I am a person who values personal space. While I am open and transparent, there are some boundaries which I believe are good for any relationship. One of that is interfering with my emails, mobile phone, social media accounts etc. It is not because I have something to hide, but it is because I value my personal space.
I would not go through the following things of my gf -
- Her social media accounts
- Phones/laptops
- Her bag/purse/whatever-you-ladies-call-it
- Attending calls/messages meant for her
- Her personal diary or Bible
- Her circle of friends (it is okay to get to know them but it is not ok to 'invite yourself' into the circle)
In short, anything that she calls as personal, is off-limits for me.