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Danacovert82

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When we make a new thread, are we allowed to make simple rules as to what we want and don't want to see in the thread? Like for example to say no arguing.
 
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Before 'making rules"..I would take a moment and ponder if the 'new' thread is worth having. So many here either run their course, or is NOT needed at all to have a successful CHRISTIAN chat. I know that CHRISTIANS have certain talents and such..but do we honestly need complaints, recipes, heresy chats, and more?
 
penknight

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Danacovert82 said:
When we make a new thread, are we allowed to make simple rules as to what we want and don't want to see in the thread? Like for example to say no arguing.
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I only made that rule, because arguing makes things toxic. I don't understand why members can't just pm each other if they want to do that. And I said that it was okay if they wanted to have a debate so long as they didn't argue. Don't you guys get sick of fighting? Because it only hardens people. I realized that an argument might surface, but is it so hard to contain yourselves? And often times here, people say things that they they know will infuriate someone else. And I don't exclude myself from that because that's what I used to do.
 
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I use commas too much.
 
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I only made that rule, because arguing makes things toxic. I don't understand why members can't just pm each other if they want to do that. And I said that it was okay if they wanted to have a debate so long as they didn't argue. Don't you guys get sick of fighting? Because it only hardens people. I realized that an argument might surface, but is it so hard to contain yourselves? And often times here, people say things that they they know will infuriate someone else. And I don't exclude myself from that because that's what I used to do.
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Scratch that, I never even made it a rule. I just asked that people wouldn't do it.
 
Danacovert82

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So, it is okay to make that rule? Okay. I'll do that once in a while when I know a topic I created is gonna get heated.
 
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Danacovert82 said:
So, it is okay to make that rule? Okay. I'll do that once in a while when I know a topic I created is gonna get heated.
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It's not rule if I don't say it is. I know that I don't have the admin rights to make them stop, that why I asked them not to. They could argue all they want and I wouldn't be able to do a thing about it, but that potentially drives other users who would like to give some input away. And as believers we shouldn't be fighting period if a subject isn't ungodly. What's wrong with wanting someone to manage a simple "I disagree" or "I believe we should agree to disagree"? Is it okay to let christians fight?
 
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And wouldn't it have been better to report the thread to the admin so that they could handle it, instead of making a thread about why you didn't like it? You accused me of starting a heated thread, but isn't stirring people up just as bad?
 
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I didn't start the thread cause I hated your thread. I was asking a question cause it seemed like we were allowed to make a simple rule, but I wasn't sure. I don't want to fight about this silly little rule. I said before I'm not gonna copy people, but sometimes when I start a thread on any forum, I get debates and fights going and I leave when things don't go my way. I just am trying to not do that.
 
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And wouldn't it have been better to report the thread to the admin so that they could handle it, instead of making a thread about why you didn't like it? You accused me of starting a heated thread, but isn't stirring people up just as bad?
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Which thread? im done with the other thread loving your enemies since they have gotten wayyyyy off topic. Anyway...
 
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I didn't start the thread cause I hated your thread. I was asking a question cause it seemed like we were allowed to make a simple rule, but I wasn't sure. I don't want to fight about this silly little rule. I said before I'm not gonna copy people, but sometimes when I start a thread on any forum, I get debates and fights going and I leave when things don't go my way. I just am trying to not do that.
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I apologize then, I shouldn't have assumed that without having more information.
 
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you can make the rules in the threads it's your thread but don't count on on anyone following them in the bdf
 
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penknight said:
It's okay, just forget I mentioned it.
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Apology accepted.

And Blain: I understand. You can make rules, but expect 99.9999999999999% of the people to NOT follow them. I think I'm gonna pray to God about creating sensitive threads. If He says it's a sensitive subject, I'll not create it.
 
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Danacovert82 said:
Apology accepted.

And Blain: I understand. You can make rules, but expect 99.9999999999999% of the people to NOT follow them. I think I'm gonna pray to God about creating sensitive threads. If He says it's a sensitive subject, I'll not create it.
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In that case unless you really want to I would avoid making threads about some of the following subjects- The rapture the tribulation the sabbath the law being sinless the kjv bible vs other bibles these are a few of what I call taboo subjects because even with the best intentions they only create war
 
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Danacovert82 said:
When we make a new thread, are we allowed to make simple rules as to what we want and don't want to see in the thread? Like for example to say no arguing.
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Are we allowed? Yes. Will people respect the rules? Maybe not. And I mean I can understand if the person only saw the original post and didn't see any redactions to said rules.
 
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Danacovert82 said:
When we make a new thread, are we allowed to make simple rules as to what we want and don't want to see in the thread? Like for example to say no arguing.
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What YOU want? LOL

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my rule would be : no " perfect" people. I wish we could REAL Bible discussion fourm without these folks hi-jacking threads with their non-sense. go on off to never-never land and let the rest of us have real discussion.
 
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