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Girl, boy, man, woman, makes no matter. Online, we are all exposed to things that offend our sensibilities in one way or another, things we would not come in such close contact with, nor so frequently, were it not for modern technology, and we must inure ourselves to them, and practice the principles our LORD and Saviour placed before us. And yes, women are told the same thing, to grow a thick skin, but thick skin is the problem in the first place. Rather I think we need to know the pain of too much tenderness, to be wounded by your own understanding of love, and to bleed willingly and joyfully. Kahlil Gibran wrote that last part, in his teaching on Love from the Prophet.