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What is it yall look for in a girl? I want a nice Christian boy so badly, but I can't seem to find one anywhere! Help me out here 
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Really, these kinds of posts are silly. To ask suggests that you are seeking to do things to attract men (or boys in your case, which is rather odd at your age) which means you are willing to do and become something that is not reflective of who you truly are. You want a guy? Be yourself and stop worrying about how to change yourself to come across more appealing. That is a very secular mentality.
If the guy isn't interested in who and what he sees then he's not really interested in you. If you have to change your behavior or appearance, then he's not interested in you, but rather this facade you created. And over time, when you are not able to maintain it, and the real you comes out, there will be problems in the relationship because you will not be the person he was attracted to.
This 'on the prowl' mentality is also a big turn off for both men and women. I've had women on this site approach me that are so obviously just looking for a man, any man, that i run screaming. No one wants to be with someone who gives off the vibe 'i need a man/woman/err.. boy, you seem nice, so you'll do'.
I met a woman who seemed to have that mentality. And surprise surprise, she was divorced twice and still looking for her next man willing to take her (as opposed to wanting to be with her).
If the guy isn't interested in who and what he sees then he's not really interested in you. If you have to change your behavior or appearance, then he's not interested in you, but rather this facade you created. And over time, when you are not able to maintain it, and the real you comes out, there will be problems in the relationship because you will not be the person he was attracted to.
This 'on the prowl' mentality is also a big turn off for both men and women. I've had women on this site approach me that are so obviously just looking for a man, any man, that i run screaming. No one wants to be with someone who gives off the vibe 'i need a man/woman/err.. boy, you seem nice, so you'll do'.
I met a woman who seemed to have that mentality. And surprise surprise, she was divorced twice and still looking for her next man willing to take her (as opposed to wanting to be with her).
What is it yall look for in a girl? I want a nice Christian boy so badly, but I can't seem to find one anywhere! Help me out here
I don't believe that this is a dating site but I could be wrong on that. I am sorry, but I am not qualified to offer advice on seeking a romantic relationship.
What is it yall look for in a girl? I want a nice Christian boy so badly, but I can't seem to find one anywhere! Help me out here
What do I look for in a woman...hmmm?
Well. If you can really wow me intellectually that is pretty grand.
I gotta be honest I find it really dull to be with a girl and constantly feel like I have to be the one who finds subjects to discuss.
Having a broad range of interests and not being a helpless maiden is good.
Also I look for functioning organs.
The Singles Forum here on CC has plenty of good Christian MEN that frequent it. If you're only looking for a boy you'll probably have to look elsewhere.
I don't think she literally meant boy guys lol. I personally find a cute girl attractive- not hot just cute. I like a girl who is very kind hearted and can handle my wierdness meaning I can really be myself around here and trust me I am not like normal people.
I want to know and feel like I can really be at ease with her so when I cry I don't feel embarrased. I would love it if she loved God as much as I do and I need her to be more than okay with the fact that even though I would love her very greatly she will always be second in my life as God is and always will be first.
If she loves horror movies like me we can have a fun time together lol
I want to know and feel like I can really be at ease with her so when I cry I don't feel embarrased. I would love it if she loved God as much as I do and I need her to be more than okay with the fact that even though I would love her very greatly she will always be second in my life as God is and always will be first.
If she loves horror movies like me we can have a fun time together lol
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Obviously we know that. But it still stands out as strange when an adult woman uses the word 'boy' instead of 'man' when seeking a mate.
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Ask your mom and dad also they know alot about love and also God. Those 3 seem to find a great guy for any young lady and they know what u want in a guy than u do since u only think with your heart. Let them be your brain and see if u agree with them. Boys will be boys Christian or not, but there are some boys that will leave you breathless. Those are hard 2 find. That why u need 2 ask your parents and God. They know where those few boys are located
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The best friends I've had came along when I wasn't looking for a friend. The best women in my life came along when I wasn't looking (but was single).
Just one question...
24 is an adult nowdays?
Looking back on 24, I'd not call myself an adult at that age.
Just one question...
24 is an adult nowdays?
Looking back on 24, I'd not call myself an adult at that age.
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Hey! Welcome to CC.
I am not sure what I look for in a woman. I love food. Maybe a woman in the form of a cookie? But if I eat her up, I will need another one.. And another ..
One time I was out with my gf and I was really hungry. I had a light dinner the previous night. And since we were going for an all-you-can-eat buffet for lunch, I had a light breakfast too. While we were waiting for the buffet to open, I was looking at her and thinking 'Is she edible?' My tummy growled in response. I was just about to .. Thankfully the waiter interrupted my thoughts and led us to the buffet counter.
(P.S. Obviously, I am joking about the part where I wanted to eat her up. But I was THAT hungry.)
(P.P.S. Yes, I have a warped sense of humour. Now deal with it.)
I am not sure what I look for in a woman. I love food. Maybe a woman in the form of a cookie? But if I eat her up, I will need another one.. And another ..
One time I was out with my gf and I was really hungry. I had a light dinner the previous night. And since we were going for an all-you-can-eat buffet for lunch, I had a light breakfast too. While we were waiting for the buffet to open, I was looking at her and thinking 'Is she edible?' My tummy growled in response. I was just about to .. Thankfully the waiter interrupted my thoughts and led us to the buffet counter.
(P.S. Obviously, I am joking about the part where I wanted to eat her up. But I was THAT hungry.)
(P.P.S. Yes, I have a warped sense of humour. Now deal with it.)
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Tintin
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Hey! Welcome to CC.
I am not sure what I look for in a woman. I love food. Maybe a woman in the form of a cookie? But if I eat her up, I will need another one.. And another ..
One time I was out with my gf and I was really hungry. I had a light dinner the previous night. And since we were going for an all-you-can-eat buffet for lunch, I had a light breakfast too. While we were waiting for the buffet to open, I was looking at her and thinking 'Is she edible?' My tummy growled in response. I was just about to .. Thankfully the waiter interrupted my thoughts and led us to the buffet counter.
(P.S. Obviously, I am joking about the part where I wanted to eat her up. But I was THAT hungry.)
(P.P.S. Yes, I have a warped sense of humour. Now deal with it.)
Haha! That's not warped, that's awesome!
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Nowadays? It's not exactly new. And by 21 at the latest you should be an adult. Out of college (on average) old enough to drink, smoke, go to war, get married and even rent a car. Starting a career. Go to prison. Your brain should be finishing up development. Good chance you're living on your own (ok, in more recent times that's less common due to the financial debacle we're in, but overall it's still an option). You're more than 1/3 through your life already.
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Welcome to CC
It's not always this hostile in the singles forum... but sometimes people do tend to get a bit edgy
A little word of advice... Figure out the type of person you are before looking for a good Christian guy
It's not always this hostile in the singles forum... but sometimes people do tend to get a bit edgy
A little word of advice... Figure out the type of person you are before looking for a good Christian guy
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Being honest here, I don't think I've ever seens someone ask that type of question on a message board. I'm not saying it's a bad thing, it's just different. However, I can see the point in doing so. If you're hoping for a lot of posts with different guys' needs/wants, then you might be waiting for a while. But, if you just stick around and talk to people, and go from there, there's a chance of finding the person you're looking for. Whether or not that's here or not, who knows?
And, yeah, I know that these may be horrible ideas, and that's cool. I just think it's much better to get to know someone and what they look for as two go along, instead of just having everything out there all at once -- like a dating site. Good luck, and welcome to the boards!
And, yeah, I know that these may be horrible ideas, and that's cool. I just think it's much better to get to know someone and what they look for as two go along, instead of just having everything out there all at once -- like a dating site. Good luck, and welcome to the boards!
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A boy ! meh lady you need a Christian gentlemanWhat is it yall look for in a girl? I want a nice Christian boy so badly, but I can't seem to find one anywhere! Help me out here
[h=1]1 Corinthians 16:13King James Version (KJV)[/h]13 Watch ye, stand fast in the faith, quit you like men, be strong.
[h=1]Genesis 24:12-14King James Version (KJV)[/h]12 And he said O Lord God of my master Abraham, I pray thee, send me good speed this day, and shew kindness unto my master Abraham.
13 Behold, I stand here by the well of water; and the daughters of the men of the city come out to draw water:
14 And let it come to pass, that the damsel to whom I shall say, Let down thy pitcher, I pray thee, that I may drink; and she shall say, Drink, and I will give thy camels drink also: let the same be she that thou hast appointed for thy servant Isaac; and thereby shall I know that thou hast shewed kindness unto my master.
Follow this principle and let God write your love story you are guaranteen of a beautiful ending
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