I'm curious as to what Christian guys are waiting to see in a Christian girl before they will ask her out? I understand that for some guys it's just about being scared of rejection etc. but for as a Christian girl I don't know how I'm supposed to let a guy I like know 'hey if you ask me out I won't reject you'. It's really hard to have to wait for a guy to ask you out (and I won't ask a guy out myself because to me if he can't take the lead in asking me out how can I be sure that he'll take the lead in a marriage or family). But what can a Christian girl do to let a guy know that she would like to be asked out?
I think Christian guys are more careful and picky about asking out. The Christian guy actually thinks long term. Contrast that with the secular guy who may just go for a pretty face. Christian guy may take his time. I believe this is probably a huge factor for Christian guys and why a Christian guy may not ask a Christian girl out.
Take me for instance, I don't like it when Christian girls where short shorts. I like scouting out Christian girls who wear skirts or dresses and if they're not around, jeans. I think its a sign of modesty. Next, I'd find out if she is actually a Christian... talk about her faith... testimony perhaps. Then get to know her a bit... see what's she like... is she fairly nice? Also, look for any feminism, bad behavior, liberalism... all the same. And if in the conversation she isn't like this and there's some kind of connection* then maybe she's one to ask out.
I mean just look at what Christian guys say on these forums. You hear them thinking about character and other long-term things.
Anyways, if you want to get the attention of a Christian guy... just be nice, smile, compliment the guy. All this should be easy to do since you like the guy already. Basically, show subtle interest. Unfortunately, I think this is a tough strategy but eventually he'll get the idea. Also, you just being pleasant around him... is probably just going to help you out.
I think a thing most guys really like in a woman is just how pleasant she can be. Contrast that with an angry, princess-complex, egotistical, thinks the world should do her bidding... liberal feminist. The pleasant, classy, modest Christian girl is far better.