An Apology

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I can usually understand a thread after just a few posts, but in this case...

 

chanchuinchoy

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Christians in most asian countries are basically rich, in spirit and material things. Why? Because we are blessed by our faithful heavenly father. Why we are bless? because we follow the teachings of the bible diligently. What the bible forbid, we don't do We don't twist facts with lies and most important of all we do maintain a close relationship with our heavenly father.
 
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jasonj

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Christians in most asian countries are basically rich, in spirit and material things. Why? Because we are blessed by our faithful heavenly father. Why we are bless? because we follow the teachings of the bible diligently. What the bible forbid, we don't do We don't twist facts with lies and most important of all we do maintain a close relationship with our heavenly father.
Tuhan mengasihi kita dan merahmati kita yang datang ke dalam ketaatan dan cinta, Tuhan memberkati anda saudara.....not sure if that is correct :)
 
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coby

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I would like to apologize, Christian family on ChristianChat.

I am apologizing...because I placed an unfair expectation on many of you. I came to ChristianChat expecting to find out how to become rich in God, gain the money needed, give back to prosper Christianity, and move from here. I now know that to not be the case.

I also apologize...because I assumed many of you here had achieved wordly success, and may have known how to achieve it in Christ. I'm not potshotting anyone, but if someone truly was able to achieve worldly success in life, I should have known better than to think they would have the physical time required to fellowship on an online forum. That was my fault, and I'm sorry for expecting more than I should have.

I came thinking I could have found someone who made a strong six-figure income, and took some time out of their day to find someone they can guide. I was foolish to have thought so. Many Christians I have met...95% of them, have not achieved success, and the 5% that have...are not on sites like this.

I came looking for money, success, a dream, and a vision, ALL IN CHRIST, to make my life better. You cant do that on the internet. You need to go through the process, and fight for your success. I have over 20 years of failures, dissapointments, loneliness, frustration, and denial, and for me to have thought Jesus could fix or cure it...makes ME the idiot for pursuing that angle, and I'm sorry I came here with that focus.

If you came here to feel better and be in fellowship, amen. You're in the right place.
If you want money...you want to be admired by the opposite sex...if you want a house in the next 2-5 years...if you want blessing for your business or enterprise to thrive...if you want ANYTHING of gain in your life..

...Jesus Christ cannot help you. At all.
All he did was offer himself to die on a cross for your sins.
If your life is great, fantastic, you have an added benefit in Jesus' selfless sacrifice.
If your life sucked, sorry. Jesus' death and ressurection is the only thing you can look forward to.

Folks, the bible wasn't meant for victory in this world. It's just a history of God.
God blesses some. He curses some.
If you were blessed, lucky you. BE SUPREMELY THANKFUL.
If you were cursed, God crapped on you. Sorry. Better luck next time. God expect you to be thankful for your lack of blessing. If you're a believer, you must be thankful for the crap he loaded on you.

Some of you are ok with that. AWESOME.
Some of you are disturbed by that fact. Sorry. THIS is the truth of Christianity.

Christ has died, Christ is risen, Christ will come again. The end.
Anything else, you're on your own bub.


I understand now, CC.
Sorry for all of that. I wont be pushing any issues anymore, because the truth has been laid to bare.

If you desire success, it's not God who blesses you with it...it's your OWN COMPOUNDED ACTIONS, over a CONSISTENT and PERSISTENT period of time, that make the difference.

This is the truth.
Make your decision.

Good day.
Oh another forum where I posted there was a guy who got 250.000 a month for work in the ministry.

If you want a lot of money here on earth and dump God for Mammon you are really foolish. The rich fool who stored up all his wealth and died the next day. Don't become like him and don't let the devil fool you with money. I rather have an eternity on golden streets than money now. There are wealthy businessmen who God blessed with money and they give it away, because they don't love it. If you love money and not Him don't expect He's gonna give you money. He's more concerned about your soul. It would be like giving a big huge expensive toy to your kid, knowing it can destroy him.
 

JennaLeanne

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Wow wow wow..... I cannot believe the way some of you have attacked on here, Just wow. So what if he has messed around on here before... Forgive him.. and so what if he is messing around now, love him... Pray for him. I would encourage you all to read Ephesians 4:29 over and over.. In love xxx
 

chanchuinchoy

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Jasonj...... Your Malay language is good. However, I beg to differ what you've said

We can be blessed ONLY if God approves/delights in our life. If he doesn't, then He doesn't bless because God is Holy and Justice.
 
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jasonj

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Jasonj...... Your Malay language is good. However, I beg to differ what you've said

We can be blessed ONLY if God approves/delights in our life. If he doesn't, then He doesn't bless because God is Holy and Justice.

no i don't think we differ, maybe the wording, obedience is the key to blessing would you disagree with that? when the word says "delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart" to be delighted in Him IS obedience to the Lord. ...forgiving others is also a command of Jesus that is to be obeyed, and brings blessing. what would you disagree with my friend?
 

blue_ladybug

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You're Funrider, aren't you? He wanted fame and fortune, and money and a good high-paying job, etc. One minute he'd say that he'd trade God for all the money in the world, and the next minute, tell us how much he loved God. Funrider was a troll and after reading your OP, I think you are too. :/ You want a job? Get up off your duff and get one. You want fame, renown, whatever? Work for it, but don't expect God to grant all your selfish wishes. He's NOT a genie in a bottle..
 

chanchuinchoy

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You are absolutely right jasonj. Delight in the Lord. You will be blessed if your actions, lives are delight in the Lord.

On the other hand, if those who are not blessed, is their lives not delight in the Lord?
 
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venti2015

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Sad, Some people still knowing God as "a fairy God mother" or a "Genie in a bottle" grant my wish thing....
 
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jasonj

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You are absolutely right jasonj. Delight in the Lord. You will be blessed if your actions, lives are delight in the Lord.

On the other hand, if those who are not blessed, is their lives not delight in the Lord?

"to say I am delighted in the Lord" means you are also delighted in His ways, his ways are not a burden to live by when you are delighted in Him. Jesus says "you will be blessed if you do these things" many times He says you are blessed if you keep my commands" i agree with your first comment, He is not pleased when we walk in disobedience to His ways, it means we need to repent and start following His ways. He Loves us all, but we are blessed when we follow His ways because they are right. but also, if we don't know all of His ways, we must live up to those we do know until we learn more. obedience is the key to blessing
 
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jasonj

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Sad, Some people still knowing God as "a fairy God mother" or a "Genie in a bottle" grant my wish thing....

hes definitely not a genie or grant my wish thing, But He is absolutely "a rewarder of those who diligently seek him" :) God bless you sister venti !!!
 

chanchuinchoy

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what you are trying to say is exactly what is in my mind. When God is delighted in you, you will be bless. like what I've said earlier, to be delighted in the lord is what you have said.

In other words, when you are NOT delighted in the lord, you will not be bless. This is what iam trying to say and I suspect that you agreed with me but are not saying it, why? self denial? whats the point, brother
 
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jasonj

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what you are trying to say is exactly what is in my mind. When God is delighted in you, you will be bless. like what I've said earlier, to be delighted in the lord is what you have said.

In other words, when you are NOT delighted in the lord, you will not be bless. This is what iam trying to say and I suspect that you agreed with me but are not saying it, why? self denial? whats the point, brother

lol ypu would make that judgement of me because of my wording? I am absolutely blessed beyond anything i could have ever hoped for in this life and the life to come :) maybe our language differences are causing an issue. no the Lord is not pleased with our disobedience at all. but there was a time i lived in disobedience to all i knew was right and I had some small success, but it wasn't blessing that comes through obediance and yet His grace and forgiveness has given me Life and a delight in Him that wants to follow every aspect of His ways. i guess i didn't understand your last question.

people can work hard or have a good idea or good product and have riches in this world without even believing in God. But a blessing is different, it is a reward for those who do the right things. and He says "if you Love me, you will obey my commands " more than once. this does not apply to mercy , but material blessings and spiritual growth in Christ these things require obediance

if we want to be blessed in material things, obedience is the key. if we want Gods material blessings disobedience will not allow it unless it be by mercy, and I am no one to command God who to bless or not bless. I do know that He rewards those who DO what He says to do. I guess I'm not too sure if he wont bless someone who disobeys, cant really say that as an absolute. not disagreeing, but I'm not sure. all I know about this is obedience brings blessing, I know this through learning His word, and doing His word, and how blessed I have been since I accepted the importance of obeying Him in all things to the best of my ability. God bless you brother, I am glad we met. and i liked your original comment
 

JennaLeanne

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Sad, Some people still knowing God as "a fairy God mother" or a "Genie in a bottle" grant my wish thing....
Sad is what it is,Deception is the root. Lets pray for those who have a false perception of who our father is xx
 
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jasonj

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lol ypu would make that judgement of me because of my wording? I am absolutely blessed beyond anything i could have ever hoped for in this life and the life to come :) maybe our language differences are causing an issue. no the Lord is not pleased with our disobedience at all. but there was a time i lived in disobedience to all i knew was right and I had some small success, but it wasn't blessing that comes through obediance and yet His grace and forgiveness has given me Life and a delight in Him that wants to follow every aspect of His ways. i guess i didn't understand your last question.

people can work hard or have a good idea or good product and have riches in this world without even believing in God. But a blessing is different, it is a reward for those who do the right things. and He says "if you Love me, you will obey my commands " more than once. this does not apply to mercy , but material blessings and spiritual growth in Christ these things require obediance

if we want to be blessed in material things, obedience is the key. if we want Gods material blessings disobedience will not allow it unless it be by mercy, and I am no one to command God who to bless or not bless. I do know that He rewards those who DO what He says to do. I guess I'm not too sure if he wont bless someone who disobeys, cant really say that as an absolute. not disagreeing, but I'm not sure. all I know about this is obedience brings blessing, I know this through learning His word, and doing His word, and how blessed I have been since I accepted the importance of obeying Him in all things to the best of my ability. God bless you brother, I am glad we met. and i liked your original comment

to clarify real quick, Jesus is why we are approved. I had no obedience until i had a relationship with Jesus in Him is my life, my effort to obey is my effort to remain in Him, not looking at rules or regulations But at Jesus, that made me into a different person than I was. to me, obedience comes through Faith in Christ. Had to clarify that its His righteousness that brings blessing, and obedience even is a result of His Grace in imparting that to me. obedience comes through a relationship to Christ, through a relationship with Christ, is our relationship to our Father. and His grace is beyond measure that it changes unrighteous to the righteousness of Christ
 
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venti2015

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hes definitely not a genie or grant my wish thing, But He is absolutely "a rewarder of those who diligently seek him" :) God bless you sister venti !!!

Yes!! He is Our Mighty Creator!! Redeemer!! Just awesome He is :) just awesome...... :)

God bless
 
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venti2015

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Sad is what it is,Deception is the root. Lets pray for those who have a false perception of who our father is xx
We need to, prayers saves someone's soul :)

Luke 23:34
But Jesus was saying, "Father, forgive them; for they do not know what they are doing." And they cast lots, dividing up His garments among themselves.
 

posthuman

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In any case, it cant happen. I will remain here, on the site, fellowshipping with other users and trying to be an encourager on the chat, but I will restrain all future posts on forums to ones on edification and respect of goodwill, and if needed, an opportunity to listen and be a friend.

False expectations. They can be damaging.

:) we should probably all restrain ourselves to that sort of talk.

i'm glad you're not into that Dollar guy or anything -- but you shouldn't be about that $ either. don't even worry about it. none of those things satisfy; they're imitations of real blessings.
i'm not saying God doesn't bless people with material wealth, or that He can't use it, or that it's not in His hand to do so - but real blessings in life are patience, peace in your heart, honor, wisdom, genuine affection.
no amount of 'stuff' or money purchases that. they're found when we stop chasing after material wealth altogether, and run after God.


godliness with contentment is great gain

(1 Timothy 6:6)

contentment. that's what you really want. but

whoever loves money never has enough
(Ecclesiastes 5:10)

those two desires are at odds with each other. this is why you can't serve God and $$$$ -- but learning to be content with little is worth more than any amount of money. praise God if He is teaching you that! i grew up poor, and i thank Him for it; He brought me up caring about and respecting the right things, about wisdom and real treasure, not about 'stuff' or 'vanity' -- thank God for adversity!! through it He builds up our hearts and
minds.
 
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I would say you are aren't subtle but in a good way. From I have seen from you I have noticed that you have a kind of perky heart you know how to have a good laugh and you tend to see things as they are as well. You also seem like the kind of person who would not be afraid to let someone have it, heck if you were my mom I could see you having the death stare if I talked back to you lol. But you also remind of of spring time, you just have life in you it seems.
I'd make a lousy mom. I tend to laugh at and encourage talking back. lol