P.S. Sorry for the double post but I also wanted to mention that after being divorced, it's also another life-changing challenge to Flip the Switch Back Off and go from, "It's FINALLY Ok and Allowed!" back to the square box of "NO NO NO, NOTHING, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!!!"
I had a really rough time going from being married to a husband I loved and was super attracted to back to, "Don't talk about it, don't ask about it, DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT IT OR YOU ARE SINNING!!!!" (especially after finding out he had remarried and was sharing This Wonderful Gift with someone else.)
Sigh. But as with anything else in life, God will help you cope. Doesn't mean it isn't super difficult, though.
I had a really rough time going from being married to a husband I loved and was super attracted to back to, "Don't talk about it, don't ask about it, DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT IT OR YOU ARE SINNING!!!!" (especially after finding out he had remarried and was sharing This Wonderful Gift with someone else.)
Sigh. But as with anything else in life, God will help you cope. Doesn't mean it isn't super difficult, though.