Does God Hate The Unsaved?

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There is a difference here

In heaven we will know what our sin did to us, understand fully what God did. You telling me any person in heaven would have any desire to chose to trust self over God? Sorry I can not see it. I am sure in heaven we will be given some choices of things (not sin) God will want us to chose. thats what happens with a loving God (as a loving parent gives their child some things to chose)

I do not think your understanding what perfect means. Perfect means without flaw. Free will is not a flaw. so trusting in oneself is not a flaw of not being perfect. it is a possible result of being given free will.

Satan and his angels had free will. a third fell because of that free will. a third chose not to fall. It does not mean they were not perfect beings when they were created.
I wasn't saying anything about heaven only asking.
You don't think Adam's flaw was his inherent weakness to succumb to disobey God as he ended up doing?
So I suppose another fall is a high possibility in heaven by us since the angels were perfect as you say and had free will?
 
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I wasn't saying anything about heaven only asking.
You don't think Adam's flaw was his inherent weakness to succumb to disobey God as he ended up doing?
So I suppose another fall is a high possibility in heaven by us since the angels were perfect as you say and had free will?
No, I think the inherent flaw of a loving God wanting to create a creature who will DESIRE to have a relationship with that God must give that person free will, which takes with it the risk that that creation may not want you to take care of every aspect of their life. they may desire they can do it on their own.

If God did not give mankind free will to chose. he is not who he says he is, because you can not love and desire a relationship with someone you have no option to chose to love.
 
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His scars will be a daily reminder to us for all eternity.
remembering every sin I ever did will be a constant reminder for eternity I am sure..
 
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I wasn't saying anything about heaven only asking.
You don't think Adam's flaw was his inherent weakness to succumb to disobey God as he ended up doing?
So I suppose another fall is a high possibility in heaven by us since the angels were perfect as you say and had free will?

By the way bro, I am not trying to argue I hope you do no think that, just sharing what I see..
 

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No, I think the inherent flaw of a loving God wanting to create a creature who will DESIRE to have a relationship with that God must give that person free will, which takes with it the risk that that creation may not want you to take care of every aspect of their life. they may desire they can do it on their own.

If God did not give mankind free will to chose. he is not who he says he is, because you can not love and desire a relationship with someone you have no option to chose to love.
Do you believe that unsaved man's will is just as free as Adam's will was before the Fall?
 

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Sounds just about right to me, so I will add to it without changing it a bit.........amen.

That's ridiculous...I've had this verse memorized since I sang Jesus loves me as a child. Yes God loved the world, that encompasses every nation, not all the people from those tribes and nations, but every language and tongue, when I say the whole world, it's from the east to the west, that any man from any nation and tongue can be saved, as Jesus declared that his Gospel would be preached to the world, and also as Paul declared, that his word reaches the ends of the Earth, meaning the whole world. Yes I know the verdict, he passed judgement already by declaring his verdict when he says: "this is the verdict", men loved darkness, and hid their sin and would not come to the light.

But God loves the the whole wide world, there is no tongue that salvation will not reach as declared by scripture, his word goes out into all the earth. That does not mean that every man will accept it, it just means every man will be without excuse.

C'mon Lynn.
 
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Do you believe that unsaved man's will is just as free as Adam's will was before the Fall?
I do. Now its getting to the Tree of life through the forest of Good and evil. Doesn't change freewill at all, just a lot more garbage to go through.
 
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Do you believe that unsaved man's will is just as free as Adam's will was before the Fall?
No, it can't be, because sin caused the relationship to be severed. Man after the fall could not do good. because they made themselves God thus had no choice than to trust self or other men.

Until that relationship is restored. Man can not chose to love others (using Gods definition of love, not mans). it is against his nature.

But it does not mean Man can not see his dire situation. See God and his wonderful creation. Realize they are in a fallen state, and ask God to show them the way, which he promises he will. That is when God draws you to himself.


to me this thinking that man would never be able to see their own depravity and dire situation to even seek God is a doctrine that sounds good on the outsie (it sounds religious and upright) but stinks of all kinds of garbage underneath.
 
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No, it can't be, because sin caused the relationship to be severed. Man after the fall could not do good. because they made themselves God thus had no choice than to trust self or other men.

Until that relationship is restored. Man can not chose to love others (using Gods definition of love, not mans). it is against his nature.

But it does not mean Man can not see his dire situation. See God and his wonderful creation. Realize they are in a fallen state, and ask God to show them the way, which he promises he will. That is when God draws you to himself.


to me this thinking that man would never be able to see their own depravity and dire situation to even seek God is a doctrine that sounds good on the outsie (it sounds religious and upright) but stinks of all kinds of garbage underneath.
To add. Adam still chose to do Gods will many times before he fell. this made him different than after the fall. and even different than us, He was righteous of his own power. we can not be righteous of our own power. He never had the flesh (sinful nature) we are born with it, and it remains.

He had something we will not begin to understand till we are in heaven.
 

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No, it can't be, because sin caused the relationship to be severed. Man after the fall could not do good. because they made themselves God thus had no choice than to trust self or other men.

Until that relationship is restored. Man can not chose to love others (using Gods definition of love, not mans). it is against his nature.

But it does not mean Man can not see his dire situation. See God and his wonderful creation. Realize they are in a fallen state, and ask God to show them the way, which he promises he will. That is when God draws you to himself.


to me this thinking that man would never be able to see their own depravity and dire situation to even seek God is a doctrine that sounds good on the outsie (it sounds religious and upright) but stinks of all kinds of garbage underneath.
My take is that man's choice is limited by his fallen nature and even when confronted with the whole Gospel call and story, will not be moved until God begins opening their eyes of understanding to 'see' their sinfulness and be enlightened to who Jesus is...the Son of God. Thus their free will is useless until God in His mercy moves upon them.

Matthew 16:17 (KJV) And Jesus answered and said unto him, Blessed art thou, Simon Bar-jona: for flesh and blood hath not revealed it unto thee, but my Father which is in heaven.
 
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No, it can't be, because sin caused the relationship to be severed. Man after the fall could not do good. because they made themselves God thus had no choice than to trust self or other men.

Until that relationship is restored. Man can not chose to love others (using Gods definition of love, not mans). it is against his nature.

But it does not mean Man can not see his dire situation. See God and his wonderful creation. Realize they are in a fallen state, and ask God to show them the way, which he promises he will. That is when God draws you to himself.


to me this thinking that man would never be able to see their own depravity and dire situation to even seek God is a doctrine that sounds good on the outsie (it sounds religious and upright) but stinks of all kinds of garbage underneath.
Do you think that freewill was adjusted and changed at the fall? Or was it surroundings,circumstances and situations that changed?

I have a hard time seeing that freewill was what inherently changed.

Just throwing things out. Interesting subject.

I see freewill in man as one of the divine institutions established by God. Did God change that freewill at the fall?
 

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Do you think that freewill was adjusted and changed at the fall? Or was it surroundings,circumstances and situations that changed?

I have a hard time seeing that freewill was what inherently changed.

Just throwing things out. Interesting subject.

I see freewill in man as one of the divine institutions established by God. Did God change that freewill at the fall?
What about a changed nature?

Ephesians 2:3 (KJV) Among whom also we all had our conversation in times past in the lusts of our flesh, fulfilling the desires of the flesh and of the mind; and were by nature the children of wrath, even as others.
 

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I wonder why it is God has provided prachers, teachers, apostles, workers of miracles, and most of all His Word in pring, in the Flesh, and in the Holy spirit if mankind has no free will? Curious is it not?

My next question is simple, why are peope coming to Bible discussion to tell all they have no free will? What is the Bible for if not to pursuade individuals of God's ways, plans, and our future with Him?

I chose Jesus Christ after the Father heard my pleas for help, and the Father brought me to Jesus Christ. Another curious thought on this; Jesus comes from the Hebrew, Help of God.........Salvation of God. What a coincidence! My, my!
 
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What about a changed nature?

Ephesians 2:3 (KJV) Among whom also we all had our conversation in times past in the lusts of our flesh, fulfilling the desires of the flesh and of the mind; and were by nature the children of wrath, even as others.
And before the fall, Adam didn't KNOW good and evil. So he wasn't choosing good and evil until He ate the fruit(Fig/IMO)

So on one hand I could say his freewill got even bigger. Now He can hide from God and can choose good and evil.

But on the other hand he was separated from God. BUT, He hid from(a new choice in his changed nature) God. And God came to Him and Adam still chose to take the animal skins(Christ) and be covered by a sacrifice.

So Adam still chose God, even in His new fallen nature.

So yeah, I am still on the fence that freewill inherently changed. I see circumstances changed. And even more options for our freewill.
 
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It seems that we equate Gods anger with ours.... only His temper tantrum is on a cosmic scale where ours would be chucking the tv remote across the room. Gods anger and wrath and hatred isn't like ours. We can't imagine the full depth of Gods character with our finite little minds.

On a side note...I believe that when God says He can have nothing to do with darkness. I think it really means that darkness vaporizes to nothingness in His presence.
 

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And before the fall, Adam didn't KNOW good and evil. So he wasn't choosing good and evil until He ate the fruit(Fig/IMO)

So on one hand I could say his freewill got even bigger. Now He can hide from God and can choose good and evil.

But on the other hand he was separated from God. BUT, He hid from(a new choice in his changed nature) God. And God came to Him and Adam still chose to take the animal skins(Christ) and be covered by a sacrifice.

So Adam still chose God, even in His new fallen nature.

So yeah, I am still on the fence that freewill inherently changed. I see circumstances changed. And even more options for our freewill.
Adam chose God in his fallen nature?
Rather Adam hid from God. God came seeking Adam.
Adam then began excuse making and blame shifting.

This is what fallen man does today with his free will...no change.
 

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I wonder why it is God has provided prachers, teachers, apostles, workers of miracles, and most of all His Word in pring, in the Flesh, and in the Holy spirit if mankind has no free will? Curious is it not?

My next question is simple, why are peope coming to Bible discussion to tell all they have no free will? What is the Bible for if not to pursuade individuals of God's ways, plans, and our future with Him?

I chose Jesus Christ after the Father heard my pleas for help, and the Father brought me to Jesus Christ. Another curious thought on this; Jesus comes from the Hebrew, Help of God.........Salvation of God. What a coincidence! My, my!
Perhaps your 'pleas for help' was the result of a merciful work of God? Without which you'd be going your merry way? Or do you want to take the glory?
 

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And before the fall, Adam didn't KNOW good and evil. So he wasn't choosing good and evil until He ate the fruit(Fig/IMO)
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Sorry, I missed the fig part. Actually it was a Donut (do not) :p