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I just don't understand this, so I want to know if any other people here have had similar experiences. I'm talking both romantic relationships and friendships. Things will be going great - you guys have been talking a lot and/or for a long time, and suddenly the other person withdraws and they ignore your messages. You never hear from them again, even though you've tried reaching out to them multiple times (in a non-clingy/non-threatening way, of course). Things were going good, and you know for a fact that you didn't say anything to upset them. You know that your breath didn't stink, or you didn't have any BO to scare them off. You gave them space when they needed it, and you talked when you wanted to. The topics of conversation were always humorous, with an occasional rant/talking from your heart type of stuff, but nothing bad/frequent enough to scare them off. But yet they just leave you in the dust.
I have had this happen in almost every friendship I've ever had, as well as any semi-romantic relationship as well. It just doesn't make any sense. I'm trying to find any of my character flaws that could be scaring people off, but I'm just not seeing it?
Do you have this happen to you, and what do you do to find lifelong friends/partners who will stick with you till death? I'm obviously not looking in the right places it seems.
I have had this happen in almost every friendship I've ever had, as well as any semi-romantic relationship as well. It just doesn't make any sense. I'm trying to find any of my character flaws that could be scaring people off, but I'm just not seeing it?
Do you have this happen to you, and what do you do to find lifelong friends/partners who will stick with you till death? I'm obviously not looking in the right places it seems.