. Yes, and sorry for the confusion, I didn't mean to lump two issues in one, was just saying that sometimes treating another with indifference, whether by one or a group, can be a form of bullying. Also, being a victim of that form of bullying (indifference) may lead some to seek the attention they feel they're missing in some pretty drastic ways. I think that's the reason some ppl drive around blasting folks out with every form of F-, S-, or N-Word thru their stereo. It's a form of insecurity, a way to say, 'pay attention to ME', like a little kid throwing a temper tantrum. Maybe they were ignored, so they now ignore and disrespect others. I'm not excusing ppl who make a choice to be that way, just saying it CAN be perpetual. Thanks for the correction, as you know, I can't always put in the right words what I'm trying to say. I'm so sorry for the things you've been through, and I'm reminded of what a horrible person I've been myself, and it grieves me so much to know the hurt I've caused, and have no way to make things right. So glad to Jesus He pulled you through so much, and has you helping so many, even a dweeb like me (even tho you've now exposed 3 of us as being from philly (I left?) so INDIFFERENTLY
) Maybe we should BOTH look for that 12 step program for blabbermouths --- 'On and On Anon' ! (I knew you'd be a welcome contributor here, I know a few others that I'd like to see here as well. THAnks, Elf, for a good one, sorry for runnin' on with it.
( I GOTTA get a new sig )