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sydlit
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Oh, not you too, magenta...my friend? ... Say it ain't so. What guys except thugs and ogres are telling women to grow a thick skin? ! (and i know...i've done it...as a thug and ogre) But as CHRISTIANS??!! On a Christian CHAT site?! If that's so, then perhaps you're making my point, and the promises of 'love', as in, 'if you've been beat up by the world' or 'if you're hurt, lonely, etc.', we here will love you w/out judgement, or the old, 'we'll love you til you learn to love yourself', is maybe just empty words or at best reserved for a select group of elite.......aaahhh, what's the use. Listen, I luv ya magenta, my friend, I really do, and I like you. In fact, I love everybody here, though unfortunately there's some I have a hard time trying to like, and I KNOW there's many who neither like NOR love me. That's on them. But my disappointment isn't from my own expectations, ... frankly I didn't know WHAT to expect. I just arrived as a believer in Jesus seeking fellowship, companionship, prayer, growth, and my expectations came from what I was TOLD here as a newbie. I've also come across others expressing similar complaints about posts being attributed to those that never posted them, and the confusion around that, so I KNOW that happened in my case, whether believed or not, and my conscience is clear. Now I don't have my hopes up, but I'm always open for apologies, as I believe in Christian forgiveness/reconcilliation, and meanwhile, ther's ppl here I'd really like to know better and some contributions I know I can make thru prayer and scripture, esp. catholic, osas, etc. but not if I'm treated with indifference or disdain. I'll walk the extra mile with anyone, by God's grace, especially my sisters and brothers. Jesus loves you. He loves me too. That Really oughta mean something, as He's the Creator, Lord, and Saviour of us all. (and I'll be happy to discuss that, too, in good faith)Girl, boy, man, woman, makes no matter. Online, we are all exposed to things that offend our sensibilities in one way or another, things we would not come in such close contact with, nor so frequently, were it not for modern technology, and we must inure ourselves to them, and practice the principles our LORD and Saviour placed before us. And yes, women are told the same thing, to grow a thick skin, but thick skin is the problem in the first place. Rather I think we need to know the pain of too much tenderness, to be wounded by your own understanding of love, and to bleed willingly and joyfully. Kahlil Gibran wrote that last part, in his teaching on Love from the Prophet.


