This is me speaking of experience with being harassed.
I am just going to say this but because of these things I am afraid of men, guys, whatever, even kids because I think I have been molested or something when I was a child, really young, either I suppressed the memory when I was a kid because I remember whenever at school during these things when I was in grade 1 to some grade that I don't remember I would always get panic attacks whenever they'd speak of these subjects warning you and telling you to have a "buddy system" and I didn't even know why I would as a child and I never understood, I would always have to go home because of this. I mean, even when I was 12 years old I was touched by some kid younger than me and I have always blamed myself saying "It's my fault because they are younger" but every time they did I was in public places and they were just a neighbor and people were around and I see the judgement in their eyes, I couldn't do anything but one time I just grabbed their wrists and looked them in the eyes and said "Stop" and this KID, was playing the victim as an old lady was there watching me. I again told him to "Stop" and make it as serious as I could and then walked away, never again has he done that and we never spoke of that again, at one point that kid tried to get his friends to do it. I know people like to say "Well, you were probably asking for it" but no, I never ever in my life have ever dressed like that because I am very insecure and I always wear baggy hoodies to cover myself because I was always made fun of. I just need to speak about this because so far no one has spoken from experience and I am reading a lot of apologists and I realize that both genders do this to one another and I am not saying I am better because the bible says "I am just going to come out and say this because "As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one:" Romans 3:10, please just understand that even talking about this is hard because I have only told 1 other person in my life about this and they judged me and ignored me for it. And like I said, I am afraid and uncomfortable being around men in general, speaking to them, just being in the presence because I have had guys/dudes take pictures of me before when I was on the bus and I was wearing a skirt, it was past my knees. It was hot that day, I've even had teenagers older than me you know, cat call and all that and I wear LONG SKIRTS man, and I even wear leggings/shorts underneath. Please just stop being an apologist. Just really, men, woman, everyone in general, really, teach your children to respect woman and woman to respect men because that one kid who touched me, his parents were promiscuous and did things in front of him and his brothers. It really, really hurts when you read things others write who have not experienced these things. I have also had a girl, do things gross, gross things to me and I was crying and they were MAD I wasn't "enjoying" it, this is when I was a lesbian, in my past which was 2 years ago. Now I used to believe that woman who had experienced these things was because they were "asking" for it or something like that, but then I had read people, woman, girls, and men coming out about it and then I would experience small things of sexism and misogny, men thinking they are entitled to something, or women about other women or men, or men about men, etc. making comments about "go make a sandwich" or "only women go do those things, etc", "if you do it you're a fag" even if it was not about "sporty" things, men putting other men down, etc, etc. No wonder men and women are attracted to their own kind because people keep saying "If you do that you're gay" and you are speaking literally strong words that change their personality, it literally speaks to there very core and we have to be careful with EVERYTHING we do and say.
"Behold, I send you forth as sheep in the midst of wolves: be ye therefore wise as serpents, and harmless as doves." Matthew 10:16
"Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof." Proverbs 18:21
I know a LOT about the LGBTQA community because of me being you know, whatever, and stuff, I know what it's like, I know how powerful words are and that's why Jesus says:
"But what comes out of the mouth proceeds from the heart, and this defiles a person." Matthew 15:18
This is why the world is the way it is, but it is supposed to be this way.
"And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God." Roman 12:2
"As obedient children, not fashioning yourselves according to the former lusts in your ignorance:" 1 Peter 1:14
"Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him." 1 John 2:15
"Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God." James 4:4
And the reason why I became a lesbian, was because when I was a child my cousin would save provocative pictures of women on the computer and I would see them, and I was aroused as a kid because of this and confused by it so for a long time I identified as "Bisexual" because I online dated with guys who mostly looked for looks and even 13 year old kids would be participating in sex and just STUPID stuff you shouldn't be doing and just awful. You should stop judging these people because Jesus says do EVERYTHING in love, absolutely, Jesus doesn't say, "they will know you of your judgement and hatred" NO.
"By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another." John 13:35
And I am not saying, force your children to do things because they walk their own walk, they are Gods not yours. If you teach them in the right way, by asking God and not forcing them, be understanding. Don't be angered easily and I know as a parent it is hard because I saw it by looking at my mom and I know some things are SO HARD to do because you are just human, then let them fall. God will bring them back like He has for me because He is gracious and loving and kind and He loves me so much and that is HARD at times for me to understand and others, but He REALLY does.