I meet and know non christian before.. he was so kind, he was so mature, and he has everything that woman could think of man
i go out with him few times.. i cant bring him to church with that kind of motive too.. no and never.. lets say he agree go to church, agree baptism, etc just to cover things up so you may think he already saved but imagine if you married later?? who can guarantee he didnt back to his previous religion and ask you to follow him??
its not easy to remove that feeling.. but at that time i decided not to accept his offer to be his gf (he even already has plan about marriage before i answer his question about bf gf thing --> maybe he already know i like him and he think i wouldnt reject him) well, i admit that i'm not wise enough at that time (doesnt mean that now i'm wise too.. lol).. -_- short story i reject him and it was like in hell.. i cant move on and i'm questioning myself is it the right thing to do.. am i regret it?? my friend didnt help me much at that time.. even she is christian she said that i shouldnt lying with my heart.. ugh.. makes thing more complicated.. lol.. but i still have some friends that pray for me.. well, after time goes by i feel that i'm okk now and completely okk.. i'm not regret and i glad about my decision at that time even it hurt me a lot... hehehe.. he now married with someone happily and i wish they happily ever after
If you really love that person, you can stay away and pray and make target time for that person to accept Jesus.. but dont give him/her hint that you ONLY want date a christian.. but you can push him/her smoothly to get close to God.. while waiting dont focus only for him/her.. If no sign from that person to change you should move on and forget.. its not healthy and useless..
It would be better if both of you MATURE in Christ ^_^ hth