Bakers refuse gay couple for wedding cake - is this a Christian response?

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Yea Jack is now calling himself ruthie... He seemed so educated and important ...wonder why he waste time with small and ignorant people like us?

not merely educated and important....
he seems to have the ability to change age and gender at will!
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Personally I do not think this was a christian thing to do. The Bible teaches us to love and accept all people no matter what. It is not in our place to judge or condemn them, that is God's job not ours. Even says so in Mathew. Somebody had told me that these people were standing up for their christianity, let's point out that your christianity needs to be threatened before it's called standing up for it. That gay couple didn't ask them to take down their cross, or try and sue them for being christians or tell them they couldn't say or do this, they just came in and wanted a cake. If I seen a kid at school, he had never bullied me but I knew he bullied other kids so I walk up and punch him, nobody is gonna say that I was standing up for myself because he never threatened me. The same applies here, point being that if it had been Jesus running that cake shop. He would've taken their money, baked their cake, said God bless you and let them go on their way. And that's really all that should've been said

On the contrary. We are commanded to be discriminatory. "Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things the wrath of God comes upon the sons of disobedience. Therefore do not be partakers with them; for you were formerly darkness, but now you are Light in the Lord; walk as children of Light (for the fruit of the Light consists in all goodness and righteousness and truth), trying to learn what is pleasing to the Lord. Do not participate in the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but instead even expose them." How does baking the cake satisfy this charge?
 
Yeah i guess i wouldnt know what i would do in that situation, good thing i aint a baker. But if i think about, if a homosexual came to me asking to build them a website promoting homosexual equality or something, i wouldnt be able to do it! Same instance i think.



All Christian businesses are open for attack now.


But not Muslim ones, of course.
 
Im sure if it were muslim who refused serviced they would be dragged through the mud just as the christian, or even an unbeliever who doesnt share equal rights views (they are out there hehe)
 
Yeah i guess i wouldnt know what i would do in that situation, good thing i aint a baker. But if i think about, if a homosexual came to me asking to build them a website promoting homosexual equality or something, i wouldnt be able to do it! Same instance i think.
Yeah, hard times ahead for the Christian, look up
[h=2]A Christian relationship counsellor who was sacked after he refused to give sex therapy to homosexual couples has lost his case for unlawful discrimination.[/h]
 
not merely educated and important....
he seems to have the ability to change age and gender at will!
lol
He's probably the author of the blog he posted. No doubt his time on here was "research."

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On the contrary. We are commanded to be discriminatory. "Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things the wrath of God comes upon the sons of disobedience. Therefore do not be partakers with them; for you were formerly darkness, but now you are Light in the Lord; walk as children of Light (for the fruit of the Light consists in all goodness and righteousness and truth), trying to learn what is pleasing to the Lord. Do not participate in the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but instead even expose them." How does baking the cake satisfy this charge?

You're not supporting gay marriage by baking the cake. You're simply making a cake because that's your job, you're a baker, you bake cakes. And let's put Mathew 7:1-5 in here. Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you. Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when there is the log in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye. Divorce is also a sin, but half the people on here have probably been divorced. Only he without sin may cast the first stone. So unless you can honestly look me in the eye and tell me that you haven't ever sinned in your entire life, then the best thing we can do as christians is let it go. If gays want to get married, then let them. It's not hurting us, it's not saying that WE have to get gay marriages. Our time is better spent on our relationship with God weather than whining and crying because the government said a man can marry a man and a woman can marry a woman
 
Somebody had told me that these people were standing up for their christianity, let's point out that your christianity needs to be threatened before it's called standing up for it.
It seems to me that the cultural war waged against Christianity is a threat to our faith. What do you think about that?
 
You're not supporting gay marriage by baking the cake. You're simply making a cake because that's your job, you're a baker, you bake cakes. And let's put Mathew 7:1-5 in here. Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you. Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when there is the log in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye. Divorce is also a sin, but half the people on here have probably been divorced. Only he without sin may cast the first stone. So unless you can honestly look me in the eye and tell me that you haven't ever sinned in your entire life, then the best thing we can do as christians is let it go. If gays want to get married, then let them. It's not hurting us, it's not saying that WE have to get gay marriages. Our time is better spent on our relationship with God weather than whining and crying because the government said a man can marry a man and a woman can marry a woman

Perhaps you need to read those verses again.
 
Im sure if it were muslim who refused serviced they would be dragged through the mud just as the christian, or even an unbeliever who doesnt share equal rights views (they are out there hehe)



Oddly, these activists seem mostly to target Christian businesses while leaving Muslim ones alone.

I'm guessing they want to keep their heads attached to their necks.
 
I didn't see any mention of my user name? But the publicity will be great for the site...real Christians will be looking for a real Christian forum and im sure it will help the forum grow :)

Looks like someone grinding an ax for getting banned.
 
Looks like someone grinding an ax for getting banned.
Yep, my thoughts exactly. Plus taking out his frustration at not getting any of us to agree with him as to how "stupid, backward, and ignorant" we are.
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But nobody has to support that law or agree with same sex marriages or support the LGBT community etc, what one can do is adapt to ever changing worldly environments, it's not easy though and sacrifices might have to be made so as not to fall foul of a man made law. But, from what many claim on here God gives out Holy Spirit to all Christians so what is lost then surely something greater is gained? what are the testimonies of Christians who have experienced this type of persecution? or does Holy Spirit not bring joy then?

"By force of law" means the law will force you to act against your own conscience to approve sexual perversion . and we are not called to give up our rights as citizens but to use our liberty to further the truth of Jesus Christ. This is our society and it would be evil to turn it over to the wicked of this world and not stand and at least be heard.
 
I posted this a bit earlier, and am curious regarding your opinions:

Let's say the Romans went to the Jews, including Christ of course, and said a special tax was going to be required to fund the making of a statue of a Roman God.

Do you think Jesus would pay that tax to help fund the statue - or would He refuse?
 
You're not supporting gay marriage by baking the cake. You're simply making a cake because that's your job, you're a baker, you bake cakes. And let's put Mathew 7:1-5 in here. Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you. Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when there is the log in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye. Divorce is also a sin, but half the people on here have probably been divorced. Only he without sin may cast the first stone. So unless you can honestly look me in the eye and tell me that you haven't ever sinned in your entire life, then the best thing we can do as christians is let it go. If gays want to get married, then let them. It's not hurting us, it's not saying that WE have to get gay marriages. Our time is better spent on our relationship with God weather than whining and crying because the government said a man can marry a man and a woman can marry a woman

Its the agenda that bothers me. This is just one little battle in the agenda.

God has set up 4 divine institutions to protect and preserve mankind.

Freewill
Marriage
family
nationalism

We are seeing a systematic dismantling of the divine institutions of marriage and family. When the proper order of the family is dismantled, freewill goes into bondage. And nationalism is wiped out.

The family unit is a picture of the divine order when operating correctly. When the family is destroyed, everything else falls with it.

This is the goal.
 
Show mercy? That is what you call mercy? Taking your time, talent, money and such to produce a wedding cake for an openly gay same sex couple for their sham of a marriage celebration? Are you for real? Why should somone who knows what GOD did to Sodom (you know, the city in which the word SODOMY comes from) and try to mask over the fact that the cake is the center of their celebration that tells the world "WE don't care what YOU think, as long as we are happy with each other and we can sodomize, enjoy our lusts and be proud while waving a rainbow flag". You are 'caving in' to their chosen lifestyle. It is no different than if you turned your hat backwards, pulled down your pants to show your butt cheeks, spread your pinky finger and thumb out 90 degrees and began to gansta rap to "yo ho! gimme back ma (explicit) money!" as Rhianna proudly shouts! What gives? You are what you preach and act like. Why should gays think that everybody is their maidservants and demand instant respect?