Lets review the facts here.
1) these men pursued me not vice versa
2) desperation is taking anything you can get...which obviously I didnt give into
3) non-of the other men came to my home.
4) this man is from a very small towm near my hometown
5)non of the others where allowed to kiss me.. 1 tried and I pushed him away
6) rural america does things a bit different then big cities do. Towns of 400-800 people are common and social norms are differnt.
7) at the time of the date there were three other people in the building 2 of which are men that are over 6 feet and 200 pounds
Oh my!
a) (1) Where you online expecting nothing? The more a person exposes the more he / she could be preyed.
b) (2) What do cooks are used to when steaming things? If I don´t want to cook, I never would use that stuff (stove).
c) (3) Each knows what is wanted or expected... That was good! Too RISKY though. There are too many type of wirdoes (and freaks)
d) (4) It doesn´t matter the distance. For a preyer, the farthest, the better. For a lover, one who wants to be married, the easiest way to pay visits, but still being risky.
e) (5) That´s way you misssed him...
f) (6) Rurals and city people have their own rules nowadays. If you were in a jungle, things would be the same.
z) (7) would that save and spare you daring life? There was a time when I was walking with one of my brother and a lady I don´t know approached me and kissed me in the mouth... The kept on walking together while she grabbed me and stayed tagged along. Meanwhile my brother tried to ask me
who she was (and I could tell him quickly) and, the very moment she moved 1/2 a meter to greet more people we encountered I asked my brotherm to go:
"Are you leaving that nice looking girl alone?"
Let´s go! -I said-
I don´t know who she is...
These days, when my brother called me to pay him a visit, he also reminded me
he felt unconfortable (and jealous) when someone I didn´t know came to hug me and kiss me, in the middle of the street.
It was nice! but
I don´t know who she was... When accepting that kiss
I endangered to get those STDs that are transmitted by the mouth, btw.