I was raised in a ''born again'' church. That church grew also, but I never heard the message of grace Paul wrote of forthrightly preached from the pulpit. It is a strange thing to me, I believe in the gifts of the Holy Spirit for today, the bible is the final authority for the Christian, and yet, although I would naturally be at home in an ''Evangelical church'' I have found many of them are very dangerous places to be. For to preach ceaselessly a person must live their life to a very high degree, but not preach the grace of the bible alongside it has had terrible consequences on many. And yet, there are people who would not term themselves ''Evangelical who have a better understanding of the message of grace(the justification, sanctification of the believer) than most Evangelical churches.
I have my own opinion as to why this happens. Many accept the fullness of the Holy Spirit into their lives, but then, in their eagerness(zealousness) to live according to the conviction placed on them, they try and make themselves good enough for God-in reality. Only two results are possible. Either you give up crushed, or you become somewhat hard nosed, and put on an act before others you know you cannot live up to beneath the skin.
Your beliefs are very similar to the church of my youth. The gist is the same, you just word it a bit differently.
Anyway, now I go to a church that does not call itself ''Charasmatic'' but it has the core of the teaching. It doesn't crush others.
You see, a message of. ''The key to living an ever holier life is knowing Jesus died for all your sins, past, present and future'' does not rest easy with many, and it seems to rest least easy with the churches I spent so many years in, in my youth.