Cuddling and kissing?

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SeekandListen

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Ugly said:
So share *poke :cool:
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Well, let's just say that just because someone says he's a Christian it doesn't mean that he will not try to partake of what is not his.
 
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Raine

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Ugly said:
Is that the way it usually feels though?
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You can always tell the truth in a loving and gentle way :p because if a person is really seeking the truth they will see it regardless and if a person is not really seeking the truth it doesn't matter how you say it they will be in denial.
 
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Raine said:
You can always tell the truth in a loving and gentle way :p because if a person is really seeking the truth they will see it regardless and if a person is not really seeking the truth it doesn't matter how you say it they will be in denial.
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I believe in being truthful and there is no denying that.
 
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tourist said:
No, I am just a cuddly teddy bear in real life. I do sometimes get a little crazy in forums but I always say that I am sorry afterwards.
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I'll keep that in mind.
 
Elizabeth619

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Packersgirl said:
I met this guy on an online dating site. We chatted fir two weeks. I sent the first message to him but he pursued and initiated there after. He often got a little steamy in his messages and I reciprocated playfully. One night he asked for my number and to add him to facebook. I did. Couple days later we met at the park and watched a movie at my house. We cuddles and kissed. I sent him a txt the next say saying I had fun and would love to do it again some time. He was always very aggressive and strait forward online. When we met he wasnt very talkative at all and seemed shy. The next day he removed me frim his facebook and I havent herd from him since. This was Monday night and it is now Friday. What did I do wrong? He kind of illuded to the fact he was waiting for a paycheck to "take me out" is there still hope he will contine to purse? If he does decide to pursue again how do I not mess up again? Men and women please respond...but men what is he thinking?
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Looks to me like your hormones are clouding any logic about this.

1. Be a lady. "Hot and steamy" messages are never appropriate. I have been in a relationship for 18 months, and it isn't an online one. I don't even send him hot and steamy messages. I am also able to hold on to him just fine.
2. Kissing and cuddling the same night you meet in person? Girl..... SLOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW down.
3. IF a guy is interested in you in a sincere way then you don't need to act seductive or flirty to get him.
 
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Raine said:
You can always tell the truth in a loving and gentle way :p because if a person is really seeking the truth they will see it regardless and if a person is not really seeking the truth it doesn't matter how you say it they will be in denial.
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It's not always about delivery. Truth is sometimes just hard, no matter how it's presented. And that is the point.
 
ChandlerFan

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Ugly said:
It's not always about delivery. Truth is sometimes just hard, no matter how it's presented. And that is the point.
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It's not always about delivery, true, but it usually is. I like people who can be straight-forward about things, but I'm not a fan of people throwing truth at someone and letting them deal with it rather than attempting to put it in a way that they are going to be most likely to understand and embrace it, and also not being open to answering questions and pushback on it because the other person just needs to accept it. Speaking with both grace and truth is always better every time.
 
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