"People can fall from grace because of legalism just as quick as from living deliberately in sin without even wanting to change."
Wow...did you ever hit a nerve! I have always labelled my parents as being extreme legalists. I was not allowed to go to my own high school prom because 'Dancing is a SIN". I was not allowed to shoot a game of pool, have playing cards in my house, and my rock 'n roll music was demonic. If I back-talked to mom, she would shake her fist at me and declare "When you have children some day, I hope they repay you ten times worse than what you say to me." Dad was to say a prayer at my daughter's wedding before the reception began. Suddenly, he looked at me and said "I cannot and will not bless this meal because I see champagne on the table!" They also walked out and left the celebration because I, her father, danced with my daughter! Do I love my parents? Extremely! Are they going to hell for being legalistic? NO...they just make life on this earth a little less enjoyable when they are around. All of that will change in heaven..Their past legalistic ways will be long forgotten.