Do you guys ever worry that you're gonna be alone forever like me?

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GreenNnice

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What, me worry??????

Single, I'm young, I'm 42, more than halfway thru life expectancy--ARGHHHHH! OH, NO, I am almost dead, where's my favorite movie, where my popcorn???? Cuz I green watching Bridget Jones Diary now, crumpled up, with feet on the rockerALL BY MYSELF, DON'T WANNA BEEEEEEEE ALL BY MYSELF , DON'T WANNA BEEEEEEEEEEEEEE ALL .....ANYMORE. :)
 
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GreenNnice

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THAT'S a good start, dotcomzero, go to those small groups and be shy there, so be it, , the Lord will lead you thru it all too if you ask Him to, (draw nigh to me and I will draw nigh to you, says scripture )ust say something to the girls , just cuz your shy doesn't mean you can't say things. I think guys get this grand idea too that they have to talisman a girls earshot. no! Just say a few words and let God do the rest, either you hit it off and its Strawberry Fields Forever(read Juliana's Attention Getter thread) or you are just not having things in common and move on to the next girl that talks to you. And THEY (girls) will talk if you show any remote interest because THAT'S what girls do best. So be shy, but be sure to say a few words to what they're talking about. simple, eh. Five cents, please. ;)
 
dothackzero

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I just ment that's where I'm least shy, I don't really have a chance to hang with small group for hanging out right now. Or rather, it's more like when I want they can't, and when I'm not in the mood, that's when they usually want to.
 
HollyW

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I used to be so destressed and ''frustrated'' (ehem) because I was single. Now, since I found Jesus, I finally realized that I'm not living on this Earth to please myself or another person but live for God. I've outgrown the occasional bout of temptation. When it comes, I usually pray. I've also realized I dont have to be unhappy simply because I don't have a boyfriend or a husband. It doesn't affect my worth as a child of God to be single. Sure there are times when I feel it would be nice to have a male companion, but I really don't need one.
 
dothackzero

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So yeah, I realized the that the good God that we wouldn't have given me such an extremem desire for girlfriend if he didn't plan on getting me a girl. But then now it's like what if I screw it up on my side, or if God wants me to wait till I'm like 40 to be married. :( I really hope I don't have to wait that long. I really want to be married around 25...
 
dothackzero

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So yeah, I went to a church thing to day. And I was attempting to talk to people, and it really didn't get anywhere..
 
dothackzero

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Proverbs 18:22
He who finds a wife finds what is good
and receives favor from the LORD.

I know it's probably a stupid question but do I need God's favor 1st to get the wife, or do I get the wife then get the favor?
 
zeroturbulence

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dothackzero said:
Proverbs 18:22
He who finds a wife finds what is good
and receives favor from the LORD.

I know it's probably a stupid question but do I need God's favor 1st to get the wife, or do I get the wife then get the favor?
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Find a wife and find out. :)
 
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winston

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yes i do worry.. coz life is so mixed up..
 
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FireWire

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I've been alone since whenever and not worried about it. I don't see the point in worrying about tomorrow.
 
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If you were the only one worried about being alone forever, there wouldn't even be a "Singles" section in the forums or chat room
 
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FireWire

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That's so true VikkiKate!!
 
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_Angel_

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I used to worry about being alone forever, but now I figure if God meant for me to be with someone, he would put me on the path that leads to that person, as long as I have the Lord I will never be alone.

:):):):) _Angel_ Loves The Lord :):):):)​
 
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GreenNnice

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.com0? What do you mean by when you want to be in a small singles group others dont and when you dont want to he in small group or singles group others dont??

IF God has marriage in the plans for you it will happen. You have to get out there. Get yourself in a good Godly locale with girls around- church singles, sunday school, summer retreat, or, hey, how bout christian chat. Like Zero said, go 'find out' if a wife is something right for you . My BEST advice? Draw close to God, closer than EVER before in your life, bro.God bless ya for your transparency, just you being transparent here on cc, .com0 is a good thing, and, not only God but GIRLS love that kind of thing. You're well on your way to being hooKed. :)
 
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eugenius

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dothackzero said:
So yeah, I went to a church thing to day. And I was attempting to talk to people, and it really didn't get anywhere..
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Can you go into more detail of why it didn't get anywhere? Did you not find any common interests with those people? You like video games and anime and stuff. Many people like those things. Personally I think you need to have more hobbies than just those two, but for now thats fine.

I never once saw you get on the webcam in the chatroom. Start small dude. Use this chatroom to improve your social skills. Get on the webcam and fool around. And when in the chatroom, don't make it about getting a GF, or else nobody will talk to you for being a creeper. Talk about God and stuff youre interested in. Go in the Youtube room and play some anime for us. LOL.

I plan on forcing myself to get on the webcam also when I'm not so busy, since my social skills also suck.
 
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diyahna2011

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you shouldn't be worried...you're still young...i should be worried for myself. Good thing, I have my God...so there is nothing to worry about. Enjoy your life...Live life to the fullest while you are still young...God loves you and Im pretty sure He has many plans in store for you. Blessings!
 
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Zealot

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Here is the truth...lonliness can cloud judgement, and you could easily find yourself with a person you share very little in common with, including a shared conclusion on Christian faith and what that entails. It is easy to overlook and compensate for clear incompatibilities when you are very lonely and seeking that oneness that God defines marriage as...I have, personally, found it beyond reach to have a successful marriage that is based on the clear Biblical principles that define that condition. I have found that marriage roles, responsibilities can flush out the truth in a persons faith and consecration in truth and Christian principles. Roles, responsibilities, priorities...all is defined in the scripture. You won't get much support from the majority of the modern church when it comes to conformance to Biblical roles and responsibiliteis in Christian marriage. My sincere advice would be to walk in obedience, and be bold in your interaction with potential marriage partners...ask questions, and if you don't get the right answers, face the dispair and lonliness before you make a mistake that will further upset your faith and obedience. Lots of great theology out there on true Christian marriage. It is easy to overlook incompatibilities because we WANT so badly to have that partner...but, if that partner turns out to not be the "partner" that God has defined them to be, and you are looking for that compatibility in definition and function, then you will be more miserable than if you had stayed single. This is the truth, Brothers and Sisters in Christ...God's Blessings, Love, Doug
 
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