Why am I having so much of a problem getting a good Christian girlfriend?

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Sharp

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Mordred said:
it's because you're destined to live in solitude your entire life; this is the curse for 'waiting for the right one', is because frankly to be honest, they is no right one. Might as well get laid, smoke, drink, and enjoy yourself.
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Well this was very unhelpful advice.
 
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greatkraw

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Mordred said:
it's because you're destined to live in solitude your entire life; this is the curse for 'waiting for the right one', is because frankly to be honest, they is no right one. Might as well get laid, smoke, drink, and enjoy yourself.
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MODS will you pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeze take alook at this guy's profile??
 
dothackzero

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fun... I another of my friend has a girlfriend now. Now I'm depressed again...

Anyway, my parents are planning on getting me something called girl traning which is apprently is something like dance training only for getting better with girls. In this case, it should also help with my overall social skills...

and I'm still not getting anything from God telling me that I'll ever get a freaking girlfriend. ;_;
 
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greatkraw

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dothackzero said:
fun... I another of my friend has a girlfriend now. Now I'm depressed again...

Anyway, my parents are planning on getting me something called girl traning which is apprently is something like dance training only for getting better with girls. In this case, it should also help with my overall social skills...

and I'm still not getting anything from God telling me that I'll ever get a freaking girlfriend. ;_;
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are you living with your parents?

what is your occupation?
 
dothackzero

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Yep, things are still aren't going anywhere. and all my friends are getting girlfriends, and I still don't have a single freaking friend that's a girl in real life... I'm sorta depressed right now...
 
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Tegelik

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eeh no worries. me and some of my friends are also 20+ and without girlfriends. You are not in a hopeless situation. I know several people who have met their wives in their 30s. Just think about that, hope you won't feel that depressed anymore.
 
dothackzero

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So what are my chances of find girls my age in these classes at these time slots?

Introductory Psychology: Monday, Wednesday 08:00AM - 09:55AM
Intro to 3D Animation: Monday, Wednesday 02:00PM - 04:55PM
Intro to Web Programming: Monday 06:00PM - 09:55PM
English Communications 1: Friday 05:30PM - 10:50PM
 
Sharp

Sharp

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psychology and english are most likely.
 
eugenius

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At these time slots eh. As if though the time of the class matters. And what the heck is girl training.

You really should stop going all emo every time one of your friends gets a GF. You are way too desperate man. The meaning of life does not lie in getting a GF.
 
upwardcall78

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What is your life dude? I am 31, I've only been saved for 4 years, I had gf's and flings in the past, and they don't fulfill, Christ is the only One who satisfies! Just become the Man Christ want's you to be, be ready to lead a woman, that's a big one
 
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Dread_Zeppelin

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I'm convinced there is nothing that anyone can say, you are so obsessed that you need reassurance even after being reassured. You can't even trust God.
 
dothackzero

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That's probably true actually... We are still friends right, Dread?
 
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Dread_Zeppelin

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of course! :) sometimes true friends have to say the hard thing.
 
seoulsearch

seoulsearch

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Dread_Zeppelin said:
of course! :) sometimes true friends have to say the hard thing.
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See now, Dot?

Here is a very intelligent, attractive FEMALE close to you in age who is trying to be your friend and is willing to take the time to give you some pointers...

If you won't listen to the rest of us... maybe you'll at least listen to her! *crosses fingers*
 
dothackzero

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Dread_Zeppelin said:
of course! :) sometimes true friends have to say the hard thing.
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Okay good, Just wanted too make sure. ^_^

Anyway, I think the reason why it's so hard for me to listen to you guys is because it's more of a OCD which means all of the reassurence in the world will probably do little good...
 
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Jessiemusical

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give your singleness to God and he will give it back to you...it's going to be very rewarding :)
 
dothackzero

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I'm pretty sure I tried it before, it doesn't work... Anyway, it seems like God is telling me that I need to wait and build up my communcation skill to a normal level for now. After that, and fixing my shyness. I should be able to start making friends hopefully with girls too, which should eventaully lead towards getting a girlfriend, then marriage, then sex. :)
 
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Jessiemusical

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you tried it before? hmm....was it 100% ? it wouldn't work if you were not giving it to Him 100%, worried about who you're going to date, worried about many things. To give it to Him fully 100% is to give everything to Him, not worry about one detail of your life and trusting in Him. God will give you peace, joy, and happiness, because He fulfills all of our needs. He is everything! While being single, single people need to focus on trying to find their calling, and passions in life. And also to do the will of God. Look at Adam, when he was single, he didn't worry about who he was going to marry and date. He gave it all to God, knowing that in His time He was going to provide. Not only that, while being single, Adam was busy with doing the will of God and getting things done. Like Adam in his singlehood, we as well need to be striving the best we can be and doing God's will and not worry about it! Adam gave his singleness to God, and God gave it back to him...Eve. When you give time to God, He will give it to you back....it's all about utting Him first in our lives.
 
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greatkraw

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Jessiemusical said:
you tried it before? hmm....was it 100% ? it wouldn't work if you were not giving it to Him 100%, worried about who you're going to date, worried about many things. To give it to Him fully 100% is to give everything to Him, not worry about one detail of your life and trusting in Him. God will give you peace, joy, and happiness, because He fulfills all of our needs. He is everything! While being single, single people need to focus on trying to find their calling, and passions in life. And also to do the will of God. Look at Adam, when he was single, he didn't worry about who he was going to marry and date. He gave it all to God, knowing that in His time He was going to provide. Not only that, while being single, Adam was busy with doing the will of God and getting things done. Like Adam in his singlehood, we as well need to be striving the best we can be and doing God's will and not worry about it! Adam gave his singleness to God, and God gave it back to him...Eve. When you give time to God, He will give it to you back....it's all about utting Him first in our lives.
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