Single men - tired of girl woes?

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AAAPlus said:
This isn't really an option, since I'm offering personalized advice. You tell me what the situation is, I'll give you really good guidance. I could offer general advice as well, but that's for another day.
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Seeing as how I am happily married I'll take a pas on the good guidance. I'll take a pass on the general advice as well.
 
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phil38111 said:
I think the majority of women don't necessarily try to seduce a man. But most women do try to controll a man with sex. Or at least make an attempt to here in the US. Most of the women that tried to actually manipulate or seduce me, already had a man that they lived with. And they didn't want to just leave their man and get with me, so they developed some elaborate plot to make me jealous, or lower my self esteem, and do little manipulative things to make me fall in love with them. That way I'll be chasing them, and they won't look like whores to me for cheating on their spouse.
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Lol well ain't you just the ladykiller? Can't say I've had them problems, but I've seen this scenario paly out a lot. The cheaters, frankly it seems like kind of a game. My good friend whom has stayed with his damsel many years has noticed this too. Basically instead of just breaking up they kinda go tit-for-tat cheating on each other. It's not about them liking you at all, they're just trying to cheat on their lover to get revenge or in some sorta backwards illogic to get them back (I know it don't make logical sense, but this sort of stuff never really does.) Sorta trying to even the score so-to-say, but in reality they both get played and lose in the end.
 
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Or get a lowrider on 14'' Dz. With candy paint and a super clean expensive interior.
 
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GodIsSalvation said:
Lol well ain't you just the ladykiller? Can't say I've had them problems, but I've seen this scenario paly out a lot. The cheaters, frankly it seems like kind of a game. My good friend whom has stayed with his damsel many years has noticed this too. Basically instead of just breaking up they kinda go tit-for-tat cheating on each other. It's not about them liking you at all, they're just trying to cheat on their lover to get revenge or in some sorta backwards illogic to get them back (I know it don't make logical sense, but this sort of stuff never really does.) Sorta trying to even the score so-to-say, but in reality they both get played and lose in the end.
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Thats true, but I remember one woman was genuinely in love with me. She had a boyfriend she lived with. She eventually found out that making me fall in love with her was mission impossible. The thing was, the more she tried to make me fall in love with her, and the less it worked the stronger her feelings grew. God bless her little heart.
 
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tourist said:
You don't need them. You've found your honey.
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true story!!!

at one time, i did ask my single guy friends for advice, but they didn't give much help lol. i left that convo with more questions than answers. lol :eek: but it's all good now :D
 
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kaylagrl said:
Hahahaha! You're young yet. Don't sweat it.I was in my 30s before I dated.I married the second guy I dated,I was in my 40s. You just never know how your life will turn out.
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Yea that's some of the married people's advice that is never really helpful, and if you think about, it's not really advice either lol.

I appreciate the attempt to encourage though, but I ain't got time like that.
 
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melita916 said:
true story!!!

at one time, i did ask my single guy friends for advice, but they didn't give much help lol. i left that convo with more questions than answers. lol :eek: but it's all good now :D
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That's because you trusted in God and had to courage to act when He found the right man for you. :)
 
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GodIsSalvation said:
Yea that's some of the married people's advice that is never really helpful, and if you think about, it's not really advice either lol.

I appreciate the attempt to encourage though, but I ain't got time like that.
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Haha you sound like my sister,she was married years before I was. She wasn't waitin. I didnt have her talent with men though.:(
 
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AAAPlus said:
I want to be able to help someone out without a bunch of other people debating and offering wrong opinions that aren't helpful.
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Hah, as you can see people can offer negative opinions no matter what you post.
 
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kaylagrl said:
Haha you sound like my sister,she was married years before I was. She wasn't waitin. I didnt have her talent with men though.:(
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Lol well I ain't got much talent either. It's not so much I'm trying to be hasty, but I made a promise to basically give up if a way to the woman that my soul loveth is not made plain by the time I'm 30 and to set out upon a quest. But that's kinda personal so I'm going to just leave it at that.
 
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http://www.uncommongoods.com/product/porn-for-women


https://www.pinterest.com/pin/117234396526229764/


zeroturbulence said:
Here's a couple sure ways to boost one's attractiveness to women and get phone#'s for dates..

Just have either a small child or a dog with you when you go out...

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zeroturbulence said:
Here's a couple sure ways to boost one's attractiveness to women and get phone#'s for dates..

Just have either a small child or a dog with you when you go out...

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Preferably the dog, that way you can take it the pound when it grows up! I'm totally kidding! :p
But seriously I wouldn't find myself attracted to a man with a child, doesn't that mean he's with someone? Or married?
 
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a dog or child didn't work for me.

it was a guitar.

lol!
 
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sharkwhales said:
Hah, as you can see people can offer negative opinions no matter what you post.
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Haha so true. That is why I offered to talk about it via private message, so that it doesn't get bogged down with unrelated nonsense, as it's very common for a thread to get completely derailed around here.
 
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