On-Again/Off-Again in my relationship with God, why is this happening?

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djness

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I provide Scripture verses and I strive to get people to discuss the Scriptures. That is why we are on this forum. To discuss the Bible. Your complaining is not adding any helpful insight. I have provided 1 John 1:9 as a promise to help and a link to videos in helping to stop in their sinning. What have you provided?
The first response and I did it all without arguing with anyone. Which I'm not going to get drawn into with you.
 

Yonah

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Shalom. the fact that your aware of the need to be close to him and that you care shows that you are not completely separated from him like you may think, question: was David a man after gods own heart? was David still a man after gods own heart when he committed adultery and murder? in psalm 51 after david had done these deeds we read "restore unto me the joy of your salvation" you should pray the same...
 
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If a person says they don't sin then they should not be overweight because that is sin too.
 
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To the OP:

Do not listen to these unscriptural naysayers! Jesus came to save you, you do not save yourself by your actions. I know I struggled a lot in my walk with God when I thought I could lose my salvation - through my thoughts, actions and deeds.

It was a HEAVY BURDEN! But Jesus showed me that I needed to give that burden to him!

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Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.30 For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.” Matt 11:28-30

That is when I started really seeking God, studying his Word. The Holy Spirit helped discipline me, to pray, to meditate on God's Word, and really changed my heart and soul. This really was the beginning of transforming my mind, which didn't happen till I had been a Christian for 25 years!

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Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect." Romans 12:2

The word "transformed" in the above verse in Greek is metamorpheo. It is the same process by which a caterpillar changes into a butterfly in the cocoon. It is a process which comes naturally, as we seek to walk with Christ.

So my thought is to start memorizing Scripture and meditating on it. Give your burden to Jesus. And please do not listen to those bound in legalism who posted on this thread. They are not preaching the true gospel, that Jesus not only justifies us by his grace (Romans 5:1) but he sancitifies us and he will keep it till that wonderful day when we are glorified.

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And those whom he predestined he also called, and those whom he called he also justified, and those whom he justified he also glorified." Romans 8:30

And finally, trust in the promise in the following verse.

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And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ." Phil. 1:6
No. God did not force you to call upon the Lord to save you one day. Nor did He just force His salvation and love upon you, either. Surely you cannot say you did absolutely nothing as a part of coming to Christ. Surely you did not do nothing to be saved one day. Not a chance. So why do you think it is any different when you walk with Christ? One has to yield to God. One has to repent. It's not a one time event in your life. One has to walk with God and continue to abide in Christ. Also, one has to repent of their sins, too. In fact, Jesus defined repentance for us. So you cannot redefine repentance to something that you prefer. Jesus said the Ninevites will rise up in Judgment against this generation because they repented at the preaching of Jonah. In Jonah chapter 3 we read that the Ninevites had turned from their wicked ways as a part of their repentance. So repentance includes turning from one's evil ways. 1 John 1:9 also says if we confess our sins he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins. 1 John 1:7 says if we walk in the light as he is in the light then the blood of Jesus Christ cleanses us from all sin. Paul says he keeps his body under subjection, otherwise he could be disqualified or cast away. Keeping his body in subjection is making sure you do not sin. Paul said examine yourselves whether you be in Christ or not unless you be reprobates. Paul also essentially said that if any man speaks contrary to the words of Jesus Christ and the doctrine of Godliness, they are proud and they know nothing. If you are telling us to just ignore sin, then you are teaching unGodliness or unrighteous behavior. If this is what you mean, then surely this teaching is not good or of God.
 
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gb9

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funny how you did not address any of the verses she posted. way to ignore anything that does not fit your agenda.
 
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funny how you did not address any of the verses she posted. way to ignore anything that does not fit your agenda.
I am more than happy to do so. But for starters.... the words right before the passage she quotes deals with how certain cities will be condemned because they did not repent. I mentioned how repentance is necessary and I mentioned how Jesus defines repentance for us in my previous post with his reference to Jonah chapter 3. I was a little tight for time, so I did not go into breaking apart the context of every verse she quoted. But I am more than happy to do so later. It's not a problem.
 
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skylove7

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This is the standard tactic. Let's attack the person rather than the doctrine. Truth is not determined by a man but by the Word of God. He teaches the Word. Besides, Jesus said judge not by ones outward appearance but judge righteously. I know what is like to be super fat in the past. He is not a glutton for having a stomach. There are some people who can exercise and eat right and still be overweight. So you are judging in a wrong way.

As for Romans 7: Do you agree that Paul was talking as a pre-Christian or no? Not sure where you are coming from.
Lol...How can you not practice what you preach to this member? It's ludicrous! You advise this member to not attack people...yet you judge people and attack them for their sins in posts all the time.
 
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skylove7

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This is the standard tactic. Let's attack the person rather than the doctrine. Truth is not determined by a man but by the Word of God. He teaches the Word. Besides, Jesus said judge not by ones outward appearance but judge righteously. I know what is like to be super fat in the past. He is not a glutton for having a stomach. There are some people who can exercise and eat right and still be overweight. So you are judging in a wrong way.

As for Romans 7: Do you agree that Paul was talking as a pre-Christian or no? Not sure where you are coming from.
Jason what is your point? A man must be perfect as our father in heaven is perfect and he who sins is of the devil. It is our definition of sin that is in question . You do not see the sins of laziness and gluttony in the preacher or at least see that he should wait till he actually looks holy before he is preaching it. My definition of sin is set out in the sermon on the mount. If a man thinks evil then he is eviltherefore no lustful thoughts as they are the same as adultery. Is this how you understand sin?
Jasons point...is none other than what makes him feel better. Lol
 
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skylove7

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Lol..Jason you accuse Angela of redefining repentance to what she prefers ? Who gives you the right to assume ones feelings? You always tell us we need to repent...and I assure you I do!...but...Why dont you repent for your sin of false teachings...and stop picking on members...when they love God...tell me what makes you so glorious because you sure love telling good people here what makes us such failures all the time. Good day.
 
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Angela53510

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No. God did not force you to call upon the Lord to save you one day. Nor did He just force His salvation and love upon you, either. Surely you cannot say you did absolutely nothing as a part of coming to Christ. Surely you did not do nothing to be saved one day. Not a chance. So why do you think it is any different when you walk with Christ? One has to yield to God. One has to repent. It's not a one time event in your life. One has to walk with God and continue to abide in Christ. Also, one has to repent of their sins, too. In fact, Jesus defined repentance for us. So you cannot redefine repentance to something that you prefer. Jesus said the Ninevites will rise up in Judgment against this generation because they repented at the preaching of Jonah. In Jonah chapter 3 we read that the Ninevites had turned from their wicked ways as a part of their repentance. So repentance includes turning from one's evil ways. 1 John 1:9 also says if we confess our sins he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins. 1 John 1:7 says if we walk in the light as he is in the light then the blood of Jesus Christ cleanses us from all sin. Paul says he keeps his body under subjection, otherwise he could be disqualified or cast away. Keeping his body in subjection is making sure you do not sin. Paul said examine yourselves whether you be in Christ or not unless you be reprobates. Paul also essentially said that if any man speaks contrary to the words of Jesus Christ and the doctrine of Godliness, they are proud and they know nothing. If you are telling us to just ignore sin, then you are teaching unGodliness or unrighteous behavior. If this is what you mean, then surely this teaching is not good or of God.

Do not presume to tell me how I came to the Lord. Do not presume to tell me how God totally and utterly saved me, through no work of my own.

Do not lecture me on the Bible, I know it far better than you will ever know it. I read the WHOLE council of God, I do not cherry pick to prove me deviant heresies you continually spin here, instead of actually dealing with the OP, or the Scriptures other people post.

I will admit, I forgot one thing about the word "transform" in Romans 12:2 and also in 2 Cor. 3:18. It is in the PASSIVE tense. It is also in the imperative. So God commands that we allow HIM to change and transform us.

That is a big part of your problem Jason! You have absolutely no knowledge of Biblical languages.

The other part of your problem, which I think pretty much most people have concluded, is that you are not saved, and you are obsessed with sin, instead of Christ's redeeming work on the cross.

Deal with the verses I posted, or shut up! I do have you on ignore, which I find to be very peacefull! But I did see that you did not comment on the verses, so I thought I would give you a small piece of my mind! Of course, there is lots more where that came from.
 
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Galahad

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Do not presume to tell me how I came to the Lord. Do not presume to tell me how God totally and utterly saved me, through no work of my own.

Do not lecture me on the Bible, I know it far better than you will ever know it. I read the WHOLE council of God, I do not cherry pick to prove me deviant heresies you continually spin here, instead of actually dealing with the OP, or the Scriptures other people post.

I will admit, I forgot one thing about the word "transform" in Romans 12:2 and also in 2 Cor. 3:18. It is in the PASSIVE tense. It is also in the imperative. So God commands that we allow HIM to change and transform us.

That is a big part of your problem Jason! You have absolutely no knowledge of Biblical languages.

The other part of your problem, which I think pretty much most people have concluded, is that you are not saved, and you are obsessed with sin, instead of Christ's redeeming work on the cross.

Deal with the verses I posted, or shut up! I do have you on ignore, which I find to be very peacefull! But I did see that you did not comment on the verses, so I thought I would give you a small piece of my mind! Of course, there is lots more where that came from.
I'm even shuddering when I read this and it ain't addressed to me! Jason, are you there? I'm glad I ain't in your shoes. Angela is peeved. Are you sure you want to go this route? :D
 

Angela53510

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I am more than happy to do so. But for starters.... the words right before the passage she quotes deals with how certain cities will be condemned because they did not repent. I mentioned how repentance is necessary and I mentioned how Jesus defines repentance for us in my previous post with his reference to Jonah chapter 3. I was a little tight for time, so I did not go into breaking apart the context of every verse she quoted. But I am more than happy to do so later. It's not a problem.

So I guess you have never heard my testimony? About how I was an alcoholic bar musician, when God came to me and revealed himself?? How God told me to never drink again, to read the Bible and to turn my life towards him?

Repentance, in the Greek and the Hebrew means "to turn away." That is, it means to "turn away from sin."

I did not post anything from Jonah and as far as Matt 11, I think the passage stands by itself. The warnings to the cities may be in the same chapter, but you obviously do not realize that the verses and chapters are not inspired, having been added much later. So really, your context is totally erroneous. And believe me, I know more about the context of the verses I used than you ever will.

"The chapter divisions commonly used today were developed by Stephen Langton, an Archbishop of Canterbury. Langton put the modern chapter divisions into place in around A.D. 1227. The Wycliffe English Bible of 1382 was the first Bible to use this chapter pattern. Since the Wycliffe Bible, nearly all Bible translations have followed Langton's chapter divisions.

The Hebrew Old Testament was divided into verses by a Jewish rabbi by the name of Nathan in A.D. 1448. Robert Estienne, who was also known as Stephanus, was the first to divide the New Testament into standard numbered verses, in 1555. Stephanus essentially used Nathan's verse divisions for the Old Testament. Since that time, beginning with the Geneva Bible, the chapter and verse divisions employed by Stephanus have been accepted into nearly all the Bible versions.

Read more: Who divided the Bible into chapters and verses? Why and when was it done?"

There are mistakes, see Matt 19:30 and Matt 20:16 if you don't believe me.

I just have to wonder who made you judge, executor and jury, Jason??

So glad that God is in control, not you!
 
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I'm even shuddering when I read this and it ain't addressed to me! Jason, are you there? I'm glad I ain't in your shoes. Angela is peeved. Are you sure you want to go this route? :D
You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Galahad again.
 
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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Angela53510 again.

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Angela53510 again.
 
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skylove7

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Love u Sara...Love you Angela....sigh...Angela is refreshing as a spring breeze in a beautiful flower garden in my soul. Love you sisters in Christ. :)
 
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Called4Christ

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Brothers and Sisters,
I have to confess, I wasn't expecting four pages worth of responses but I absoultely thank you for them. I'm working on reading through them right now. I did do a bit of skimming and noticed that there were a few posts that contained links and videos. I've watched one already, but I would like to view all of the material and scripture, since you all took the time to include detailed responses. I'm more likely to answer the questions that were directed at me, but that isn't to say I don't value all of the input. Give me a bit to read through, and I"ll reply soon.

And by soon I don't mean "behold I am coming soon," sort of soon. Soon as in less than 2 hrs. :p


( I say that lightheartedly. I do understand Christ could return at any given moment in accordance to His will.)
 
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Called4Christ

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I'm thankful for those of you who reminded me that I am not alone, of Christ's love and the forgiveness we can find in Him. I am disappointed that the tone of the thread turned quite negative multiple times. However, I understand that that is likely because of a passion to make sure that what you feel is Truth is spoken. At least, I really hope that's the case and it isn't a matter of being right.

Some of you alluded to beginning my mornings with prayer. I will say nothing against this! These are good ideas. I also have to tell you, however, that I have a closet shelf cluttered with journals I've barely used, and I've yet keep a new year's resolution. (In other words: I'm terrible at establishing habits, but I will certainly put forth effort).

Someone mentioned that I was being quite general about falling away from God periodically. I'm sorry for not being very thorough. The sin I struggle with, the thing that leads me away from God is apathy itself. After the apathy sets in, that is when I end up sinning by physical action.

It's also been suggested that perhaps I have not fully repented or submitted to God. I have felt what I believe to be godly sorrow. Broken, not from a feeling of being 'caught' or a fear of going to hell, but from realizing just how wonderful God is and how ugly my sin, all sin, is. Broken from realizing that God loves me even more than my physical father, and yet I had denied him, was angry at him, and even said hurtful things--and yet he loved me anyway. (I have a pretty awesome dad here on earth, so when I think about God loving me so much more than he does, it's a bit mind blowing).
I feel that I have repented, but as we all know, our emotions aren't always a good measure of things. This is certainly something to pray about.

Thank you again for all of the encouragement, the scriptural resources, and for taking the time to reply with your thoughts on the matter.
 
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Do not presume to tell me how I came to the Lord. Do not presume to tell me how God totally and utterly saved me, through no work of my own.

Do not lecture me on the Bible, I know it far better than you will ever know it. I read the WHOLE council of God, I do not cherry pick to prove me deviant heresies you continually spin here, instead of actually dealing with the OP, or the Scriptures other people post.

I will admit, I forgot one thing about the word "transform" in Romans 12:2 and also in 2 Cor. 3:18. It is in the PASSIVE tense. It is also in the imperative. So God commands that we allow HIM to change and transform us.

That is a big part of your problem Jason! You have absolutely no knowledge of Biblical languages.

The other part of your problem, which I think pretty much most people have concluded, is that you are not saved, and you are obsessed with sin, instead of Christ's redeeming work on the cross.

Deal with the verses I posted, or shut up! I do have you on ignore, which I find to be very peacefull! But I did see that you did not comment on the verses, so I thought I would give you a small piece of my mind! Of course, there is lots more where that came from.
I am not doubting your coming to the Lord. Nowhere did I say you didn't come to the Lord. My point is that you didn't do nothing at the start of your faith. You had to take action. As for repentance: I do not know the depth of how you repented when you first got saved. What I do know is that what you are teaching now is not true repentance to another person because you are saying they do not need to worry about confessing and forsaking sin; And that is a problem because it is not Biblical. 1 John 1:9 says if we confess our sins he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins. 1 John 1:7 says if we walk in the light as he is in the light then the blood of Jesus Christ cleanses us from all sin.
 
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Lol..Jason you accuse Angela of redefining repentance to what she prefers ? Who gives you the right to assume ones feelings? You always tell us we need to repent...and I assure you I do!...but...Why dont you repent for your sin of false teachings...and stop picking on members...when they love God...tell me what makes you so glorious because you sure love telling good people here what makes us such failures all the time. Good day.
By what she just said in this thread and others. She is telling our friend here that she does not need to worry about beating herself up over anything she has done. She is saying she is forgiven. No. One needs to confess and forsake sin. That's how it works.