If people knew that there wouldn't be a new 'i'm single and looking' post a few times a week. You, in particular, have made two threads on the subject in the three days you've been on the site. So... if you know, then why are you treating it like one? And since you are treating it like one, why are you getting an attitude for being told?
tourist... There is a difference between coming to this site with the intent to actively seek out a mate, and to advertise yourself in a singles post and stumbling across someone you end up having a connection with.
The entire point is that the site owner knows that romances Can happen, he just doesn't want to the site used by singles actively prowling around advertising and using the site for the purpose of finding a mate. Not everyone who comes to this site, that's single, or even hangs in the singles areas, is looking for a mate. So they don't want people being run off the site by people who don't recognize this and treat every single they come across as potential and hitting on them.