
Did things get better after you gotten the anxiety and depression taken care of? I'm curious since I'm on the road of getting it taken off, it's mostly just waiting now for the meds to kick it and have doc play around with it till he gets it right.
 
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tennisguy2010

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g-d helps those who help themselves.
 
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Beeb0

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Did things get better after you gotten the anxiety and depression taken care of? I'm curious since I'm on the road of getting it taken off, it's mostly just waiting now for the meds to kick it and have doc play around with it till he gets it right.



I never got medication for my anxiety/depression, I was too afraid to seek help as I thought medication would only worsen the problem. All of my problems weakened as I got closer to God, I put all of my troubles with him & started changing who I was as a person...But yes, things are great now that those problems are in the past, I feel like a new person & i've learned so much from having both anxiety/depression.
 
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I never got medication for my anxiety/depression, I was too afraid to seek help as I thought medication would only worsen the problem. All of my problems weakened as I got closer to God, I put all of my troubles with him & started changing who I was as a person...But yes, things are great now that those problems are in the past, I feel like a new person & i've learned so much from having both anxiety/depression.
I know, I'm I've learned a lot though it already. Hopefully, I've gotten close to all, to all of what God wants me to get out of it. I mean this pain has some kind of purpose in God's plan for me right? BTW, I'm not saying he gave it me the depression and anxiety, I'm just saying he's using to teach me stuff though it before it's taken care of.
 
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Divya

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Yes! I would do it...
1. Its God's will in your life
2. The person God's ordained will love you in Christ
3. You wont' have to doubt it
4. Money comes and goes... When God is providing you with a greater purpose why do you have to worry about smaller things?
god told Abraham that he will be the father of nations... dont' you think he would have been worried abt the whole thing? But, He trusted God with his one son...and believed that God will give him children like the stars in teh sky... We are children of Abraham by faith. What you described sounds like the calling that Abraham had and I will not missed for the life of me.. :D
 
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I already HAVE been alone forever. The trick is to accept it and not let it get to you. Im leaving it up to God, whether He wants me to remain single for the rest of my life or not. Either way, I am preparing my heart to be content with Gods will.
 
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ramesses

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I know with me it's probably my OCD or one my other anxiety disorders that causes the thought, but it still hard for me to not worry about it. Just wanted to know what guys think, and I'm wondering if I'm just worrying too much about this with myself.

I know how you feel. I have MS and osteoporosis and have fractured my back 8 times. I have built some walls around me because I am afraid to let a woman close to me as my last girlfriend left me when I was diagnosed with MS. The whole time she was telling me that we would get through what ever came our way she was telling her Mom that she did not want to take the chance on having to take care of me later in life. I can understand some of her feelings but I would rater that she was honest with me. I found out how she was thinking when her Mom called me and told me...OUCH. I forgave her long agoj but the memory lives on.
Blessings, Ron
 
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caffelatte

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Yes, but I try not to worry. One thing worry does to us is weigh us down and God never intended that for us.
 
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jesusjoy

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I am 35 and divorced. I put all of the men I have dealt with in my life on the pedestal JESUS should have been on. After much pain through my desperation of having to be with a man, I have come to the conclusion that GOD"S WAY is the BEST WAY! If you take time to develop an intimate relationship with HIM putting JESUS on the throne of your life and you develop good family and friend realtionships you will become content in your own skin and that attracts others. Looking at my situation one might say that I have no hope for being remarried or finding love, but, if I believe in who I say I believe in --The ALMIGHTY JESUS CHRIST- THE ONE WHO RAISED LAZARUS FROM THE GRAVE/ THE ONE WHO WAS RAISED ON THE THIRD DAY AND STILL LIVES- then in time I know that my desires will be met. If HE can do so for me, what more can HE do for you who at this early stage of life has a great deal to look forward to. Look...RELAX..JESUS is real...HE knows your desires...HE made them...HE understands you and is gently guiding you to focus on HIM. You have a long future ahead of you and if you just let go and let GOD, HE will allow your desires to be met in ways you could never imagine...JUST TRUST...Enjoy the RIDE with HIM and KNOW that HE'S GOT your BACK!
 
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Part of my problem is that God isn't giving me any hint at all that I'll even get a girlfriend.
 
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leapfrogger

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Why would anyone want God to reveal to them whether or not they'll be in a relationship? Does it really matter? Just live your life. Seek Him in all that you do. Don't worry about anything else. When you stop worrying about it maybe then you'll catch the eye of some great Christian woman. Until that day comes, shape up spiritually.
 
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NoTearsShed

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*hugs* if your really 21 like your profile says then it is not forever, who knows maybe you will meet your partner this year or next year or soon.
Keep praying that you have someone :D & have faith in God, if its possible ask him to meet them soon or for you to be patient for when the time is right for him to make yall two meet =D
When you get to thinking that you will end up alone start praying & ask God to make that feeling go Away, ask him for forgiveness & pray for that one person to be safe so when the time is right for yall to meet & hit it off good =D

Now as for me, when you put it like that in your title it does scare me a little but with the life i feel God wants me to walk maybe there is someone for me or maybe theres not :( Either way i feel that im prapared even though i know in time i will start to miss that one person being there that everyone around me will most likely have. So im starting to pray to God that theres someone there for me.
Im 18 about to turn 19 & NEVER had a relation ship. The longest boyfriend i had was 2 months =/ & we dint talk for like a whole month before i broke it off, so really it was 1 month T_T
Now im keeping my EYES out O_O for christian single guys around my age :D Theres one i have my eyes on but we arnt even close :(
 
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heartpumpkinpie

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I've always been afraid of that. Ever since I was a very little girl =( I've never even had a boyfriend before (okay except for that one guy, but I didn't even like him!). I know that God should be enough for me, but if I'm honest I have to admit that I really don't think He is =( That's bad...
 
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sweetstephaniea

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I absolutely feel that way. Its like the second youreally think ok this is it, it all come crumbling down around you. I am now a single mom, left to raise my one year old alone. And especially wiht that I feel I'll forever be alone as far as a husband goes.
 
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NoTearsShed

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I've always been afraid of that. Ever since I was a very little girl =( I've never even had a boyfriend before (okay except for that one guy, but I didn't even like him!). I know that God should be enough for me, but if I'm honest I have to admit that I really don't think He is =( That's bad...

He should be enough, now wanting a companion (husband or wife depending on your gender) is normal =) Some are better off alone While others are better off married =)
Talk to God & pray to God he Listens =D
 
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