THANK U. Where do i start! okay.... here's my reason ... (though there r many other things troubling me, leading me to depression but this one is taking control of me). I'm engaged(betrothed) to a believer. I was happy because i always wanted to marry someone who put JESUS first. I dreamt of leading a Godly life with my hubby, To raise children in Christ. He is one such person. But.... i feel he doesn't love me (he is cordial) and so i feel if we get married we may end up arguing, fighting and hurting each other. At the same time I also feel may be he doesn't know how to express. The bible says Love is patient, enduring, etc, etc and that being betrothed means its a covenant made and to break it, it has to go through a process - a divorce is required. I Don't know how all this works in today's world. I don't want to break this engagement but he doesn't love me and i dont want to marry someone who doesn't love me... and the bible says love is to not expect anything in return. But it hurts when he doesn't call or reply my msgs. I'm sooo confused. I donno wat to do. I have thoughts like we will not be happy when married. Divorce is not an option for me if our marriage won't work, at the same time I don't want to be hurt for years and years. I just want to get over this. Both of us prayed if it is God's will for us to become one, but God is not answering us. To be patient is extremely difficult for me now. All I think is our marriage will hurt our parents and us. Please pray for us to take the right decision and most importantly obey God.