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kodiak

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melita916 said:
when i first started working with the insurance side, i would almost cry cuz i didn't understand. my bosses were so nice to me in saying that i was doing a good job considering insurances usually try to trick a person to get out from paying. same thing with claims. when one returned to me all kinds of messed up, i would get depressed (because i don't like messing up!). but now? i know how things roll lol



being nice to mean people is a challenge. i just had to learn to not take it personal lol
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I think my insurance hates me now....they couldn't get out of paying a lot...

One thing I have learned is if someone is being really rude and wont calm down, catch them off guard with a nice change of topics....say something like "nice shoes, where did you get them?" They will be so confused...I have had people just walk away confused after that... it diffuses a bad situation....
 
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roxxyroller said:
This is my very best friend in the world, Debbie. We just got off the phone after singing the old sitcoms theme songs (Gilligan's Island, Facts of Life, Laverne and Shirley, etc) ... yep we are 2 weirdo's cut from the same cloth! hehe I keep telling her to join this site .. we all need to coax her!!!!!! I love her to pieces!!!!!!

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I see you convinced her to join? Welcome to CC, Debbie.
 
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Debbie!! :) :)

glad you joined the madhouse. ;)
welcome, indeed. ♥
 
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Ellie! I peeped in quick to say I love you! You are beautiful to my heart! Gotta run! ;-)
 
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kodiak said:
I think my insurance hates me now....they couldn't get out of paying a lot...

One thing I have learned is if someone is being really rude and wont calm down, catch them off guard with a nice change of topics....say something like "nice shoes, where did you get them?" They will be so confused...I have had people just walk away confused after that... it diffuses a bad situation....
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You dont want the insurance company to love you. If so, chances are you are making bad decissions and are paying them good money you could be spending on you and your family.

That catch them off guard idea is real good. I can imagine myself ranting over something and the person on the wrong end of my rant suddenly says: Oh wow, that outfit is super cool, where did you get it from? Me: Oh..eh...from (insert name)..thank you...
 
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jennymae said:
You dont want the insurance company to love you. If so, chances are you are making bad decissions and are paying them good money you could be spending on you and your family.

That catch them off guard idea is real good. I can imagine myself ranting over something and the person on the wrong end of my rant suddenly says: Oh wow, that outfit is super cool, where did you get it from? Me: Oh..eh...from (insert name)..thank you...
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Unless them liking you means that you don't have to fight with them...lol

I actually learned about that trick while writing a paper for a criminal justice class....it can be used in multiple situations...
 
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kodiak said:
Unless them liking you means that you don't have to fight with them...lol

I actually learned about that trick while writing a paper for a criminal justice class....it can be used in multiple situations...
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Lol, it is a long way from liking to loving...are you doing criminal justice?
 
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kodiak said:
Unless them liking you means that you don't have to fight with them...lol

I actually learned about that trick while writing a paper for a criminal justice class....it can be used in multiple situations...
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One to get used to using also, is the Sandwich Technique.
 
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melita916 said:
good morning friends! i'm so tired. at 1:30 am, i heard a lot of noise on my street. got up to look out the window, and there was a group of (what i assume) teenagers. what i could gather is they got together to watch 2 guys fight. what the flip, man!! don't they know people gotta work in the morning? and where are their parents?!!!! then i heard one of them say, "hey i just saw a cop drive by!" and then they left -_-

seriously. what the heck
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Seriously, I feel your pain. My neighbors love to party... I live in a small apartment complex and They love to get rowdy!

At 11:00pm I kept hearing the door knocking and people saying "hey!!! You made it!" -_-

who has parties that late on a week night anyways!?

sigh... The CONS of living downstairs in an apartment complex.
 
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LittleBit1987 said:
Seriously, I feel your pain. My neighbors love to party... I live in a small apartment complex and They love to get rowdy!

At 11:00pm I kept hearing the door knocking and people saying "hey!!! You made it!" -_-

who has parties that late on a week night anyways!?

sigh... The CONS of living downstairs in an apartment complex.
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I know...many years back we were living in an apartment complex, and the lovely lady next door..well...we soon found out that she was a drug addict, all sorta folks went in and out around the clock and the police usually made house calls three or four times a week...arrests were made. Needless to say all the neighbors were fed up with her, but me, I was so fed up being her nearest and dearest neighbor that one day I knocked on her door and when she opened I totally lost my religion and told her, straight in her face, my...opinion...lol...later that month we bought a house of our own...no more apartments...:eek:
 
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jennymae said:
Thats interesting? What you planning on? Law enforcement? Courts?
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Kody's gonna be our lawyer, marieh's gonna work accounting magic with the bail bondsman,
and melita's gonna process our insurance claims...

all from 'losin' our religion' when we're mighty annoyed....
haha...that one made me chuckle. :)
 
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jennymae said:
Thats interesting? What you planning on? Law enforcement? Courts?
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I am planning on continuing on to law school and working toward lawyer....I may have watched too many episodes of Matlock :p

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Kody's gonna be our lawyer, marieh's gonna work accounting magic with the bail bondsman,
and melita's gonna process our insurance claims...

all from 'losin' our religion' when we're mighty annoyed....
haha...that one made me chuckle. :)
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What type of crime are you planning on committing? I might turn into Matlock and only take innocent people :p
I considered following my father into CPA work, because I love math, but lawyers require the mathematical mind too.
I think we all need Melita's help...
 
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kodiak said:
I am planning on continuing on to law school and working toward lawyer....I may have watched too many episodes of Matlock :p
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switching back to MacGyver? just in case? ;)

we'll all call you Angus. :cool:
 
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kodiak said:
I think my insurance hates me now....they couldn't get out of paying a lot...

One thing I have learned is if someone is being really rude and wont calm down, catch them off guard with a nice change of topics....say something like "nice shoes, where did you get them?" They will be so confused...I have had people just walk away confused after that... it diffuses a bad situation....
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A soft answer turns away wrath,
But a harsh word stirs up anger.
Proverbs 15:1
 
kodiak

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psychomom said:
i'm open to suggestions. :)



perhaps that's a possible crime....stealing melita's awesomeness. :D
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my suggestion is forming a company to show companies what they need to improve for security...you could get a group of us from CC to help you...Show the white house their weaknesses after that break in where the guy ran into the White House...:p
It would not be considered a crime....but you have to be hired by them....you can't just do this without permission...
 
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