I wanted to share something for you all to think about. Think about villains in popular movies like Cruella de Ville a good percentage of them are women as well as the wicked witches. Another thing I found to be ironic most of the hurricanes were named after women. Yes, a man can and do make frightening villains, but it is worse if they are women because they have an ability to befriend someone and then hurt them where it will hurt the most.
When Eve partook of the forbidden fruit and fell the women sought to control her relationship and refuses to show vulnerability. And when she cannot secure a relationship it kills the intimacy so she is safe and in control. So basically women dominate and control because they fear vulnerability. I have seen that far too many women forfeit their femininity in order to feel safe and in control. Because of this the women are not alluring, nothing tender or merciful about them.
Some examples of controlling women are people that don't trust anyone to drive their car, help in their kitchen, and even allow someone to help us carry something. Yes, controlling women are rewarding in this world, but in reality we are not giving our full trust to our heavenly Father to have control over our lives and he knows exactly what we need.
Then on the other side of the dime there are women who are desolate and needy and there are many women who do stumble upon abusive relationships and they don't have the will to get themselves out. Desolate women tend to hide their true feelings for fear of rejection, we may hide under our makeup, or even humor. We may have tried to stand up for something and people may have responded with blank stares or even was mocked and ridiculed.
Now I believe there needs to be a healthy balance between the two. You cannot be too controlling and not allow someone into your life, but we can't be desolate either.
