Unfortunately, your theology is missing the point of this Scripture.
Take your eyes off your flesh dying and realize that you are new creation. And because you are a new creation you do the things of the Lord. Dying to yourself is living to God in you. You are not obeying to be a new creation. You are obeying because you are one. Renewing of the mind is to agree with this reality. Let me point out which Scripture you're missing in the context...
Here's the key to renewing your mind:
Eph 4:20But that is not the way you learned Christ!—
21assuming that you have heard about him and were taught in him, as the truth is in Jesus,
22to put off your old self,[SUP]
f[/SUP] which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires,
23and to be
renewed in the spirit of your minds,
24and to put on the new self,
created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.
You see people as righteous and holy. Exactly like bowharp said.
Here's the points of Scripture you've missed:
Rom 8:1-15.
"Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus has set you free from the law of sin and of death. For what the Law could not do, weak as it was through the flesh, God did: sending His own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh and as an offering for sin, He condemned sin in the flesh, so that the requirement of the Law might be fulfilled in us, who do not walk according to the flesh but according to the Spirit. For those who are according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who are according to the Spirit, the things of the Spirit. For the mind set on the flesh is death, but the mind set on the Spirit is life and peace, because the mind set on the flesh is hostile toward God; for it does not subject itself to the law of God, for it is not even able to do so, and those who are in the flesh cannot please God." "However, you are not in the flesh but in the Spirit, if indeed the Spirit of God dwells in you. But if anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, he does not belong to Him. If Christ is in you, though the body is dead because of sin, yet the spirit is alive because of righteousness. But if the Spirit of Him who raised Jesus from the dead dwells in you, He who raised Christ Jesus from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies through His Spirit who dwells in you.
You're teaching only ensnares people to think carnally. Because you tell them they are still the flesh and to die to it. Instead of telling them are dead to it. As far as your militant approach to women pastors, you've also conveniently left out the teaching that there is no male/female in Christ. And that Paul was replying to a letter written to him, and that the Greek shows that the woman is "wife" a WOMAN is not subject to
all men, only
her husband. Men don't have authority over all woman because they are a man. That's poor theology and hermaneutics. And has caused MANY issues.
Also you don't seem to understand what In the Spirit means because none of your responses account for us to be taught by the Spirit Himself even though Scripture clearly says we have no teacher, but Him. And Scripture says it those who are lead by the SPIRIT that are sons of God.
As far as knowing people according to the flesh.. let's take a peek at that:
1 Co 5:16 From now on, therefore,
we regard no one according to the flesh. Even though we once regarded Christ according to the flesh, we regard him thus no longer.
17Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature; the old things passed away; behold, new things have come.…
So just like you want to command people by what Paul says I do the same to you: Stop regarding people according to the flesh. You have a massive post count and people see you as important, bowharp decided to bow out gracefully, but it was you who should have done that. Represent Christ well. Sorry for any harsh tone, but your responses to newer Christians are not encouraging at all. Read 1 Co 14. That's how you build up the Church. If that is your intention.
However I do believe in the following Scripture:
Romans 14:4 Who are you to pass judgment on the servant of another? It is before his own master that he stands or falls. And he will be upheld, for the Lord is able to make him stand.
So I leave the rest to Him.
C.