On-Again/Off-Again in my relationship with God, why is this happening?

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Think about that statement for a moment. "When a person accepts Christ for the forgiveness of sins."

Where is that taught in the Bible? It isn't is it?

This "accepting Jesus" is found in many religious denominations but it is not found in the Bible.
Then how was the thief on the cross saved?

Does the Bible teach this contention? Repentance is "automatic" upon "accepting Jesus." Where is that or anything like it in the Bible?


Now this statement makes me think this might be a semantics issue where you are simply using "popular rhetoric" without really realising its connotations, for a genuine repentance is inclusive of a forsaking of sin. If the sin is not forsaken then no change of mind could have really taken place.


Something is indeed not right. Firstly the Bible nowhere teaches that one merely "accepts Jesus" and that "repentance is automatic."

The Bible teaches that godly sorrow works repentance unto salvation (2Cor 7:10-11). Verse 11 lists what godly sorrow produces.

In Acts we see this...

Act 2:37 Now when they heard this, they were pricked in their heart, and said unto Peter and to the rest of the apostles, Men and brethren, what shall we do?
Act 2:38 Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost.

These "hearers" were convicted at the words of Peter. Peter then told them they had to "repent" and be baptised in the name of Jesus Christ. Baptism is a picture of dying to sin and being raised up to newness of life by the Spirit.

Can you see how this is very different to "accept Jesus" and "repentance is automatic"?

Repentance is the result of a crisis of conviction. It is through this crisis of conviction that our old man (who served sin) is put to death. The iniquity in our hearts is purged completely through this process and thus our vessels are prepared to be indwelt by the Holy Spirit.

This notion of "accept Jesus" negates this crisis and therefore leads people into a Christianity where they perceive they are saved when in fact nothing really happened. They might change somewhat due to a strong emotional experience and due to being surrounded by people that are more or less moral, yet the root of iniquity was never purged from their hearts, they never truly died to sin. This is why after a time they "cool off" from their perceived conversion experience and thus find themselves in the sin/repent/sin/repent/sin/repent cycle. They are then often given assurance that things will work our in the end because they "trust in Jesus and His finished work."

It is all a very diabolical and insidious deception. It is extremely dangerous and extremely deceptive and it has deceived millions of people.
Titus 3:5 says, "he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit,"

No. This kind of rhetoric plays right into the sin/repent/sin/repent/sin/repent cycle many have been hoodwinked by.
So the Tax Collector was not justified or saved in the Parable of the Tax Collector and the Phariee?

1Joh 1:7-10 is presented in the context of initial cleansing of unrighteousness and sin when one is genuinely converted. John is contending against those who claim to have never sinned and that one's actual walk is not a reflection of their true spiritual state. The Gnostics disconnected the spirit from the flesh in the context that the spirit could be pure whilst the flesh still sinned (because they tied sin to matter). Thus under Gnosticism one could be manifestly sinning but not spiritually sinning. John was refuting that by claiming that the "walk" must match the "profession" and that the blood of Jesus only cleanses the truly repentant individual who has forsaken the corruption that is in the world through lust (via the death of the old man).

1Joh 1:7-10 is about how we initially enter the faith, it is not about ongoing cleansing from ongoing sinning. Compare 1Joh 1:7-10 to Heb 10:19-22.

1Jn 1:7 But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship one with another, and the blood of Jesus Christ his Son cleanseth us from all sin.
1Jn 1:8 If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.
1Jn 1:9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
1Jn 1:10 If we say that we have not sinned, we make him a liar, and his word is not in us.
Yes, a true believer will stop sinning. I agree. But a person is not condemned if they are confessing a sin that they are struggling with so as to overcome it.

Heb 10:19 Having therefore, brethren, boldness to enter into the holiest by the blood of Jesus,
Heb 10:20 By a new and living way, which he hath consecrated for us, through the veil, that is to say, his flesh;
Heb 10:21 And having an high priest over the house of God;
Heb 10:22 Let us draw near with a true heart in full assurance of faith, having our hearts sprinkled from an evil conscience, and our bodies washed with pure water.

The issue John is getting at is this...

Pro 28:13 He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy.
No true believer who confesses their sin is seeking to cover their sin but they are seeking to resolve it and overcome it.

The issue is not an ongoing cleansing for repeated misconduct. The blood is not for ongoing sin. The blood is for a one time cleansing whereby we are then to endure in the faith till the end. This is why Heb 10:26-29 states categorically that there is no sacrifice remaining if we willfully sin after having been sanctified by the blood. The blood of Jesus is not a get out of jail free card to be used over and over, such an attitude is to despise and treat grace with contempt.
The blood is for the cleansing of sin when one confesses and forsakes sin.

Side Note:

Quck question: Do you believe the Law of Moses is still binding for the believer today?
 
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By what she just said in this thread and others. She is telling our friend here that she does not need to worry about beating herself up over anything she has done. She is saying she is forgiven. No. One needs to confess and forsake sin. That's how it works.
IMO, When a person is reborn, and then sins..(because we all do)....you catch it.
The Spirit inside you catches it, and you repent. Almost instantly.

What this forum is constantly debating you on......is your lack of being able to see, guide others and feel grace through Christ.
NO ONE you debate tells ANYONE, EVER, that its okay to sin and continue in sin.
"Confession and repenting of sins" becomes a habit, not just a thing you do before bed.
A conversation between you and God all of time.

You have and preach odd rules and regulations for a relationship with our Father.
Like a sibling of mine, that constantly tells me........our Father hates this and that.

"Does our Father love me, Jason?"
"Doesn't matter Mike, live in constant fear."

Does the Holy Spirit come and go?
No.
This is simple. Man makes it complex.

I'd present scripture.......but this is where the problem is and has always been with you.

You already know it.
You just reject its message.
 
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Jason, the way you word things confuses me. What do you think about this?
John 6:39 and John 8:29
John 10:27-28
Hebrews 13:5
1John 2:19
These verses show that if you truly believe, you will not lose your Salvation. Not everyone who claims to be a Christian truly is, sadly.
1 John 2:4
This does not give us the right to willfully sin, but if you truly believe, your actions will show this. You will not keep trying to sin.....but if you do stumble, you will truly be repentant that you sinned
I think the most important point to consider is...

What is salvation? That term has to be defined.

The Bible says...

Mat 1:21 And she shall bring forth a son, and thou shalt call his name JESUS: for he shall save his people from their sins.

Jesus taught...

Joh 8:34 Jesus answered them, Verily, verily, I say unto you, Whosoever committeth sin is the servant of sin.
Joh 8:35 And the servant abideth not in the house for ever: but the Son abideth ever.
Joh 8:36 If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed.

Paul wrote this...

Tit 2:14 Who gave himself for us, that he might redeem us from all iniquity, and purify unto himself a peculiar people, zealous of good works.

Those verses tell me that salvation is an experiential state of having been made inwardly pure whereby iniquity in the heart has been destroyed.

David wrote this...

Psa 32:1 A Psalm of David, Maschil. Blessed is he whose transgression is forgiven, whose sin is covered.
Psa 32:2 Blessed is the man unto whom the LORD imputeth not iniquity, and in whose spirit there is no guile.

David connects the forgiveness of sin with a spirit that has no guile. We see this kind of sentiment repeated by Paul who connects the "faith that God reckons as righteousness" with a "faith that walks."

Rom 4:5 But to him that worketh not, but believeth on him that justifieth the ungodly, his faith is counted for righteousness.
Rom 4:6 Even as David also describeth the blessedness of the man, unto whom God imputeth righteousness without works,
Rom 4:7 Saying, Blessed are they whose iniquities are forgiven, and whose sins are covered.
Rom 4:8 Blessed is the man to whom the Lord will not impute sin.

Notice Paul quoted Psalm 32.

Rom 4:10 How was it then reckoned? when he was in circumcision, or in uncircumcision? Not in circumcision, but in uncircumcision.
Rom 4:11 And he received the sign of circumcision, a seal of the righteousness of the faith which he had yet being uncircumcised: that he might be the father of all them that believe, though they be not circumcised; that righteousness might be imputed unto them also:
Rom 4:12 And the father of circumcision to them who are not of the circumcision only, but who also walk in the steps of that faith of our father Abraham, which he had being yet uncircumcised.

Now read again the words of Jesus...

Joh 8:39 They answered and said unto him, Abraham is our father. Jesus saith unto them, If ye were Abraham's children, ye would do the works of Abraham.

See how Jesus connects "who we belong to" with "what we do" ?

Paul made the same connection...

Rom 6:16 Know ye not, that to whom ye yield yourselves servants to obey, his servants ye are to whom ye obey; whether of sin unto death, or of obedience unto righteousness?
Rom 6:17 But God be thanked, that ye were the servants of sin, but ye have obeyed from the heart that form of doctrine which was delivered you.
Rom 6:18 Being then made free from sin, ye became the servants of righteousness.

John makes the same connection...

1Jn 3:7 Little children, let no man deceive you: he that doeth righteousness is righteous, even as he is righteous.
1Jn 3:8 He that committeth sin is of the devil; for the devil sinneth from the beginning. For this purpose the Son of God was manifested, that he might destroy the works of the devil.
1Jn 3:9 Whosoever is born of God doth not commit sin; for his seed remaineth in him: and he cannot sin, because he is born of God.
1Jn 3:10 In this the children of God are manifest, and the children of the devil: whosoever doeth not righteousness is not of God, neither he that loveth not his brother.

John doesn't want us to be deceived by men. John clearly states that the children of God are MANIFEST by what they do, the children of the devil are likewise MANIFEST by what they do also.

Jesus, Paul and John all taught the same thing.

The above is generally not taught today even though it is straight from the Bible and accurate.

OSAS doctrine is simply a result of "salvation" being defined as a "positional state set apart from an actual manifest state." Thus if salvation is positional it can be argued that the "position" cannot be lost due to any manifest conduct.

The idea of salvation being positional totally ignores any notion of "heart purity" being connected to "salvation." In other words salvation is not necessarily manifested or exhibited by outward actions. Thus it can be perceived that one "can" in fact engage in wickedness whilst still being in a saved "position."

The truth though is that "willful sin" and "salvation" are diametrically opposed and Satan does not want people to understand that.

By presenting the Bible in the context of 'sin you will and sin you must" (ie. Original Sin/Born a Sinner doctrine) it is easy to disconnect the condition of the heart from the salvation experience. This is where the "trust in Jesus" or "accept Jesus" or "trust in the finished work of Jesus" gets its strength.

People perceive salvation as some abstract notion of "being saved" but don't understand its connection to the real state of the human heart. Thus when they "slip into sin" so to speak (in the context of knowingly doing evil on occasion) they are able to view it as a "mistake" which they simply confess whereby they move on. They are never compelled to examine the real reason they "served sin" which is really a corrupt heart.

A pure heart will NEVER serve sin. Never. Jesus gave Himself for us to redeem us from ALL iniquity and to make us pure. Paul meant exactly that when he wrote it.

Satan knows that true reconciliation with God is wrought through a genuine repentance and a genuine faith. That is why he has perverted and redefined both repentance and faith. Repentance becomes a mere "confession of sinfulness" and faith becomes mere "trust in Jesus." Thus the notion of "blessed be the pure in heart" is completely undermined and thrown out the window in favour of religious rhetoric.
 
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Jason, please read my whole post and think on it. You say a lot of very true things, I think it is just coloured with some of the rhetoric from the modern lie. I think you use this rhetoric unwittingly for you seem pretty clear in saying the sin (willful) has to stop.
I will think about going back later to read your post, my friend. Oh, and yes. I do not believe in one getting away with sinning under any circumstances. All sin must be confessed or forsaken. Now, when a person first accepts Christ, they do not need to confess every sin they did as an unbeliever. That would be an impossible task; And nobody does that. When a person accepts Christ: One recognizes that they are a sinner and that they have sinned against God whereby they call upon Jesus to save them.

Side Note:

Do you believe the Law of Moses is still binding for the believer today? I am not talking about the moral law within the Law of Christ under the New Testament. Surely, Christians have to obey common basic morality (Which is spelled out for us again in the New Testament).
 
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IMO, When a person is reborn, and then sins..(because we all do)....you catch it.
The Spirit inside you catches it, and you repent. Almost instantly.

What this forum is constantly debating you on......is your lack of being able to see, guide others and feel grace through Christ.
NO ONE you debate tells ANYONE, EVER, that its okay to sin and continue in sin.
"Confession and repenting of sins" becomes a habit, not just a thing you do before bed.
A conversation between you and God all of time.

You have and preach odd rules and regulations for a relationship with our Father.
Like a sibling of mine, that constantly tells me........our Father hates this and that.

"Does our Father love me, Jason?"
"Doesn't matter Mike, live in constant fear."

Does the Holy Spirit come and go?
No.
This is simple. Man makes it complex.

I'd present scripture.......but this is where the problem is and has always been with you.

You already know it.
You just reject its message.
No, most here believe they can be out of fellowship with God and still be saved (of which you can check out here):

http://christianchat.com/bible-discussion-forum/105849-can-you-out-fellowship-god-still-saved.html

Being out of fellowship implies one is out of fellowship because of sin. You can check out the votes at the thread link (above) here if you don't believe me.

Side Note:

I also have debated the issue on 1 John 1:9 with others here, too. They do not believe it is for the forgiveness of sin when you confess sin. They believe they are forgiven of all sin: past, present, and future.
 
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Then how was the thief on the cross saved?
He repented and believed Jesus.

The point I was making is that "accept Jesus" is common rhetoric presented within the context of Original Sin and Penal Substitution. When one uses that kind of language one is affirming the common notion to those who hear it.

We do not live in a vacuum. There pulpits, seminaries, radio, television is full of people proclaiming "accept Jesus" and their context is Original Sin and Penal Substitution. They believe in an "abstract salvation" disconnected from purity of heart whereby justification is premised on a forensic legal exchange wrought through Jesus dying as a "substitute" whereby He absorbed the wrath of God and thus "paid the debt owed" making it not due anymore. Anyone who "trusts in that" is assured they are saved.

That message is death. I would avoid using the rhetoric of that message and actually stick to what the Bible actually states.


Titus 3:5 says, "he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit,"
Yes that is right.

Act 3:19 Repent ye therefore, and be converted, that your sins may be blotted out, when the times of refreshing shall come from the presence of the Lord;

The washing of regeneration is not possible without a repentance proven by deeds. There has to be "godly sorrow that works a repentance unto salvation."

"Accepting Jesus" is not how the Bible preaches the Gospel. "Accepting Jesus" is a modern theological rhetoric premised on what I have stated above and when most people hear it they will hear it in the context of Original Sin and Penal Substitution.

Even if one also teaches a "cessation from sin" it will be undone by the cognitive dissonance wrought via the "paid the price in full" doctrine. Deception is wrought in the mind and we can be deceived into communication which upholds the deception very easily. Language is but a means by which we can communicate mental thoughts with each other. If the language can be redefined the intended message can be lost in the translation (or words used) so to speak.

I hope you can understand what I am trying to say. Please think about it carefully.

So the Tax Collector was not justified or saved in the Parable of the Tax Collector and the Phariee?
The context of the parable of the Tax Collector and the Pharisee was in regards to the Tax Collector repenting. He recognised his sin and begged for mercy. That parable does not contradict anything I have written.

The sin/repent/sin/repent/sin/repent cycle is a clear sign that one never truly repented. What if a husband kept engaging in adultery and yet kept confessing it and begging for forgiveness? Would that husband be truly repentant? No. The adultery would have to cease once and for all.

The Bible speaks of "worldly sorrow" and "godly sorrow." One works death and one works a repentance unto salvation. Godly sorrow produces this...

2Co 7:10 For godly sorrow worketh repentance to salvation not to be repented of: but the sorrow of the world worketh death.
2Co 7:11 For behold this selfsame thing, that ye sorrowed after a godly sort, what carefulness it wrought in you, yea, what clearing of yourselves, yea, what indignation, yea, what fear, yea, what vehement desire, yea, what zeal, yea, what revenge! In all things ye have approved yourselves to be clear in this matter.

Would the tax collecter have been granted mercy if he persisted in his sin? Of course not (Pro 28:13, Isa 55:7).

Yes, a true believer will stop sinning. I agree. But a person is not condemned if they are confessing a sin that they are struggling with so as to overcome it.
That is an erroneous position to hold.

You are claiming that we can sin and not surely die if we are merely confessing that sin as we struggle. The Bible does not teach that.

Where is "escaping the corruption that is in the world through lust" in that sentiment?

2Pe 1:3 According as his divine power hath given unto us all things that pertain unto life and godliness, through the knowledge of him that hath called us to glory and virtue:
2Pe 1:4 Whereby are given unto us exceeding great and precious promises: that by these ye might be partakers of the divine nature, having escaped the corruption that is in the world through lust.

Sin is wrought through...

Jas 1:14 But every man is tempted, when he is drawn away of his own lust, and enticed.
Jas 1:15 Then when lust hath conceived, it bringeth forth sin: and sin, when it is finished, bringeth forth death.

That is the corruption that we have escaped from if we are truly born again. Where is that in what you are saying?

You are stating the opposite of that in claiming that one who has not escaped that corruption is not condemned so long as they confess the fact as they continue their struggle.

Do you realise the connotations of such a position?

Let's use the example of a child molester. Plug that into your example...

Yes, a true believer [who is a child molester] will stop sinning. I agree. But a person is not condemned if they are confessing a sin [like child molestation] that they are struggling with so as to overcome it.
Is that what you really believe?

When does the sin stop then? A week? A year? A decade?

You have just stated that an individual can sin without being condemned so long as they continue to confess the sin each time. Where is any notion of heart purity or a redemption from all iniquity in that? It is void of such things.

Tit 2:14 Who gave himself for us, that he might redeem us from all iniquity, and purify unto himself a peculiar people, zealous of good works.

Can you see the problem here?

No true believer who confesses their sin is seeking to cover their sin but they are seeking to resolve it and overcome it.
I hear this kind of statement all the time, yet it is a total contradiction.

Why are they confessing their sin then if they are not seeking to have it covered?

The issue of sin is meant to be resolved via the repentance experience, not later on down the road.

Rom 6:4 Therefore we are buried with him by baptism into death: that like as Christ was raised up from the dead by the glory of the Father, even so we also should walk in newness of life.
Rom 6:5 For if we have been planted together in the likeness of his death, we shall be also in the likeness of his resurrection:
Rom 6:6 Knowing this, that our old man is crucified with him, that the body of sin might be destroyed, that henceforth we should not serve sin.
Rom 6:7 For he that is dead is freed from sin.

We ought to have been freed from sin. This notion that believers "still struggle" with sin is not Biblical. Again I ask where is the "having escaped the corruption in the world through lust" ? Where is that?

Pornography addicts, rapists, serial murderers, thieves, blasphemers, idolators all struggling with their sin whilst not under condemnation? Come on be real.

The Bible says that there is no condemnation for those who are IN Christ Jesus and who WALK after the Spirit.

Rom 8:1 There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.

How can someone claim that...

a person is not condemned if they are confessing a sin that they are struggling with so as to overcome it.
The Bible does not say that there is no condemnation for one who is confesses a sin they are struggling with. The Bible says there is no condemnation for those who are IN Christ Jesus who WALK after the Spirit.

It boggles my mind how on the one hand you say that we have to stop sinning and yet on the other hand say that there is no condemnation on those who have not. That is contradictory.

The blood is for the cleansing of sin when one confesses and forsakes sin.
Yes it is and it works in this manner...

Heb 10:19 Having therefore, brethren, boldness to enter into the holiest by the blood of Jesus,
Heb 10:20 By a new and living way, which he hath consecrated for us, through the veil, that is to say, his flesh;
Heb 10:21 And having an high priest over the house of God;
Heb 10:22 Let us draw near with a true heart in full assurance of faith, having our hearts sprinkled from an evil conscience, and our bodies washed with pure water.

The blood is not something to be used over and over again. Jesus died ONCE so that we may be cleansed ONCE.

2Pe 1:9 But he that lacketh these things is blind, and cannot see afar off, and hath forgotten that he was purged from his old sins.

The Bible says...

Heb 10:26 For if we sin wilfully after that we have received the knowledge of the truth, there remaineth no more sacrifice for sins,
Heb 10:27 But a certain fearful looking for of judgment and fiery indignation, which shall devour the adversaries.
Heb 10:28 He that despised Moses' law died without mercy under two or three witnesses:
Heb 10:29 Of how much sorer punishment, suppose ye, shall he be thought worthy, who hath trodden under foot the Son of God, and hath counted the blood of the covenant, wherewith he was sanctified, an unholy thing, and hath done despite unto the Spirit of grace?

The blood is what enjoins us into a covenant with God...

Heb 9:20 Saying, This is the blood of the testament which God hath enjoined unto you.

You are claiming that a sacrifice remains for ongoing sin so long as that sin is confessed and thus demonstrate a complete ignorance of why Jesus actually died and of how the blood actually cleanses us.

There is no sacrifice for ongoing willful sin because the the sacrifice of Jesus is meant to cleanse us one time and leave us pure. There is meant to have been a real transformation of the human heart where ALL THINGS are made new. We actually escape the corruption that is in the world through lust, we don't "struggle with sin." We are tempted of course but we are to take the way of escape each time and this is what enduring to the end means.

People who are in the sin/repent/sin/repent/sin/repent cycle are not saved. They have not been saved FROM sin. They are deceived if they think they have been. Those who think they are saved in such a state have bought hook, line and sinker into a false gospel message and thus remain "workers of iniquity." They have not been redeemed from all iniquity and made pure. It is a tragedy.

Side Note:

Quck question: Do you believe the Law of Moses is still binding for the believer today?
Gal 5:18 But if ye be led of the Spirit, ye are not under the law.

Rom 7:4 Wherefore, my brethren, ye also are become dead to the law by the body of Christ; that ye should be married to another, even to him who is raised from the dead, that we should bring forth fruit unto God.
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Rom 7:6 But now we are delivered from the law, that being dead wherein we were held; that we should serve in newness of spirit, and not in the oldness of the letter.

2Co 3:6 Who also hath made us able ministers of the new testament; not of the letter, but of the spirit: for the letter killeth, but the spirit giveth life.
 
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I will think about going back later to read your post, my friend.
Please do and carefully think through it point by point.

Oh, and yes. I do not believe in one getting away with sinning under any circumstances. All sin must be confessed or forsaken.
I am sure you meant "and" not "or." Yes the sin has to stop.

Now, when a person first accepts Christ, they do not need to confess every sin they did as an unbeliever. That would be an impossible task; And nobody does that. When a person accepts Christ: One recognizes that they are a sinner and that they have sinned against God whereby they call upon Jesus to save them.
I agree although I would be very careful using the term "accepts Christ" because that notion is...

1. Not in the Bible.
2. Is used by modern false teachers in the context of Original Sin (sin you will and sin you must) and Penal Substitution (Jesus paid the fine in full thus past, present and future sin is all paid for in full and the debt cannot be held due).


Side Note:

Do you believe the Law of Moses is still binding for the believer today? I am not talking about the moral law within the Law of Christ under the New Testament. Surely, Christians have to obey common basic morality (Which is spelled out for us again in the New Testament).
The Law of Moses was but a shadow of the law of love. The New Covenant is not premised on the shadow in order to regulate a nation like the Old Covenant was. The New Covenant is premised on the source in order to regulate the individual heart. Thus if we are led by the Spirit we are not under the law, rather we fulfill the law because faith works by love and love fulfills the law.

The law is not cancelled but superseded by the law of love. The bar has actually been raised. Many deceiovers preach the law is cancelled via the means of a substitutionary sacrifice when such is not the case.
 
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No, most here believe they can be out of fellowship with God and still be saved (of which you can check out here):

http://christianchat.com/bible-discussion-forum/105849-can-you-out-fellowship-god-still-saved.html

Being out of fellowship implies one is out of fellowship because of sin. You can check out the votes at the thread link (above) here if you don't believe me.

Side Note:

I also have debated the issue on 1 John 1:9 with others here, too. They do not believe it is for the forgiveness of sin when you confess sin. They believe they are forgiven of all sin: past, present, and future.
Well, if someone is "out of fellowship" with God, then it becomes an issue between them and God.
Not us. People believe WE save and ultimately need to correct this. Sorry, that's a lie.
IMO, Once you are baptized with the Holy Spirit, that's it, done, OSAS is fact.
I'm guessing you still believe that the Holy Spirit can leave someone?
Saying yes, means you deny what Jesus promises. Saying no, means you do believe OSAS.

You cant have it both ways.

Any other way is stating that we need multiple Holy Spirit baptisms throughout life.
If someone keeps backsliding, maybe they should reconsider their standing with God.
I don't make that call.

As for future sins? I don't understand how or why that is even an issue? Ever.
In constant fear of future repenting, and sins?

Take it day by day, my man.
That is what is required of us.
 

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I will attempt to answer some of your questions but there are far too many and far too many Bible quotations to deal with, that is, if you are wanting to have a proper discussion instead of just trying to look as though you are winning the debate by flooding the thread at every turn in an attempt to look clever, and you were a true teacher, you would not be doing this, and would be taking time to go through each point carefully and patiently instead of debating for the sake of winning points.

So you think the Apostles were carnal and sold under sin before Pentecost? You think they were actually inwardly wicked up until that moment? You must think that the Holy Spirit comes and indwells a defiled vessel and then cleanses it. The Bible does not teach that. The Bible teaches that we cleanse ourselves first through repentance and THEN the Holy Spirit comes and empowers us.

Pentecost was a Jewish festival held 50 days after Passover. John the Baptist had preached that the Messiah would Baptise with the Holy Spirit and fire. Pentecost was a witness to the world about the truth of Jesus Christ.

Pentecost had nothing to do with finally making the hearts of the apostles pure. They were already pure. They were already wholeheartedly yielded to God having already died to sin. Pentecost simply empowered them to speak in other tongues and to perform great signs and wonders before an unbelieving nation and world.

You are tying "ceasing from sin" to Pentecost or the reception of the Holy Spirit. Thus I suspect that you believe in "total inability" doctrine. Do you believe in Original Sin doctrine? Arminian/Wesleyian theology is premised on it being true which is why they teach this Second Blessing doctrine. They teach that the stain of Original Sin remains after salvation until it is finally purged at the Second Blessing. It sounds like you believe the same thing? Can you address this issue? Do you believe in Original Sin? Inherited Sin? Being born a sinner?
I do not say that the disciples were wicked; they desired to follow Jesus but had many problems understanding what He meant, as they did not have the Spirit dwelling in them yet. They argued with each other and vied for position, Luke 22.24. Peter opposed Jesus and was told that he was to get behind Him being of the devil. When it came to the crucifixion they deserted Jesus and denied knowing Him. Weak fleshy men who believed that Jesus was the Christ but that was as far as it went. They were unable to live up to their desires to walk like Jesus and especially regarding the sermon on the mount which is the pattern for true saints.

If you read of men behaving like this and call them pure and dead to sin, then I understand why you defend the fat preacher.

Anyone here who is being honest with themselves will see themselves in the disciples before Pentecost. Pentecost brought about a massive change in the disciples and they became strong and utterly obedient to the death and became apostles.

No I do not believe in original sin - I think that man is born innocent and falls when he reaches the age of accountability. the second blessing is not to remove original sin. Because a man falls he becomes a child of the devil, his father and must be delivered from that, not by penal substitution which I reject but by consenting to a co-crucifixion with Christ, giving up all rights to himself, and men are not ready to do this when they first find Christ because they have to learn just how useless they are in their flesh.

So our difference is on this point though we agree on other issues.

If the old man is crucified then there is no action from him any more (unless he 'gets down from the cross' as it were which is entirely possible). So long as he is in this crucified position, with all of his rights given up and his heart devoted to serving Christ, he will not sin.

There are no sins of ignorance if a man is led by the Spirit for the Spirit enlightens him and there is no darkness. If he still slips up he is in darkness. Adam sinned and was cast out of paradise and so it is with a man who has been restored to the state in which God created man (but not innocent but now holy) A sin is a sin.
 
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Well, if someone is "out of fellowship" with God, then it becomes an issue between them and God.
Not us. People believe WE save and ultimately need to correct this.
5 minute rule. Walked away. Sorry, let me be a little more clear.
I do believe fellowship is necessary. I believe man can guide, help, correct and teach.

So, in the end.....if someone constantly backslides, and continues in a life of sin.....how do we eventually get them to see the error of their ways?

We can't. Sorry.

This is where God takes over. Man can only do so much to help certain brothers and sisters. Right?
A lot have misread the Bible's instructions on the plan for our salvation, and believe it rests solely and only on each others help.
.......actual guidance from God comes after, maybe?

I'm sorry, that is so unbelievably sad, that some people think they need others to have a relationship and understanding of God.
I really do believe you and a few others are convinced that ONLY men can eventually open people's eyes to what is truth.
It's arrogant, and denies the power of our Lord.
Help? Yes. Push them to be obedient, see truth, obey, learn, understand..... Not always gonna happen.

Where we fail to help, (which sometimes we do)
..that is when we need faith that God will guide them to stay and keep on track.
 
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I'm not reading all post. I just want to encourage you first that you're willing to admit this and not play games. But also that Jesus said at the last supper we would all stumble in our faith. Peter was told the church would be built upon Him before he denied Christ three times. Not to say it's ok. Being away from Him is the sign of an unclear knowledge of who God is. I encourage you to read the Psalms. Think about how He is. The creator of all. Heaven and Earth. Ask Him to give you a fresh revelation of Himself. A good book to read "God, As He Longs For You to See Him." Im praying for you.
 
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I'm not reading all post. I just want to encourage you first that you're willing to admit this and not play games. But also that Jesus said at the last supper we would all stumble in our faith. Peter was told the church would be built upon Him before he denied Christ three times. Not to say it's ok. Being away from Him is the sign of an unclear knowledge of who God is. I encourage you to read the Psalms. Think about how He is. The creator of all. Heaven and Earth. Ask Him to give you a fresh revelation of Himself. A good book to read "God, As He Longs For You to See Him." Im praying for you.
 
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Apparently this is a ditto... Why it posted twice I do not know. Sorry
 
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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Galahad again.
Sarah, give some reputation points to a few folks.

Then can you come back and give Reputation points to me, Please! Would you mind if I sent you a reminder?
 
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Sarah, give some reputation points to a few folks.

Then can you come back and give Reputation points to me, Please! Would you mind if I sent you a reminder?
Tourist! Thank you! Wow!
 
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Sarah, give some reputation points to a few folks.

Then can you come back and give Reputation points to me, Please! Would you mind if I sent you a reminder?

Galahad,

Yes you may. If you look under your user name where it says rep power,that is based on the reps you give NOT receive.
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Galahad,

Yes you may. If you look under your user name where it says rep power,that is based on the reps you give NOT receive.
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No. Are you sure? I thought it was on the ones received. Sarah, are you serious? I'm going to check about that. I think it is on the ones you receive, otherwise . . . duh for me. Otherwise I would really REP things up. So it is on the ones you receive. It has to be.

This is new info. to me. I'm going to double check.

Really? Sarah, are you joking? I feel like a dodo.

(The dodo is an extinct flightless bird that was endemic to the island of Mauritius, east of Madagascar in the Indian Ocean.)
 
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No. Are you sure? I thought it was on the ones received. Sarah, are you serious? I'm going to check about that. I think it is on the ones you receive, otherwise . . . duh for me. Otherwise I would really REP things up. So it is on the ones you receive. It has to be.

This is new info. to me. I'm going to double check.

Really? Sarah, are you joking? I feel like a dodo.

(The dodo is an extinct flightless bird that was endemic to the island of Mauritius, east of Madagascar in the Indian Ocean.)
I am pretty sure of it. The math seems to add up. :)

And both you and Angela had some really good posts that I could not give rep to and I just wanted to let you know they were very good posts. :)