Subtle ways to let someone know you are NOT interested!

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crosstweed

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:rolleyes:

It had to happen sometime...
 
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coby

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Addison

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Would you like to be the sun in my life?




Okay.

Then stay 92,955,887.6 miles away from me. :eek:
 
mochi

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It depends on the person..
usually with hint like:
~ i'm single but i'm not interested in any relationship right now
But if it didnt work i'll go with:
~ gave a short answer
~ not giving him questions even its obviously he want me to ask him about something
~ close answer
~ if he text me i'll not answer quickly
~ if he want to come to my home or ask me out i will only say: hahaha or ummm i'm busy baking/i dont want to go out, so tired.. want to rest at home

If he is so persistent/stubborn (which successfully annoying me) i'll told him directly to stop it and told him in calm mode..

so, basically i dont want to give anyone false hope.. and i dont want to hurt their feeling by saying rude words too.. -_-
 
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coby

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Oh lol I once saw a girl on television, good looking. She went on a holiday to Egypt or something. The host asked her: What do you do when those guys there are hitting on you? She said: I just make a face like a camel.

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AsifinPassing

AsifinPassing

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melita916

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in my group of friends, i'm "one of the guys," and so i've never had the problem of "he's interested, but i'm not." lol
 
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NukePooch

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Establish firm boundaries.

 
Born_Again

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If Im ignoring you, thats a pretty good indicator.
 
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wwjd_kilden

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In my experience, subtle ways don't work, you have to tell them straight out, repeatedly

Maybe NukePooch's idea is the most efficient
 
Born_Again

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wwjd_kilden said:
In my experience, subtle ways don't work, you have to tell them straight out, repeatedly

Maybe NukePooch's idea is the most efficient
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If they cant get that hint, they have graduated to creepy stalker status.
 
Roh_Chris

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Tinkerbell725 said:
Sorry I'll be busy for the next 20 years. :p
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I used that line recently....

... on my girlfriend. :p


I have to post this here because it makes sense.



Even guys can face this problem. Sometimes, we do not say that we are not interested because we do not want to be rude. :/
 
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