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The church is more concerned about a false interpretation of grace that compels people to just let things go. To me it's obvious. The proper way to see the truth in this respect is written in Leviticus 19:17-18
"Thou shalt not hate thy brother in thine heart: thou shalt in any wise rebuke thy neighbour, and not suffer sin upon him.Thou shalt not avenge, nor bear any grudge against the children of thy people, but thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself: I am the Lord."
I'm sure, if we really want God's will to be done in our lives, and truly loved others God's way, we would want to be corrected by others via God's grace.
Of course we think that we shouldn't judge people of their wrong doing (even if it is according to God's word) because we are all sinners. Correcting, and admonishing is then hypocritical. NOT. "Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment." John 7:24
IMO I think the truest statement would be, "I don't want to be corrected, so I'm not going to do that to another because I wouldn't want it done to me. I don't care if God says it's wrong! It's more right to not call others out on what I see as wrong according to God's word."
If we tolerate sin without correction, comparing God's commandments with what we have identified by the light, whether in ourselves or others, we will be loving others who continue in sin right straight into hell.
Correct, but always give the solution and not just condemnation. God corrects me all the time but he doesn't just tell me I'm a dirty sinner. God tells me I'm better than that, I'm his child and have no business being involved in those things. He says , "You don't have to feel that way, I can do much better than that for you." It's always encouragement to rise higher above the problem. That's the way I feel we should correct people.