Tell me how your god did this to you.
Ricky there is a way to handle this situation and responding like this is not the way.
Try to imagine how she feels put your feet in her shoes for a minute. she has had it rough in life really rough maybe even worse than me, not everyone can handle that kind of pain so easily. Her heart still has open wounds and as I said before the wounds of the heart are the hardest and slowest to heal. What she needs to be able to help quicken the healing process is not debates and is not responding to her like this, she needs understanding she needs people who not only know and understand what she is going through and how she is handling it the best she can but people to help her to encourage her to be there for her.
Everyone has been through battles even ppl who had everything given to them in life who have never had to lift a finger or do anything for themselves have wounds inside that are just as important as the wounds I bear or what depleted bears. We all have a blade and a blade is a useful thing it can be used to cut down to harm to kill but it can also be used to heal it can be used and utilized to protect it can be used for anything really depending on the wielder using it.
What kind of blade does need she right now? and what kind of blade are you wielding?