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Since women have been asked not to post in another thread...ahem...
I was just thinking back on allllll the other threads we've had here where this has been discussed at all, or even so much as mentioned. I can only recall one recurring "want" among all the women who spoke up about it- we want to be with a man who loves God and loves us.
Aside from that, we all differ to some extent. Some of us need certain things from the man we choose to be with, some of us need something different. And that's totally ok! We can't be generalized into wanting one particular attribute in our relationships. I think that's one of the most beautiful things about how we were created- Diversity.
What I want is different than what Olerica wants. What she wants is different than what gypsygirl wants, which differs from what Hellooo wants, which differs from what Grace wants, and so on right through the list of every female member on this site and every female on the planet.
Do some of us have common wants/needs? Of course. But to have a generalized discussion about what we want while also excluding us...you're not going to learn a lot.
I was just thinking back on allllll the other threads we've had here where this has been discussed at all, or even so much as mentioned. I can only recall one recurring "want" among all the women who spoke up about it- we want to be with a man who loves God and loves us.
Aside from that, we all differ to some extent. Some of us need certain things from the man we choose to be with, some of us need something different. And that's totally ok! We can't be generalized into wanting one particular attribute in our relationships. I think that's one of the most beautiful things about how we were created- Diversity.
What I want is different than what Olerica wants. What she wants is different than what gypsygirl wants, which differs from what Hellooo wants, which differs from what Grace wants, and so on right through the list of every female member on this site and every female on the planet.
Do some of us have common wants/needs? Of course. But to have a generalized discussion about what we want while also excluding us...you're not going to learn a lot.