Hmmm!
Thanks for saying that, sir.
I don´t mind to admit I fear increasing the gap I know when I loved, particularly when I know there´s a saying: "Love hurts" and I don´t want to be hurt and I´ve enjoyed loving (although with the turmoil of ruptures) and I don´t believe what others said ("...perfect love casts fears away...") (1Jn 4:18).
When a person loves, at least the way I think love is, no harmful thing is expected, and I have realized that our Lord, that One who was willing to come down here to set us free, was creepily betrayed (and hurt) disloyally.
I rather chose "baby steps" to love a few.
By the way! If loving is giving attention, care, etc. How could a single person share himself (or herself) having bunches of ppl around?
If I´m not enough to pay attention my own family (and their basic needs) how come will I pay attention of those around (who probably are more than a dozen of ppl).
I know my limits, and I know ppl also know they are limited (and terrified by those stumbling blocks they know as limits)
Thanks for saying that, sir.
I don´t mind to admit I fear increasing the gap I know when I loved, particularly when I know there´s a saying: "Love hurts" and I don´t want to be hurt and I´ve enjoyed loving (although with the turmoil of ruptures) and I don´t believe what others said ("...perfect love casts fears away...") (1Jn 4:18).
When a person loves, at least the way I think love is, no harmful thing is expected, and I have realized that our Lord, that One who was willing to come down here to set us free, was creepily betrayed (and hurt) disloyally.
I rather chose "baby steps" to love a few.
By the way! If loving is giving attention, care, etc. How could a single person share himself (or herself) having bunches of ppl around?
If I´m not enough to pay attention my own family (and their basic needs) how come will I pay attention of those around (who probably are more than a dozen of ppl).
I know my limits, and I know ppl also know they are limited (and terrified by those stumbling blocks they know as limits)
God did not say that love hurts!
I think that love is that one in 1Corintians 13 chapter – unfortunately in English Bible there is only one of the meanings of the word – it is only „Charity” – BUT it is not only charity only in the original. There is the same word which is used in John 5:42 – and it`s meaning is “God`s love” - it is “agape” in Greek –and according the dictionary of Strong it is „ag-ah'-pay”; love, i.e. affection or benevolence; specially (plural) a love-feast:--(feast of) charity(-ably), dear, love.
Let see what will happen if we use the word LOVE instead of Charity
4. Charity suffereth long, [and] is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,
5. Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;
6. Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;
7. Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.
8. Charity never faileth: but whether [there be] prophecies, they shall fail; whether [there be] tongues, they shall cease; whether [there be] knowledge, it shall vanish away.
Not sure? If God do not love us on the way above – we all would have been dead already. So that is the love. By the way – in the Greek translation of the bible there are 4 words of different kinds love /to parents and kids, people, husband and that one of God / So let see what is the meaning of love in Songs 1:4 “ dowd dode or (shortened) dod dode; from an unused root meaning properly, to boil, i.e. (figuratively) to love; by implication, a love- token, lover, friend; specifically an uncle:--(well-)beloved, father's brother, love, uncle.”
The love between man and woman often is mess because of the flesh –lust, jealous, fears. But if it is true love such things just disappeared because the love of God in them gives them the love which is not able to live without trust and as we know the trust is
Hebrew 11 : 1. “Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.”
By the way there was pretty good song of Foreigner "I want to know what love is" /not sure if there in it is singing something about climbing ah hahahaha - I am hopeless of it! love to camping but I am not a goat!/
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