As I journey through this single life and get to know the opposite gender on various deeper levels, I always seem to focus on those qualities that they have which I really enjoy and appreciate. One man I know may be funny and quick-witted, while another guy friend may be kind and caring. There's someone else that I've gotten to know who I "click" with really well, while the person I spent some time with a year ago or so shared so many interests and passions with me that I felt like he was my male counterpart. And then there's the spiritual maturity that I admire so much about several other men I know.
For various reasons, none of them were a match for me, but knowing them and seeing things that I loved about them made me subconsciously add those qualities to my "wow, this is a quality I need in a future spouse" list.
It's not a big deal, but now I'm a little concerned that I'm perhaps building this virtual robotic man out of parts I've picked and chosen from other actual people, and creating an impossible standard. By the time I am ready to actually start a relationship, the robot is going to be enormous with all of his added-on parts, and completely unattainable!
Now I'm all "Noooo, I can't get to know you better... I don't want all your wonderful qualities to get stuck to my robot!"
For various reasons, none of them were a match for me, but knowing them and seeing things that I loved about them made me subconsciously add those qualities to my "wow, this is a quality I need in a future spouse" list.
It's not a big deal, but now I'm a little concerned that I'm perhaps building this virtual robotic man out of parts I've picked and chosen from other actual people, and creating an impossible standard. By the time I am ready to actually start a relationship, the robot is going to be enormous with all of his added-on parts, and completely unattainable!
Now I'm all "Noooo, I can't get to know you better... I don't want all your wonderful qualities to get stuck to my robot!"
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