Can you be out of Fellowship with God and still be Saved?

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Can you be out of Fellowship with God and still be Saved?


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psalm6819

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What does the law consist of?

One might think only the ten commandments but they would be wrong.

613 of them all listed for you. So ignorance is no excuse.

what about an unconfessed sin there?

no forgiveness without confession? each individual sin? or like a blanket confession?

what if someone had a massive heart attack immediate death?
 
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True.
I am not denying that kingdoms can be and are real places.
But in this case, I'm asking for your (or THEE) definition ( when this term is used throughout the NT) of the "Kingdom of God" ??
Is the KOG ever referenced as a physical place, or should/can it be taken to mean a literal place, in context to how it is used?

In Luke 7:28....he who is least in the Kingdom of God is greater than John the Baptist? We are greater the John in Heaven? I don't think so.
Equal maybe? But greater than John? The term KOG must mean something else?

I'm telling you brother, this is so important to know. It clears up a lot of scripture by understanding what Jesus meant when He used the KOG term.
The Kingdom of God is in reference to a citizenship. This citizenship will one day have a real place for us. To suggest otherwise is to propose that we will all be in some kind of Nirvana like state when all is said in and done and not being in any one physical place per say. But the Scriptures do not teach that, though. God's people will be in New Jerusalem on the Eternal New Earth when this world passes away.
 
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What does the law consist of?

One might think only the ten commandments but they would be wrong.

613 of them all listed for you. So ignorance is no excuse.

what about an unconfessed sin there?

no forgiveness without confession? each individual sin? or like a blanket confession?

what if someone had a massive heart attack immediate death?
The Law of Moses has been done away with Christ's death. Believers now live under the Commands of the New Testament. For obviously we can see a change in the Law. Christians are not seeking to rebuild the Temple to implement the animal sacriffices again. The Temple veil has been torn. Christians can also eat unclean animals which is forbidden in the Law. Christians are not to render evil for evil anymore (i.e. an eye for an eye). They are to now to turn the other cheek. So the Law is no longer binding in the New Testament. But that does not mean there are no laws or no commands given to us in the New Testament. Just take a piece of paper and write down anything that sounds like it would be a Command when reading the New Testament. Please take note that there are more NT Commands than OT Laws. There are 1,050 + New Testament Commands.

Anyways, I would recommend reading the many articles here at GCI to understand the topic on how the New Testament replaces the Old Testament in regards to God's Commands.

https://www.gci.org/law/lawmoses

Please also know that we are not justified by any Law keeping in and of itself. We are justified by God's grace. Meaning, that if we slip up to obey God's Commands (Under the New Testament), we have His grace to fall back upon (Thru repentance and confession). We have His Spirit whereby the Lord does the good work within us. Salvation is in the Lord. Not ourselves. We merely abide with God. But He does the work in us.
 
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When we REPENT and accept Jesus Christ as our Savior, we are saved in that moment. But if we sin again, we have to confess and repent of that sin. For when we came to Christ we acknowledged that we were a sinner in need of a Savior. That is what one does when they confess. They are continualy walking and abiding as they did the first day they came to him. Being humble always before Him. Do I believe a saint will not struggle with sin? No.

So you believe that we are saved . . . that we stumble in our walk . . . but as long as we stay humble and ask forgiveness we do not lose our salvation. BUT if we do not ask forgiveness, maybe we forget and we don't immediately ask forgiveness - then we are unsaved? What happens in the interim of sinning and restoration of fellowship? In that interim - are we saved?
But they will in time crucify the affections and lusts. It's what the end of Galatians 5 says. For those that are His have crucified the affections and lusts. Then read the verses before and ask yourself if the unrighteous shall inherit the Kingdom of God.
So did Paul finally attain perfection in his flesh at the end of his days when he said: For I am now ready to be offered, and the time o my departure is at hand. I have fought a good fight, have finished my course, I have kept the faith. 2 Timothy 4:6,7
Scripture is my answer to that question. You might want to read those verses. In Luke 13:3, Jesus says, repent or you will all perish. 1 John 1:6 says if we walk in darkness and say we have fellowship we lie and do not the truth. 1 John 1:7 says that if we walk in the light as he is in the light, the blood of Jesus cleanses us from sin. Are you walking light or darkness? Scripture says we are to confess our sins so as to be cleansed of all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9). For if a believer sins they have an advocate that they can go to named Jesus Christ (1 John 2:1). For Godly sorrow leads to repentance unto salvation. Think about that. Repentance unto... salvation. In other words, one follows the other. But to answer the question. No. The Tax Collector was not justified. He was the contrast of behavior that the Lord was showing not to have. As I said, this is clear to see when looking at other verses (As I shown above).
Jason did you read what I posted: What makes you think those that believe their faith in Jesus Christ makes them born again children of God and thus gives them eternal life and they are secure in that belief - do not humble themselves before God when they sin?
 
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For a person who is born again will act, and behave differently than the old man. They are changed. They are different. Because they have been changed and washed by the regeneration of the Holy Ghost.
Oh brother. Not all the time. Trust that. Not all the time.

I know people who have been born again and haven't acted any differently than before they was. They confess Christ as Lord with their tongues and they truly believe it in their heart. And they want to change for God, but they don't. Does that mean these people are any less deserving of Gods salvation because of Christ's work?

Look, lets not get off topic. If I'm wrong in anything I say, I appreciate your correction and guidance I really do. Lets face it, the only reason we're here is because of our faith. So it is Gods will that we are here today having this discussion.

But I must digress, you have taken something so very simple and over complicated it.

It is meant to be very simple. I am explicitly answering your original thread starting question of "Can you be out of Fellowship with God and still be Saved?" with a yes, you can.

Since everyones walk with God is different. That's another reason why you should never judge anyone.
I asked you to explain the words in the verses. Why are you not doing that? What are you tryng to avoid?
I am not trying to avoid anything. Why do you need me to "explain the words in the verses"? Use dictionary.com if you need to do that! :p
As for my walk with the Lord: Well, I am not perfect, but I do stay humble before the Lord and confess my sins and strive to walk uprightly with the Lord by His power and not mine. For without Him, I am nothing. I do not abide in unrepentant sin and do not think all my sin is taken away by a belief alone. The Scriptures do not teach that.
Well thats great brother! Truly great. Although, it is regardless here as to what you are or aren't without Him. Although you are 100% right and I metaphorically high five you for that. But I don't think I have ever said here that sin is taken away by a belief alone.

You say the scriptures don't teach that, but if that is so; about sin not being taken away by a belief alone, then what about 1 John 1:9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. then?

Isn't it enough to believe that, do as it says, then move on?

Once forgiven, always forgiven. The slate is wiped clean.

It is your single and simple child like faith that saves you, your faith in Christ and his forgiveness, not how times you repent of your sins.

Lets wrap this up with an example.

Lets say someone called Steve was a sinner, but got converted by a Christian friend and become a born again Christian. Steve is much happier with life now he knows the truth and has the joy that comes through faith in Christ. But try as hard as Steve might to please God, he still sometimes repeats old sins like swearing, being rude, being selfish, being proud, arrogant etc. Maybe even sometimes he does much worse things.

One day after Christian fellowship with worshiping and songs of praise, Steve goes home and flicks on the TV and sees some unwholesome stuff in a film or documentary, gets made and cusses outloud or strikes out in an act of thoughtless rage.

Steve has now sinned and is in danger of hellfire. Later on in that day, Jesus comes back in the clouds with the sound of trumpets pumping and the voice of God himself says Come up hither!

In the twinkling of an eye, all the dead are raised first and then all those that are still alive and are believers are called up to meet Jesus and our Father.

What about Steve? He had some sin that he never had a chance to confess. So does that mean he'll be left behind with all the atheists?

No of course not. His faith will save him. Not how fast he was able to confess his sin and get right with God again.

He was already right with God when he become born again.

You absolutely cannot loose your salvation if you are a true born again believer.

If you could, then Paul and the bible is a liar.

Now I'm sure you'll say something clever to this and tell me to go read some scripture somewhere. And I appreciate it I really do because it's all educational to me at the end of the day. :)

But that's my belief. My thoughts on the matter. My answer is, yes. And if you say no, you don't really know the bible or God as well as you think you do.

That might be a hard pill to swallow for some people.

But chin up! God loves us! He wants us to be happy!! H A P P Y!

He wants us to rightly divide His word in truth. But above all, He wants us to be happy and joyful.

People work better when they are happy.

God bless you and all!
 
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Dear Peaceful Believer:

Well, I am not avoiding anything. I believed I answered your concerns the best to my ability. But I honestly have to leave for now. Gotta run and take care of some stuff. But I will be back later to discuss your concerns you think I have (Which I believe do not exist).
 
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The Law of Moses has been done away with Christ's death. Believers now live under the Commands of the New Testament. For obviously we can see a change in the Law. Christians are not seeking to rebuild the Temple to implement the animal sacriffices again. The Temple veil has been torn. Christians can also eat unclean animals which is forbidden in the Law. Christians are not to render evil for evil anymore (i.e. an eye for an eye). They are to now to turn the other cheek. So the Law is no longer binding in the New Testament. But that does not mean there are no laws or no commands given to us in the New Testament. Just take a piece of paper and write down anything that sounds like it would be a Command when reading the New Testament. Please take note that there are more NT Commands than OT Laws. There are 1,050 + New Testament Commands.

Anyways, I would recommend reading the many articles here at GCI to understand the topic on how the New Testament replaces the Old Testament in regards to God's Commands.

https://www.gci.org/law/lawmoses
Commands of the New Testament

28 And one of the scribes came , and having heard them reasoning together , and perceiving that he had answered them well, asked him, Which is the first commandment of all? 29 And Jesus answered him, The first of all the commandments is, Hear , O Israel; The Lord our God is one Lord: 30 And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment. 31 And the second is like, namely this , Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. There is none other commandment greater than these


Jesus words not mine. He didn't mention confessing.... Show me ONE place JESUS made someone confess.


Jesus attitude to the sinner- Go and sin no more

others attitude-make a big show, sackcloth, ashes, confessions
 
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I will be back to talk later. Thank you everyone.
 

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The Kingdom of God is in reference to a citizenship. This citizenship will one day have a real place for us. To suggest otherwise is to propose that we will all be in some kind of Nirvana like state when all is said in and done and not being in any one physical place per say. But the Scriptures do not teach that, though. God's people will be in New Jerusalem on the Eternal New Earth when this world passes away.
Well, I think you sort of went off course, to what I was asking.

Simply,
Kingdom of God / Kingdom of Heaven = all things / mysteries of God, Jesus, Jesus' teachings, Bible, knowledge pertaining to the issue at hand, etc, that can be understood by human minds.
Heaven= is the place where God resides.
Kingdoms=physical places on earth, or in reference to a physical kingdom later. (NOT to be confused with KOG or KOH)

Don't believe me, please check it. Anytime the KOG or the KOH is used throughout the NT, it is in reference to obtaining knowledge, etc.
When/if the Lord speaks of Heaven (the place where God is) He simply uses the word 'Heaven' on it's own, never KOG.

He will be greater than John the Baptist?............I think it means, He will have more knowledge on the things of God, making that individual "greater" than John, who was limited to OT knowledge.

If one is confused on this, then most of the NT must be hard to understand for them? It changes a bit....doesn't take AWAY from the meaning, but clears it up.
Or they have to explain away why a parable doesn't make sense if it refers to a physical Heaven? Ten Virgins, etc?

The "keys" brother.
 
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As for your implication of all sin being the same: Well, 1 John 5:16 refutes such thinking, my friend.

The Meaning of 1st John Chapter 5 Verse 16
(A Quick Overview Using Various Scripture Verses):


1 John 5:16 is clearly talking about how the Christian needs to pray for another believer sins in regards to His spiritual condition. These sins can either be transgressions that do not lead unto spiritual death and or they can be sins that do in fact lead unto spiritual death (i.e. the Lake of Fire).

#1. The Believer's Sin that does NOT lead unto Death are:

  • (a) Sins that are truly confessed to God and cleansed (1 John 1:9)

  • (b) Hidden faults or "non second death sins" done out of ignorance (Psalms 19:12), which is part of falling short of the glory of God (Romans 3:23).

If a believer sees another believer commit a sin that they know they are confessing (i.e. a sin that does not lead unto death), they are to pray for life (i.e. everlasting life) to continue to flow within their life. This is the hope that they continue to abide in the Lord and His righteousness.

#2. The Believer's and Unbelievers's Sin that leads unto Death are:


If a believer sees another believer not confessing their sins and (i.e. a sin unto death) and they are refusing to confess or repent of it, they are admonished not to neglect to pray for them, as well.

1 John 5:16 NLT - "If you see a Christian brother or sister sinning in a way that does not lead to death, you should pray, and God will give that person life. But there is a sin that leads to death, and I am not saying you should pray for those who commit it."
Wherefore I say unto you, ALL MANNER OF SIN AND BLASPHEMY shall be forgiven unto men: BUT blasphemy against the Holy Spirit shall not be forgiven him . . . .neither in this world, neither in the world to come.

There is only one sin that leads to death . . . blasphemy of the holy Spirit. [Matt. 12:31,32]
 
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Also, just read the gospels again. I never get an impression of OSAS when I read them. But the exact opposite. Jesus never condoned the Pharisees evil behavior; And neither should you.
Here's another question that somehow slipped by but fits here also.
Was there a time "before faith came"? Was the "new birth" available before the day of Pentecost?

Jason, it would be nice if you could just simply answer a question without going all over the place. Thanks.

BTW, I do not condone evil behavior.
 

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Paul says work out your own salvation with fear and trembling. Meaning, sin is no joke. For sin put Jesus Christ on the cross. The OSAS proponent minimizes sin and treats it like it is a fluffly kitten. But sin separates a person from God. That is why 1 John 1:9 says that you are to confess your sins so as to be cleansed of all unrighteousness.
There you go again misapplying a scripture. No born again Christian minimizes sin. Born again Christians maximize grace. It is common for folks to find in others things they cannot forgive in themselves. Those who strive against Gods forgiveness and grace, who feel it necessary to deprive themselves of joy, cannot tolerate joyfulness in others who have a more mature relationship with Christ.

I have no interest in sin. I do not go about everyday fearing that I might sin. I rejoice that I am saved and that God desires fellowship with me. Rejoice in the Lord always and again I say rejoice.

I cannot help but to think that no one would want what most of the sour lemon Christians around here are showing. Why would God allow us to fear everyday that we might sin and lose our salvation?

For the cause of Christ
Roger
 
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Jason.....counting the number of commandments in the New Testament?

Do you not trust the Holy Spirit to guide you into all knowledge?
Didn't Paul say something about putting yokes on others that we cannot bear?

Jesus gave us liberty not rules, along with that liberty we are called to not offend others, it's not a license to sin and why would anyone who understands how tremendous a price Jesus paid try to take advantage?

I surely would not and I embrace eternal security. I obey out of love not fear of breaking commandments. Have I confessed a sin after being born again? Yes, but in agreement with God that it is not correct behavior and acknowledge I need His help to change the behavior, however my salvation is not contingent on confession other than the confession my sins are forgiven by the blood of Christ.
 
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There you go again misapplying a scripture. No born again Christian minimizes sin. Born again Christians maximize grace. It is common for folks to find in others things they cannot forgive in themselves. Those who strive against Gods forgiveness and grace, who feel it necessary to deprive themselves of joy, cannot tolerate joyfulness in others who have a more mature relationship with Christ.

I have no interest in sin. I do not go about everyday fearing that I might sin. I rejoice that I am saved and that God desires fellowship with me. Rejoice in the Lord always and again I say rejoice.

I cannot help but to think that no one would want what most of the sour lemon Christians around here are showing. Why would God allow us to fear everyday that we might sin and lose our salvation?

For the cause of Christ
Roger
it's not about fear it's about hating sin as much as God hates sin.....I would rather not sin ...than sin and have God forgive me...
 
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The Scriptures say that those who are his have crucified the affections and lusts. Meaning, the saints have perfected themselves.

In other words, it has to do with your approach and attitude towards sin. What do you do when you sin? Do you just think you are forgiven and move on? Or do you confess that sin and strive to forsake it with God's help knowing that sin can cause you destruction of your very soul? For what purpose is their to confess your sin if you are saved anyways?

Is it based off some false notion of restoring fellowship while being saved?

I say that because Romans 8:9 says that if you do not have the Spirit of Christ you do not belong to Him. I say this because 1 John 5:12 says, "He that has the Son has life and He that does not have the Son does not have life." I say this because John 17:3 says that eternal life is that we might know the only true God, Jesus Christ. Knowing someone is having fellowship whichh is tied to eternal life.
Jason, you are being dishonest and here is why...

This understanding that you continue to propagate as doctrine leaves no room for anyone to fail without the loss of salvation, reconciliation and eternal life (Rom 14:4, 5:1,2). Jason, what you fail to understand is that God has put away a multitude of sin in your life that you never acknowledged or confessed. You committed it either willfully or involuntarily and it was part of your life, but you never confessed it to God because it was so deeply embedded in your subconscious mind and heart. It had to do with wicked imaginations and thoughts (Gen 6:5, 8:21, Deut 31:21, Jer 3:17, 7:24,
Rom 1:21, 2 Cor 3:3-7) that were conceived in the chamber of imagery (Ez 8) we all have within the mind. Love covered those wicked imaginations that were sinful and full of iniquity and they were put away without God having to bring them to your remembrance or putting them before your face. Did you know that presumption is a great transgression (Ps 19:13) and when you presume against a brother you have transgressed and it falls way short of loving your brother? If you were to try and search out these things in your own life God would not show them to you because He saw them and put them away through the shed blood of Christ.

Bottom line for you and all of us is that we have unconfessed sin in our life, every single one of us, and God has covered those sins and has put them away. To deny that is to live a lie and not the truth. We thank God for his great love wherein he has loved us and for the multitude of sins he has covered by that love. You may not want to admit to this and that would be nothing less then self righteousness on your part that always leads to evil through a contrived intellectual understanding that has nothing to do with the faith of our Lord Jesus Christ.
 

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No, that is not the personal I am talking about. Being personal with God is different than a person trying to make things personal. I am talking about the type of personal behavior where you are set out to attack me instead of the doctrine. You are not Jesus to know my heart and thoughts or my walk with God. In fact, posting your personal life on the internet can be dangerous. Familes have been broken up. People's careers have been ruined. Others have been pushed to commit suicide because of it. For just look at all the problems Facebook has caused. For I doubt you would share everything in your life openly here or online. Why would you expect it of others?
My life is a learning tool for others. I've shared just about everything but my bank account numbers on here. I'm not afraid to let people know what my life is like and how God has shaped it.

I also don't say thing like you can be out of fellowship and then backpedal with backsliding caveats to cover up my loopholes.
 
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Jason.....counting the number of commandments in the New Testament?

Do you not trust the Holy Spirit to guide you into all knowledge?
Didn't Paul say something about putting yokes on others that we cannot bear?

Jesus gave us liberty not rules, along with that liberty we are called to not offend others, it's not a license to sin and why would anyone who understands how tremendous a price Jesus paid try to take advantage?

I surely would not and I embrace eternal security. I obey out of love not fear of breaking commandments. Have I confessed a sin after being born again? Yes, but in agreement with God that it is not correct behavior and acknowledge I need His help to change the behavior, however my salvation is not contingent on confession other than the confession my sins are forgiven by the blood of Christ.
so you are saying you sinned and confessed the sin ....but even if you did not confess that sin it makes no difference because that sin is not charged against you since your sins are already confessed and forgiven by the blood of Christ???? in other words the wages of sin is not death for you...but rather ES
 
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So you believe that we are saved . . . that we stumble in our walk . . . but as long as we stay humble and ask forgiveness we do not lose our salvation. BUT if we do not ask forgiveness, maybe we forget and we don't immediately ask forgiveness - then we are unsaved? What happens in the interim of sinning and restoration of fellowship? In that interim - are we saved?

So did Paul finally attain perfection in his flesh at the end of his days when he said: For I am now ready to be offered, and the time o my departure is at hand. I have fought a good fight, have finished my course, I have kept the faith. 2 Timothy 4:6,7

Jason did you read what I posted: What makes you think those that believe their faith in Jesus Christ makes them born again children of God and thus gives them eternal life and they are secure in that belief - do not humble themselves before God when they sin?
Hey look. I didn't write the Bible. If you have a problem with 1 John 2:1, and 1 John 1:6-9 then take it up with God.

As for one forgetting to ask for forgiveness: Well, then I would say one is not sensitive to the conviction of the Spirit to repent and they are desensitized by their sin. In other words, they prefer their sin over God.

Now, does a person immediately lose salvation if they sin that day and God knows they are going to repent by the end of the night of it? I would venture to say that is not the case. It is about ignoring the conviction of the Spirit calling you to repent and you refusing to repent whereby you would stumble back into an unsaved state by not having God abide in you anymore (With the Lord being your source of eternal life).

As for 2 Timothy 4:6-7: Again, this cannot support your sin and still be saved doctrine. It doesn't even suggest such a thing. On the contrary, if you were to look at verse 3 it says, "For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears;" This is in context to 2 Timothy 3:1-5 that says,

"This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy. Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers fo those that are good, Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away."

As for your question: It is still a little unclear in the way that you asked it. I am not sure what you are saying. Please rephrase the question in a way that is more clear to understand. Thank you.
 
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so you are saying you sinned and confessed the sin ....but even if you did not confess that sin it makes no difference because that sin is not charged against you since your sins are already confessed and forgiven by the blood of Christ???? in other words the wages of sin is not death for you...but rather ES
What is the purpose of confessing if it doesn't really do anything for you eternally? I mean, folks are just going to end up with God anyways according to OSAS right? So I agree, my friend. It doesn't make any sense. 1 John 1:9 says if we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. Now, either that verse is lying or the OSAS proponent is lying. I will take my chances on what the Bible says and not what I would want to be true.
 
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so you are saying you sinned and confessed the sin ....but even if you did not confess that sin it makes no difference because that sin is not charged against you since your sins are already confessed and forgiven by the blood of Christ???? in other words the wages of sin is not death for you...but rather ES
When I accepted the sacrifice of Jesus as payment for my sin I became a child of God. I admitted that nothing I ever did would be righteous enough to satisfy His law and I depended completely on Jesus blood. Before I was a child of God my sins were imputed to me- I deserved judgement, now because of Jesus, I get mercy.

The sin that is unforgivable is refusing the Holy Spirit, His convicting/drawing one to the fact there is only one way-

Jesus and then they reject truth. There can be no forgiveness when one rejects it.