I think it would be balanced to consider what 'Slepsog4' has mentioned without it being judgmental or critical of others. Look at this portion of scripture;
Prov 23:29-32
29 Who hath woe? who hath sorrow? who hath contentions? who hath babbling? who hath wounds without cause? who hath redness of eyes?
30 They that tarry long at the wine; they that go to seek mixed wine.
31 Look not thou upon the wine when it is red, when it giveth his colour in the cup, when it moveth itself aright.
32 At the last it biteth like a serpent, and stingeth like an adder.
33 Thine eyes shall behold strange women, and thine heart shall utter perverse things.
34 Yea, thou shalt be as he that lieth down in the midst of the sea, or as he that lieth upon the top of a mast.
35 They have stricken me, shalt thou say, and I was not sick; they have beaten me, and I felt it not: when shall I awake? I will seek it yet again.
I know that many will say that this pertains to only those that tarry long at the wine but why would anyone want to mess with a substance that has the potential to cause man to enter into all these things that are mentioned. What kind of wisdom would promote such a thing? Is it wisdom from above or from below / James 3?
If you are going to be true to the whole counsel of God and you have an assembly of believers that you shepherd, don't leave out the truth and your convictions that it is okay to drink wine as long as it is not in excess. Are you going to define excess for each person or leave that up to them? Are you going to tell them not to drive and operate machinery? If someone has an accident because that were effected by one glass of wine, are you going to accept responsibility when they come to you and say, 'You told us it was okay to drink wine and I only had one glass and look what happened?'
Are you going to have a couple of glasses before you counsel someone or preach the word of God? What about those hectic days and weeks where you have lots of stress, are you going to double up and have an extra glass or two and the phone rings and there is an emergency but you can't respond because you are under the influence? What if your daughter called you because she got stranded and you were not able to respond and you find out later she got molested at the roadside by a passer-by? What if your house catches on fire and you got out but it slipped your mind and you forgot that your youngest was sleeping because you were under the influence of alcohol by drinking wine because of all the stress in your life.
Do you have an answer for these things that could very well happen because you do not know what a day will bring forth in your life or the life of your family / Mt 6:25, Prov 27:1. Well, I have an answer. DON'T DRINK WINE OR ANY ALCOHOLIC BEVERAGE FOR ANY REASON SO THAT YOU CAN BE PREPARED MENTALLY, EMOTIONALLY AND PHYSICALLY FOR WHAT LIFE MIGHT BRING FORTH.
That should be a good enough reason, don't you think? But if you decide to drink wine, I will not judge you but wisdom is justified of her chidren / Mt 11:19.