With the constant battle between the sexes today, of course this issue would be a hot one still. Again (and maybe I should have this as a signature), I want to remind Christians to not only take note of what the Bible is saying but somewhat more importantly what it is showing. The Bible says a lot, so we just read and tend to miss what it actually shows. Here are some examples:
1. The Bible says that all the cities of the plain (Sodom, etc.) were destroyed; but it shows that one (which Lot later named 'Zoar') was not destroyed.
2. The Bible says that Jesus heals people according to their faith; but it shows Jesus healing people who had no faith.
There are many more examples; the important thing is that you can't get all that the Bible is saying if you're just reading what it's saying; you have to look close (like Moses did at the burning bush) and realize what it is showing you (i.e. what it is really saying). Jesus said several times, "You have heard that it was said... but I tell you..." He wasn't changing but fulfilling or perfecting what was said in the past. The Bible says one thing and then perfects (completes it) by showing something that seems different. The fuller truth is in what the Bible shows, not just what it says. In the OT, women didn't seem to be allowed to own lands or inheritances or teach or minister; then we see women like Zelophehad's daughters, Caleb's daughter, Job's daughters (all these gaining lands and inheritances alongside their brothers and other men), Deborah (a powerful apostolic woman who was a prophetess), Huldah, Miriam, Noadiah (all OT), Anna, Phillip's daughters, Priscilla, Junia, and several others (NT).
All writers in the Bible (even the ones who don't have their own books but wrote parts of Books like King Nebuchadnezzar and several others) were male, and all the first apostles and the seventy-two disciples sent out to do Jesus' works were male. But females have a place in ministry alongside males. Paul says he doesn't allow women to teach; i.e. to have authority over a male. He was talking about heart attitudes all around which was why he included "to have authority" over men. Paul said that when the whole church comes together, that everyone who has a teaching or prophecy (etc.) can share. He did not say only men but all. If the Bible says women can't teach over men but the Bible shows that women can teach, what can we deduce from this? This: when women minister, they can minister to men, but they can only exercise authority over women. In the same way, the woman's husband, not the pastor or minister, exercises authority over his wife in that he teaches/explains Scripture to him. The minister teaches and she listens; but she doesn't ask him and he explains; when she asks, she asks her husband whose knowledge will be sufficient for her (because the position between a woman and a pastor where she asks his advice and he gives it to her is an intimate one which can lead to sin (and has many times), and God knew ahead of time). It is a rebellious spirit that the Bible is curtailing in saying that women should have no authority over men. When Jesus arrived in the Church at Thyatira, He saw the rebellion that can quickly manifest when women teach over (or in the place of) men.