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setapartgirl

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#1
Others may or may not agree with this, i already know this, but it became clearer to me after few heartaches.

Every woman deserves to be treated with Respect.
Every woman deserves to have a freedom of choice.
Every woman deserves to say or do whatever she please as long as it won't affect other people.
Every woman deserves fidelity.
Every woman should be the man's priority and responsibilty after God.
Every woman deserves to pursue.
Every woman deserves to be treated like a queen.
Every woman deserves to cry when she get hurt,
Every woman deserves to whine, if she thinks she have to.
Every woman deserves a Man...
Who will spoil her
Lover her unconditionally
Who will give his all efforts to her
Who will reassure her from time to time
Who will not make her feel less beautiful or insecure
Who will say it is okay if she paints her face with make up no matter he hates it.
Just,,,,Every woman deserves a Godly man who will cherish him forever, no matter who or what she is or was.
 

Lynx

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#2
"Every woman deserves to say or do whatever she please as long as it won't affect other people."

*Lynx crams both front paws in his mouth and walks away quickly.
 
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Stand_Strong

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#3
I'm with ya lynx. Staying away from this one.
 
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"Every woman deserves to say or do whatever she please as long as it won't affect other people."

*Lynx crams both front paws in his mouth and walks away quickly.
I'll jump in:

Uh... everything we do and say affects other people. Both men and women.

Also? I think this list can be applied to men as well, I've seen far too many women treat men unkindly in relationships. It's not a one way street.
 

PopClick

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I can't really agree with this either, setapartgirl, but I know you're hurting over something that happened, so I won't pick it apart or argue.

I will say that it's okay to not want to interact with people who disrespect you, or try to make choices for you, or cut you down instead of building you up.
 

seoulsearch

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#6
Everything on this list... has to work in both directions, for both genders... in order to work. :) Whenever we think about what we need or want, it's equally important to ask ourselves, "And how can I best serve (someone else's) needs and wants?" Because serving someone else can be the key to finding our own place as well.

In a sinful world, we won't find it all. We're going to have to make sacrifices. We're going to have to set some of our wants and choices aside. After all, Jesus didn't want to die, but made a choice to obey instead.

But ideals... and God's guidance... keep us striving for what actually can be achieved in this world... and only with His help.

It won't be perfect.
It may not have a fairy tale ending.
But hopefully... If we stick close to God... it will be what He wills.
 
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setapartgirl

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#7
Others may or may not agree with this, i already know this, but it became clearer to me after few heartaches.

Every woman deserves to be treated with Respect.
Every woman deserves to have a freedom of choice.
Every woman deserves fidelity.
Every woman should be the man's priority and responsibilty after God.
Every woman deserves to pursue.
Every woman deserves to be treated like a queen.
Every woman deserves to cry when she get hurt,
Every woman deserves to whine, if she thinks she have to.
Every woman deserves a Man...
Who will spoil her
Lover her unconditionally
Who will give his all efforts to her
Who will reassure her from time to time
Who will not make her feel less beautiful or insecure
Who will say it is okay if she paints her face with make up no matter he hates it.
Just,,,,Every woman deserves a Godly man who will cherish him forever, no matter who or what she is or was.
 
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setapartgirl

Guest
#8
"Every woman deserves to say or do whatever she please as long as it won't affect other people."

*Lynx crams both front paws in his mouth and walks away quickly.
Yeah you must be right should i edit it?
 
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setapartgirl

Guest
#9
I'm with ya lynx. Staying away from this one.
Yeah that part might be wrong, but don't judge like staying away from this one, maybe you just don't know was just upset or something, but as what i said, others may not agree with these, mostly men, but these also for men, they deserves it too, i am just saying this as a girl but i never said, guys dont deserve it too.
 
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setapartgirl

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#10
I'll jump in:

Uh... everything we do and say affects other people. Both men and women.

Also? I think this list can be applied to men as well, I've seen far too many women treat men unkindly in relationships. It's not a one way street.

Yeah ofcourse it applies also to men... some men deservesn it too.
 
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Sirk

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#11
Others may or may not agree with this, i already know this, but it became clearer to me after few heartaches.

Every woman deserves to be treated with Respect.
Every woman deserves to have a freedom of choice.
Every woman deserves to say or do whatever she please as long as it won't affect other people.
Every woman deserves fidelity.
Every woman should be the man's priority and responsibilty after God.
Every woman deserves to pursue.
Every woman deserves to be treated like a queen.
Every woman deserves to cry when she get hurt,
Every woman deserves to whine, if she thinks she have to.
Every woman deserves a Man...
Who will spoil her
Lover her unconditionally
Who will give his all efforts to her
Who will reassure her from time to time
Who will not make her feel less beautiful or insecure
Who will say it is okay if she paints her face with make up no matter he hates it.
Just,,,,Every woman deserves a Godly man who will cherish him forever, no matter who or what she is or was.
I personally think we all deserve hell but what I will say is that a woman owes it to herself to accept the love of Jesus as the only source of her significance.
 
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Stand_Strong

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#12
Yeah ofcourse it applies also to men... some men deservesn it too.
I think it's been reiterated in many different ways by many people that relationships require a healthy level of self respect and respect for the other person. Wasn't trying to judge, but I do think going into a relationship with the mentality of what you "deserve" is probably the wrong way to look at it. A successful relationship, marital or otherwise, requires both parties to make constant sacrifices, dying to self on a daily basis. Think about it this way: what if Jesus loved us with a list of perceived requirements? He doesn't though, and He humbled Himself to death. The epitome of true love.
 
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I think it's been reiterated in many different ways by many people that relationships require a healthy level of self respect and respect for the other person. Wasn't trying to judge, but I do think going into a relationship with the mentality of what you "deserve" is probably the wrong way to look at it. A successful relationship, marital or otherwise, requires both parties to make constant sacrifices, dying to self on a daily basis. Think about it this way: what if Jesus loved us with a list of perceived requirements? He doesn't though, and He humbled Himself to death. The epitome of true love.
THIS post contains romance right there. Mutual respect? Mutual self-sacrifice? Mutual choosing the win-win for each other? Each person choosing to bless the other, looking for the best, and encouraging each other? Sigh. That's real romance.
 
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setapartgirl

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#14
I think it's been reiterated in many different ways by many people that relationships require a healthy level of self respect and respect for the other person. Wasn't trying to judge, but I do think going into a relationship with the mentality of what you "deserve" is probably the wrong way to look at it. A successful relationship, marital or otherwise, requires both parties to make constant sacrifices, dying to self on a daily basis. Think about it this way: what if Jesus loved us with a list of perceived requirements? He doesn't though, and He humbled Himself to death. The epitome of true love.

Men or women who are deserving..deserves it. I did not said ONLY WOMEN deserves it.
 
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setapartgirl

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#15
THIS post contains romance right there. Mutual respect? Mutual self-sacrifice? Mutual choosing the win-win for each other? Each person choosing to bless the other, looking for the best, and encouraging each other? Sigh. That's real romance.
That's how it should be.
 
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#16
I'll jump in:

Uh... everything we do and say affects other people. Both men and women.

Also? I think this list can be applied to men as well, I've seen far too many women treat men unkindly in relationships. It's not a one way street.
Yes, yes, yes.
 
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cmarieh

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#17
I personally think we all deserve hell but what I will say is that a woman owes it to herself to accept the love of Jesus as the only source of her significance.
Yes, I couldn't agree more. I know that I have said and done some terrible things in my life, but because of grace I am redeemed.

After all grace is unmerited favor we need to be on our hands and knees thanking God for daily, but most of us take it for granted
 
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setapartgirl

Guest
#18
I personally think we all deserve hell but what I will say is that a woman owes it to herself to accept the love of Jesus as the only source of her significance.

Yeah thank you for reminding me that, He should be from the very start, that's why maybe i am hurting now because what i did was the opposite, someone told me that sometimes PAIN are one of the ways that God is screaming to us like HEY MY CHILD, I AM HERE, COME BACK TO ME. and yeah that's should i do running back to HIM.
 

maxwel

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Apr 18, 2013
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#19
Others may or may not agree with this, i already know this, but it became clearer to me after few heartaches.

Every woman deserves to be treated with Respect.
Every woman deserves to have a freedom of choice.
Every woman deserves to say or do whatever she please as long as it won't affect other people.
Every woman deserves fidelity.
Every woman should be the man's priority and responsibilty after God.
Every woman deserves to pursue.
Every woman deserves to be treated like a queen.
Every woman deserves to cry when she get hurt,
Every woman deserves to whine, if she thinks she have to.
Every woman deserves a Man...
Who will spoil her
Lover her unconditionally
Who will give his all efforts to her
Who will reassure her from time to time
Who will not make her feel less beautiful or insecure
Who will say it is okay if she paints her face with make up no matter he hates it.
Just,,,,Every woman deserves a Godly man who will cherish him forever, no matter who or what she is or was.
Every man deserves...

a woman with a shorter list.

: )

 

Lynx

Folksy yet erudite
Aug 13, 2014
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#20
Every man deserves...

a woman with a shorter list.

: )

*Lynx keeps a paw jammed in his mouth, but snickers and chuckles keep leaking out anyway.