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The term 'nice guy' has apparently changed very drastically in the past 50 years...
Being a 'nice guy' and being a 'doormat' are two totally separate things. A 'nice guy' may also be a 'doormat', but the idea of being a 'nice guy' - and, what a 'nice guy' is - is in no way defined or shaped by the idea of being a 'doormat'.
The term 'nice guy' is defined by ( or, at least, used to be ) the [ honest and good ] intentions and motives of a man - the way he thinks about, and treats, other people - and, especially, women.
The "attachment" of the idea of 'doormat' to the idea of 'nice guy' is simply an attack by Satan on the "goodness and properness" of being a 'nice guy' ( something we are supposed to be ) - "to make nice guys look bad" - to make it seem "undesirable" to be a 'nice guy' - to encourage men to be something other than a 'nice guy' - as if there was something wrong about being a 'nice guy'...
( How effective to you believe Satan has been with this? )
Being a 'nice guy' and being a 'doormat' are two totally separate things. A 'nice guy' may also be a 'doormat', but the idea of being a 'nice guy' - and, what a 'nice guy' is - is in no way defined or shaped by the idea of being a 'doormat'.
The term 'nice guy' is defined by ( or, at least, used to be ) the [ honest and good ] intentions and motives of a man - the way he thinks about, and treats, other people - and, especially, women.
The "attachment" of the idea of 'doormat' to the idea of 'nice guy' is simply an attack by Satan on the "goodness and properness" of being a 'nice guy' ( something we are supposed to be ) - "to make nice guys look bad" - to make it seem "undesirable" to be a 'nice guy' - to encourage men to be something other than a 'nice guy' - as if there was something wrong about being a 'nice guy'...
( How effective to you believe Satan has been with this? )