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We talk about female submission alllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll the time , but what should male leadership look like to a woman who is considering him for a husband? Trying to determine whether or not she CAN submit, respect, etc. if and when she becomes his wife? I don't think I've ever seen a thread about this in the forum - only threads about how we ladies are suppose to submit. DON'T MISUNDERSTAND PLEASE! I just thought it would be nice to talk about the other side of the coin for once.
My stepdad was not a godly man until almost the end of his life; however, he WAS a military man, so he did know a lil sumpfin about leadership. He and my mom raised a bunch of children as well. Both of them always said that the best way to lead was by EXAMPLE. The "Do as I say, not as I do" method won't cut it. I found this to be highly effect and true in raising my son, so I've always viewed being "led" by a spouse in the same way...but that's just me.
So...
MEN: What does it look like from a male perspective?
LADIES: What does it look like from your perspective?
What does scripture say it looks like from God's perspective?
Please try to play nice and stay on topic. Thank you!
We talk about female submission alllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll the time , but what should male leadership look like to a woman who is considering him for a husband? Trying to determine whether or not she CAN submit, respect, etc. if and when she becomes his wife? I don't think I've ever seen a thread about this in the forum - only threads about how we ladies are suppose to submit. DON'T MISUNDERSTAND PLEASE! I just thought it would be nice to talk about the other side of the coin for once.
My stepdad was not a godly man until almost the end of his life; however, he WAS a military man, so he did know a lil sumpfin about leadership. He and my mom raised a bunch of children as well. Both of them always said that the best way to lead was by EXAMPLE. The "Do as I say, not as I do" method won't cut it. I found this to be highly effect and true in raising my son, so I've always viewed being "led" by a spouse in the same way...but that's just me.
So...
MEN: What does it look like from a male perspective?
LADIES: What does it look like from your perspective?
What does scripture say it looks like from God's perspective?
Please try to play nice and stay on topic. Thank you!